Daily Problems

Kelly Brown Fraud on Facebook

2009-08-26T23:20:00.000-07:00

Message on Facebook.

From Kelly Brown July 13 at 2:17am
Good Morning i am interested in purchasing your item with no delay,but first? What is the final price of the item? Is the price firm? Will you be accepting a US certified Check as Payment Contact me with the present state of the item and your contact information to mail out the payment to you as soon as possible. Name you want on check:Home Address:City:State:zip code Country:Phone Number/Office Number:PLEASE REPLY ME TO THIS EMAIL ADDRESS kellybrown_1988@yahoo.com Thanks Kelly

That person contacted me through Facebook for the listings I gave. I am selling Men's Jackets, Rial to Women's Winter Coats, J.Crew Jackets and Wool Coats.

I was in need of money at that point, and so I thought maybe this is it. Finally I got my customer, but it was all a scam. I even got a fake Cheque and everything was a fake. Name and Address didn't match, so I had to do a little research. As I surfed through the net I came to know that this is a scam. I had to say something in return, then I e-mailed her back to say that I can't send you this item and I will send her cheque back.

Suddenly, I get an e-mail that she reported a case on FBI website and an FBI agent is going to file the case in court. I became upset and went on the FBI website and reported my case. Then I searched within the FBI website and I found out that there's are plenty of scams like this with other names. That made me feel better because I the way that person contacted me and sent me threatening e-mails I felt guilty as if I was the one doing scam lol.

Anyways, I'm glad to report and would suggest other people to report online abuse and scams immediately since it can help a lot.

Selling 24M-2T Faded Glory Shirts for $1.50

2009-08-06T04:14:00.000-07:00

All of these items are brand new and tagged!
Buy them today at my eBay Store 17th Market

Sky Blue Shirt-sparkling star on front

Faded Glory-pink stripes-short sleeves-24M

Garanimals-gray pants-24m

Faded Glory-orange plain-18m

No checks are accepted, only credit/debit cards, (visa,master etc.) paypal
Visit my store for more information please.

Photobucket Link for E-bay store 17th Market Items

2009-06-11T17:36:00.001-07:00

nothing to write

2009-05-29T21:28:00.000-07:00

just feel like not blogging.

Housewife Weblog

2009-05-08T16:22:00.000-07:00

I found this cool website named Housewife's Weblog. It's got the nutrition facts and lots of humorous pictures. The Blog gives an idea, mostly to married women, about what to expect and how to interact, even how to treat your personal life. It has these links to recipes, news, kid's health, science, urdu poetry, politics, cricket and more.
Sort of what I've written in my blog, but I've got to write more. Click on the link and you'll be amazed how someone could make a great blog about house wives.

Housewife's Weblog

Weather:Dealing with the Heat

2009-04-27T16:06:00.001-07:00

Just two weeks ago we were having this cold windy weather and now suddenly there’s this new temperature giving headache for 4 consecutive days 80 degrees.

I was irritated by cold weather and I wanted cold winds to leave immediately. I had kids’ appointment during these snowy and windy days. Now it’s about time we’ve got a good weather, but it’s not even spring we’re getting high temperatures so early it feels like July already.

Is the global warming affecting so much that the weather is in extremity. The tornadoes are powerful more than ever, hurricanes are severe and at their worst in damaging properties up to New England region.

I see most of the people are not using products that protect our environment and more over these products cost more than a fixed standard product price. Wal-mart has got some cool products on sale this week. Bought Dawn dishwashing liquid for 89 cents.

Weather

Thunder over louisville(short video)

2009-04-23T16:03:00.000-07:00

How we went to see Thunder over Louisville

We went to see the thunder over Louisville just half an hour before it started. There was an air show when five planes flew side by side over the Louisville before Fireworks.

First we went to the boat ramp area in Jeffersonville, then we a few people followed us there and a lot of other followed them there and the parking lot made for trucks and boats was filled with cars.

Then we parked on the grass just like many cars and trucks. Two women sitting in the car saw that we are Asian, they ran from there and we started to laugh. It's just a normal thing to see white people running away from brown skin.

We left the place thinking other people might also run away. Driving in downtown Jeffersonville, we saw cars parked and few parking spaces left were being sold for 15$.

