Getting Your Ex Back - Comments http://www.backtogetherforever.com/blog Guest comments on getting your ex back and surviving a breakup. First-hand comments from others. Wed, 19 Oct 2011 02:54:22 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.1 Comment on Signs Your Partner Is Losing Interest by Sad http://www.backtogetherforever.com/blog/2009/09/partner-losing-interest/comment-page-1/#comment-3123 Sad Wed, 19 Oct 2011 02:54:22 +0000 http://www.backtogetherforever.com/blog/?p=324#comment-3123 My bf has been very cold to me, I've tried every possible way to get things hyped up. Unfortunately, he ignores it. He's only interested in sex. WHY? My bf has been very cold to me, I’ve tried every possible way to get things hyped up. Unfortunately, he ignores it. He’s only interested in sex. WHY?


]]> Comment on Signs Your Partner Is Losing Interest by Anonymous http://www.backtogetherforever.com/blog/2009/09/partner-losing-interest/comment-page-1/#comment-3114 Anonymous Sat, 16 Apr 2011 19:57:26 +0000 http://www.backtogetherforever.com/blog/?p=324#comment-3114 I'm experiencing the same thing... only i get this feeling that he's not interested and possibly cheating but I ignore it, I know it's probably right. I have some days off. He tells me i don't have to work this day or this day and I get excited because I would jump at any chance to be able to spend time with him without work getting in the way. But lately on the days he tells me he has off... he springs it on me and says oh i have to work tomorrow. I would believe it if he would stick to his story. One time he said i have to work this day at 12am to 6pm. At 12 he wasn't even dressed for work..and when i said don't you have work he goes..i said 12:30... but I'll probably be late they wont mind. Lately he's also stopped initiating sex with me. I never deny him, I just think he's bored and what he doesn't realize is I'm bored with our sex life too but he doesn't really ever want to have sex to give me the chance to try new things with him. We share a computer and recently I found porn sites on the history, and on occasions he will go into the bathroom to relieve himself of the sexual tension. I guess he'd much rather masturbate than have sex with me. I just don't get why he doesn't want to have sex when he's in his twenties and i know he loves sex. I always catch him staring at woman. I'm just in denial i guess. I just love him so much. :[ I’m experiencing the same thing… only i get this feeling that he’s not interested and possibly cheating but I ignore it, I know it’s probably right.

I have some days off. He tells me i don’t have to work this day or this day and I get excited because I would jump at any chance to be able to spend time with him without work getting in the way. But lately on the days he tells me he has off… he springs it on me and says oh i have to work tomorrow. I would believe it if he would stick to his story. One time he said i have to work this day at 12am to 6pm. At 12 he wasn’t even dressed for work..and when i said don’t you have work he goes..i said 12:30… but I’ll probably be late they wont mind.

Lately he’s also stopped initiating sex with me. I never deny him, I just think he’s bored and what he doesn’t realize is I’m bored with our sex life too but he doesn’t really ever want to have sex to give me the chance to try new things with him. We share a computer and recently I found porn sites on the history, and on occasions he will go into the bathroom to relieve himself of the sexual tension. I guess he’d much rather masturbate than have sex with me.

I just don’t get why he doesn’t want to have sex when he’s in his twenties and i know he loves sex.

I always catch him staring at woman.

I’m just in denial i guess. I just love him so much. :[


]]> Comment on Real Life Couples – A Relationship Exposed by mark http://www.backtogetherforever.com/blog/2009/06/real-life-couples/comment-page-1/#comment-3113 mark Thu, 24 Mar 2011 13:57:21 +0000 http://www.backtogetherforever.com/blog/?p=136#comment-3113 How true for the comment of being nice. I had a good relationship going and respected her. But once I started being nice she saw it as a type of weakness and moved on. I don't understand it completely but it's true and all women are different. I'll be careful next time in how I show my appreciation before they take it the wrong way. She mistook my caring attitude towards her. I have learned from this because of her. How true for the comment of being nice. I had a good relationship going and respected her. But once I started being nice she saw it as a type of weakness and moved on.

I don’t understand it completely but it’s true and all women are different.

I’ll be careful next time in how I show my appreciation before they take it the wrong way. She mistook my caring attitude towards her. I have learned from this because of her.


]]> Comment on Dumpee’s Not Playing The Cool Cat by MARY http://www.backtogetherforever.com/blog/2010/05/dumpees-not-playing-the-cool-cat/comment-page-1/#comment-3112 MARY Tue, 08 Mar 2011 19:42:11 +0000 http://www.backtogetherforever.com/blog/?p=558#comment-3112 What's the longest an ex should take to contact you after sending the "Closure Letter"? When should I give up? What’s the longest an ex should take to contact you after sending the “Closure Letter”? When should I give up?


]]> Comment on Brilliant Reason To Email Your Ex! by James Kern http://www.backtogetherforever.com/blog/2009/11/emailing-your-ex/comment-page-1/#comment-3111 James Kern Sat, 12 Feb 2011 01:09:10 +0000 http://www.backtogetherforever.com/blog/?p=386#comment-3111 Sure can! Send the above video link. Don't go into a deep and long email though... just a few words to say "hi". That's what I would do. Sure can! Send the above video link. Don’t go into a deep and long email though… just a few words to say “hi”.