There were motor bikes being parked on the side of roads, lots of people parked on the side of exits and they were running up to the highway side to watch the firework closely.

Finding no place there we took an exit and parked beside a ramp, then got out to make a movie and pictures. Pictures weren't so good but videos rocked. I got no picture to post since the pictures of the firework were messy.

My husband said we need to leave before the streets and highways get jammed. We really did not want to get stuck in the traffic. So we took off from the exit ramp to Indianapolis Highway 65. There were lots of cars following us and there was a race against time. It was time when a lot of people started leaving for home. We watched the last ten minutes of show on our way to home. We were happy we left early and got home on time with kids.

This was the best show of fireworks ever. I would definitely say people should come across the country to see it.

walmart, grandmothers and kids

2009-04-17T12:13:00.000-07:00

Grandmothers and kids

Thing that upsets a mother is when her children eat sugar or sweets. My kids like cake a lot and eat more than they eat their usual meal. Chocolate cereal, chocolate milk, and chocolate cake, all of the above are kid's favorite. If I don't get these things for kids, they report it immediately to the high court of grandmothers!

Already possessing high authority in family these grandmothers spoil their grand children too much. My son always grabs the phone from my hand just to talk to his grandmother to bake a cake. And he tells his another grandmother about how much I scold him over eating chocolate or drinking coke. Still I get away by saying, " it's not good for him at this age." :)

Ok so may be I am too much worried about their dental and physical health that's what makes me alert when I see chocolate in Walmart register.

Walmart

I just dislike it, why do they put chocolate at the register. My son and not only him, but also my husband, he also gets musketeer and twix. Oh well what the heck let me confess, I grab one dove chocolates too. Still I think they should stop doing that or else parents might run out of money one day.

Chik-Fil-A The best chiken

2009-04-03T16:24:00.000-07:00

The best place to eat. It tastes just like home-made meals.

Me and my husband liked the Chik-Fil-A sandwich entree' and the meal.

Chik-Fil-A nuggets tasted real good, spices were just the right mount and weren't salty.

Mcdonald's Mcnuggets; I'm never going to try them again. They have so much oil in them.

Chik-Fil-A cooks it's patties and nuggets in peanut oil. That's trans fat free and cholesterol free.

I think I am starting to advertise, but the truth is that it's different taste has made me it's customer whom they'll see two or three times a month.

KFC - Purple Chicken pot pie

2009-04-03T16:21:00.000-07:00

I used to visit my local KFC especially for chicken pot pie which is seasonal. Last winter season ordered chicken pot pie and it was made fresh, it was tasty.

This winter season, KFC chicken pot pie didn't tasted good. The chicken was raw and so were the vegetables. I thought it can happen one time. But no it happened each time I got chicken pot pie.

One day the chicken in the chicken pot pie was purple and I noticed that three times I bought chicken pot pie, the chicken in it was purple and tasted bad.It smelled bad too, weird way that I had to throw away each time I got that kind of chicken. The vegies were hard to chew.

Now I don't buy chicken pot pie, last time I bought it made me sick to the stomach that I didn't want to eat anything anymore.

worst pot pie ever made by KFC.

Pizza Hut problem

2009-04-03T15:52:00.000-07:00

The sweet meal deal is the best one out there. For 23$ including delivery=tax you get two medium pizzas, breadsticks and hershey dunkers.

I ordered a sweet meal deal from pizza as usual. It was 10:00 P.M. and the Pizza Hut located on grantline road always makes their deliveries quick and the pizzas are always in good condition. (never burned)

I received a call back from Pizza Hut saying they don't deliver pizza's to this apartment during evening hours. I said ok and then I asked why, what was the reason? The girl said that it was order from the manager and there was some incident with one of their deliverers which happened during night time in our apartment area. I had to cancel my order then.

Again I ordered for the sweet meal deal before night time, it was one hour before sunset. Then I received the call saying I can order some other time. I said it's not even night time. He replied that the manager of Pizza Hut has ordered deliverers not visit our apartments during evening hours that start from 6:00 p.m. Now I had to ask again what is the reason, was there anything bad that happened? He said just the manager said no to deliver. Ok then I had to cancel the order.

I don't know if it's happening else where but that was something I didn't expect and the reason or the incident. I still don't know what had happened to one of the deliverer.

Other pizza restaurants such as Papa Johns, Dominos do not provide two medium pizza with breadsticks and hershey dunkers.

Discussing, Arguing, Fighting,Seperation, Divorce[Husband and Wife]

2009-04-02T14:34:00.000-07:00

Arguements and Fights

This is a matter of marital longevity. Arguements don't mean it has to end with fights, seperation or cheating on one another.

The belief in love keeps everything on the right path. If you think you are right then think the same for you partner. He's also thinking he's right about what he says. Main issue is agreeing to one thing and accepting the reality of the matter.

There's no way one partner is right and another one is wrong. Always put yourself in the confession box, talking about how you feel and think for him/her.

You can't always be making mistakes, but mistake is once and repeating means you're commited to it. Stop arguing and fighting just listen to one another. Keep a policy of being honest, and be trustworthy.

These are the simplest yet the best advice anyone can give.

Remember never to harm your partner in anyway whether it's emotionally, physically, or verbally. Always discuss the matter with each other and not in front of your kids. Kids take parent's discussions as fights and changes their view of life as a parent.

Kids love their mother and watching her getting hurt in any manner may trigger hate for the father deep in their hearts. That is much harder to see but in the long run it shows who kids love the most.

Never be too possessive of your partner, they are yours for sure, but they are not your property. Treat them as you want yourself to be treated well.

Privacy or letting go of your spouse?

Giving privacy to your partner means seperation while living in the same house. So share and be part of each other's activities. Always support your partner and don't lie to make them feel good except that be sincere and help them out.

What you do with best friends? You like to share your feelings and thoughts. Well spouse is much more than that. Spouse is someone you can talk about everything you have done in life and you can discuss a lot more than you can share with a sincere friend.

You spouse keeps your words secret and never talks bad about you behind your back. She/He takes care of you more than anything in this world.

Know one thing that when you see an argument starting, stop and listen to your partner. Listen to what he/she is feeling and thinking. Make them aware of how much you love them. Express your love before it's too late to do so.

Always know people who want you two seperated

Beware of those people who know you're discussions with your spouse. Don't let others interfere otherwise Divorce or seperation is eminent. This is the worst thing to do to invite others help, you can only do that when things get out of hand such as beating, harrassing and violent fights have occured.

Lots of people enjoy talking about couple's fights and arguements, don't involve these people who envy your love life and life style. You will know these people as your comforters when you're in distress after an arguement, don't believe someone else is going to help you and partner get together.

Most of the people enter a couple's home to cause distraction, then ignite a issue over which couples fight. For example, someone says you're not a caring wife, or mother in front of your husband. Well you might be trying or stuggling with all the daily chores, you might not notice why someone is doing that in front of your husband, but it is to make notice in his view that you're not able to handle the work. This is start of hate that takes place in a husband's view that someone has said the thing he didn't notice.

Same for the wife that someone close to you may spark an arguement between you and your husband for their own benefit or for just the fun of it. So becareful and don't let these people to make fun of your love life.

A woman is told that your husband doesn't earn well enough. The question is why is this matter raised ? For what reason people give value to those with money and not those who have nothing.

Becoming more than just spouse

A husband is a wife's best friend and wife is best friend for her husband. They are partner for good and bad times. Being there for each other shows their devotion for love.

Arguements over money usage shouldn't happen. You can both agree that understanding and compromising on the budget is helpful.

Remember never to threaten your spouse, or harrass. Never hurt your spouse, always keep your hands away from your spouse's body when in an arguement. Use low tone and make your spouse calm by asking politely, "have a seat," ..." I am listening."

Don't ignore, neglect your spouse's feelings or wishes. It would only hurt you in the end. Be true to your self , you'll be true to your partner.

Intentions are never inside you, they'll make their way out in an instance during discussion. So don't hold any grudges and make sure your intentions are always good for you and your partner.

Ask for forgiveness from your partner, be polite while asking. Repenting is good thing to do. It's hard to be good and the easiest thing would the opposite, bad.

While advancing our ways in the technology field, we have forgotton relationships and never advanced in that area. How to solve matters without a fight and how to make your spouse happy with you. These are the questions that need attention in our lives.

We must be very responsible when it comes to handling such delicate relations. If we can give more time to anything, more than work and friends, it should be given to the spouse who deserves it.

Don't gather excuses for doing sins

Some people use lust as an excuse and follow wrong people into going astray. Cheating on your spouse is the wrongful and sinful thing to do.

One who loves you and devotes his/her life to you does it with sincere it. If you seek your spouse as a cheater then gather evidence and witnesses. And if you are sincere you should leave him/her after giving proof of his cheating and you will find someone better than him/her. Or you can forgive and forget, if he/she promises to be obedient.

Domestic violence

Just go through law, it's your right not to get beaten. Tell your local community if things get worse than they were before. Let everyone know of your spouse's violent acts such as harrassing you, playing with your emotions, and trying to force you into illegal sex or rape.

Take shelter at any friend's place or government shelters immediately. Never wait for help to arrive. These issues are not normal and shouldn't happen to anyone. Domestic violence is a global issue. It is happening all around the world to women mostly.

call your local hotline, and/or call the National Domestic Violence Hotline at 1-800-799-SAFE (7233) or TTY 1-800-787-3224 or visit this website for more help understanding the truth about domestic violence http://www.ndvh.org/

Frozen Meat, what's wrong with raw green chillies?

2009-03-30T14:28:00.000-07:00

The food we eat is really healthy for a human. I hate to say that but without the spices and herbs, our breakfast, lunch, dinner, desert is no more than a tasteless roast.

I've tried eating Chinese, and American fast food. Even had pizza's, subs, and home made roasts. Mexican foods has raw spices which made my stomach hurt.

All I wanted now was the food I eat at home that's originally mixture of Pakistani and Indian food. I didn't know Indians eat the very same meal we had until I had dinner at Shalimar Restaurant and India Palace. These are the only ones we've been to in past 6 months.

Still we can't afford to go there each time we eat. So I got Shan Masalas from Patel Brother's Store located in Louisville,KY. Now I read the recipe's instructions, how to prepare and serve. Sometimes the food is hard to make when the meat is frozen.

In U.S. we get fresh beef and boneless chicken that we can make when we bring it home, but whole chicken, cut up, quarterlegs and legs are always sold frozen.

It all needs 12 hours on the kitchen counter to defrost. Using microwave might start to cook the sides of the pieces and may do little to defrost the inner part. Cooking frozen food may still be raw after an hour spent on stove.

I've made chicken stew once from a frozen meat and it was awful. I wish I could turn back time to save that dinner by defrosting chicken for 12 hrs outside the fridge.

Another thing that I need to say is that marinade meat for three hours after defrosting. Frozen meat can't be marinade, it does not take in the spices.

Always use 3 tablespoon of yogurt and Shan Masala just right enough for the meat. If you add too much of yogurt it might make the meat sour.

Using too much onion for masala makes it sweet, so add onions equal to the amount of tomatoes. Add garlic and ginger, fry them until golden. Never add them after onions are fried and before adding tomatoes. Cook masala by adding little water each time it dries up, until it's color changes. Too much of anything spoils the food.

So just be careful and not to spice up the food too much that it damages your stomach and small intestine. I don't think that I've read it in any Indian or Pakistani website saying that too much green chilies and ground red chillies damages your small intestines, makes you prone to High Blood Pressure in the late ages. Becareful and not to put raw red or green chillies in your meal.

I'll be post recipes that aren't from Shan Masala packages, because most of the websites are doing that and people don't even notice the similarity between it.

Saving money on wet wipes

2009-03-30T14:16:00.000-07:00

I used to buy expensive wet wipes which costs me $5.00 plus tax each time and coupons only saved me $1.00.

So then I thought there must be a place where I can get wet wipes for less prices, because I can't wipe $5 each time. I went to Big Lots it's a local store here in southern Indiana. It has clothes, socks, cutlery, crockery for less price. I went there and started looking for baby stuff. I found out that they have wet wipes for $1.00. I bought three and spent $3.00 on that. I bought that each time wet wipes were finished, still I knew I was spending the same amount in a month or so.

I often visit Dollar Tree in our local plaza. It had the same amount of wet wipes just as the $5.00 ones. That's saving! I thought. I got the wet wipes and that really helped me a lot.

Dollar Tree saved me $4 each month. In recession time, all people want to save and so do I. That's how we can make it together. Helping out by blogging, giving out information.

If there's anything for free, it's a wash cloth that you buy for once and water. I wash baby's bottom wipe with a damp wash cloth which is almost as same as washing with water. Whichever is good for women with little infants.
Please do comment on my blog if you read.

Clothes

2009-03-30T14:05:00.000-07:00

I was having a problem with clothing and high prices. This one skirt for my little girl costs $14.00 at Walmart and even on sale the clothes were not less than $3-$5.

I was visiting my local store Ben Franlin. I started window shopping, I wasn't really going to buy anything until I went into the clothes department. I bought 1 yard of the cloth for $3.40. Then I got home and started to cut that cloth by looking at the skirt I bought from Walmart.

I was shocked when I made three skirts out of one yard for $3.40. All I had to do was convince my husband to get me a sewing machine. This year when we got our Tax return, we bought Singer's sewing machine.

Now I sew my daughter's clothing at home and save money at home. Only thing I can't sew is her jeans. If I could only learn how to do that I would definitely start sewing in an instant ;)

That's the only way a woman can help herself save some money.

Baby Formula

2009-03-30T13:01:00.001-07:00

There's a new formula that costs less than the popular brand name formula.

Parent's Choice! I had to go for Parent's choice formula. It was only $13.00 while Enfamil and other brands were $27.00.

I had tried getting formula on vouchers from WIC program of southern Indiana. That was helpful with my second child, but third time I couldn't make appointments so often, gathering and providing information every time they ask.

After having my third child, I thought I could do more breast-feeding if possible for baby's good health. Everything was going as it should until suddenly my routine got rough and tough. As my little girl needed more time to fill her tummy, I couldn't give that much time with two elder kids. For them I'm their Pre-school teacher at home.

I've started giving my 4 month old girl Nido that is whole milk with vitamins and minerals. I give Nido as supplement not all the time. She's more active than my other two kids were at this age.

It's really a choice for mothers. How much time they can give their children when breast-feeding. No one has the right to force a mother to stop or keep breast-feeding. That's always how you feel good about it. But I would still suggest young mothers and women with three or more kids to breast-feed as long as they like.

Unless you start to feel exhausted and weak after breast-feeding that only points to one things that is your health. If you do not eat meals as you did during your pregnancy, your health will start to fall. Deficiency of breast-feeding woman takes a long time to recover from the loss of calcium and iron. It's always good to talk with your doctor about your health after delivery. And mothers always know what's best for their children.

Difference between expensive Milk and cheap one

2009-03-30T12:50:00.000-07:00

The way high prices have messed up our budget, we're always looking for low price products. Daily products such as milk, cereal and vegetables.

There's a store in our area of Lousiville, it's name is ALDI. As I've seen that it's price for the milk is $1.50. Price for the milk at that store went up to $3.00 but it came back to $1.89 still cheaper than what other stores offered for $3.49-$4.00. So I started buying milk from that store for less price.

What happened was really suspicious. I heated that milk in microwave oven for 2 mins and it heated up too much. I was suprised because that didn't happen with the Kroger's milk I used to buy before. It didn't heat much in 2 mins so what was the reason behind that.

Well, few days later I heated a cup of water for my tea, it got hot in a minute. There, I got it. Aldi's milk that is sold for less has more water than it has milk. That's why the taste of the milk was different and it looked less white than the other brands too.

You get nothing for less money. Now I buy milk from Walmart. I think if there's anything that is original and cheap it's Walmart brand.

Wives and Moms

2009-03-30T12:38:00.001-07:00

This will be one of my favorite blog because this isn't going to be about politics, movies and any other topic. It is going to be on my personal experience of baby products that I've used for my kids all four years.

I proved myself as dumb as a cow can be. I never thought being a mother was a tough. Watching my mother do all those things I thought when I'd be a mom one day I'll be the best one there is.

So this blog will probably help new moms.

And how it's going to help wives is most important thing now days since there aren't enough mothers getting support from their families and friends. On their own they're trying to make their husband a meal that's just about perfect.

But don't worry be happy, I am going to include my favorite dinner recipes' here on the blog. I've heard from my family and husband that I make the best meals, so why not share?

I'll be posting baby products that you shouldn't use and should use. It's all based on my children's reaction to with these ready-to-eat meals. I really hate to say for time savers, don't buy that meal for the sake of your children's health. It only makes them get used to it, and they won't try home-made goodies later on.