That’s what I would do.


]]> Comment on Brilliant Reason To Email Your Ex! by emo http://www.backtogetherforever.com/blog/2009/11/emailing-your-ex/comment-page-1/#comment-3110 emo Fri, 11 Feb 2011 21:31:55 +0000 http://www.backtogetherforever.com/blog/?p=386#comment-3110 Ok what if we had a big fight and none contacted the other for like two months, can I still send the ( “no-strings attached” friendly email ) ??? Ok what if we had a big fight and none contacted the other for like two months, can I still send the ( “no-strings attached” friendly email ) ???


]]> Comment on Signs Your Partner Is Losing Interest by James Kern http://www.backtogetherforever.com/blog/2009/09/partner-losing-interest/comment-page-1/#comment-3109 James Kern Fri, 11 Feb 2011 01:54:13 +0000 http://www.backtogetherforever.com/blog/?p=324#comment-3109 Hello Rhiana, In the early stages of any relationship, there will always be that heart-throbbing feeling and is what's known as the "honeymoon period". You experienced this when your boyfriend would text message you out of the blue and so on. This doesn't last. Sooner or later, relationships have to deal with the more mundane issues in life. Just because your boyfriend doesn't pamper you as much as he once did, doesn't mean his love for you is even less. Don't be too demanding on him. Don't threaten him you'll leave. He doesn't want to play these games. Instead, plan fun activities and excursions together. Grow together through playing together. If you start acting childish and demanding more than he is happy to give, then your relationship will sour. So please be cafeful. Enjoy your weekend. Hello Rhiana,

In the early stages of any relationship, there will always be that heart-throbbing feeling and is what’s known as the “honeymoon period”. You experienced this when your boyfriend would text message you out of the blue and so on.

This doesn’t last. Sooner or later, relationships have to deal with the more mundane issues in life.

Just because your boyfriend doesn’t pamper you as much as he once did, doesn’t mean his love for you is even less.

Don’t be too demanding on him. Don’t threaten him you’ll leave. He doesn’t want to play these games. Instead, plan fun activities and excursions together. Grow together through playing together.

If you start acting childish and demanding more than he is happy to give, then your relationship will sour. So please be cafeful.

Enjoy your weekend.


]]> Comment on Signs Your Partner Is Losing Interest by Rhiana http://www.backtogetherforever.com/blog/2009/09/partner-losing-interest/comment-page-1/#comment-3108 Rhiana Wed, 09 Feb 2011 13:54:54 +0000 http://www.backtogetherforever.com/blog/?p=324#comment-3108 I have been feeling like my partner is losing interest, we have been together over 4 years. He has always been very loving, and he still cuddles me alot and tells me he loves me everyday as we go off to work, but I find myself saying it more than him! and sometimes when I say I love you very much, he replies good! I may challenge that and say why is it good? and he will say I wouldn't want it to be unrequented love. The problem is I am quite insecure and I have always been jealous <em>(even when I have no need to be)</em> but I'm sure recently, we went to my work do <em>(he never met these people before)</em> and I am sure I saw him looking at one of my very attractive colleagues! I asked him he said I was looking in that general direction <em>(which could of been true as it was busy)</em>. The main worry is he doesn't text me anymore unless I text first! He is in a slightly busier job now, but he started working there 7 months ago and a few months ago he use to send me loving texts, in the middle of the day for no reason! I mentioned this to him yesterday he didn't say much just that it's not so easy to sneak of and text in this job! But how hard is it to send a quick text? he just isn't thinking about me I guess?! What do you think? I have been very down lately and threatened him I was leaving, and that he didn't love me enough. But that backfired as he didn't cry or anything just said I haven't got time for your tantrums!! I have been feeling like my partner is losing interest, we have been together over 4 years. He has always been very loving, and he still cuddles me alot and tells me he loves me everyday as we go off to work, but I find myself saying it more than him! and sometimes when I say I love you very much, he replies good! I may challenge that and say why is it good? and he will say I wouldn’t want it to be unrequented love.

The problem is I am quite insecure and I have always been jealous (even when I have no need to be) but I’m sure recently, we went to my work do (he never met these people before) and I am sure I saw him looking at one of my very attractive colleagues!

I asked him he said I was looking in that general direction (which could of been true as it was busy).

The main worry is he doesn’t text me anymore unless I text first! He is in a slightly busier job now, but he started working there 7 months ago and a few months ago he use to send me loving texts, in the middle of the day for no reason! I mentioned this to him yesterday he didn’t say much just that it’s not so easy to sneak of and text in this job! But how hard is it to send a quick text? he just isn’t thinking about me I guess?!

What do you think? I have been very down lately and threatened him I was leaving, and that he didn’t love me enough. But that backfired as he didn’t cry or anything just said I haven’t got time for your tantrums!!


]]> Comment on Signs Your Ex Is Not Over You by James Kern http://www.backtogetherforever.com/blog/2009/06/signs-ex-not-over-you/comment-page-1/#comment-3106 James Kern Sun, 09 Jan 2011 07:47:28 +0000 http://www.backtogetherforever.com/blog/?p=187#comment-3106 Hi Minnie, You mentioned that you've gotten over him. Well perhaps, he's gotten over you now too. What do you want from your ex? Friendship or to develop a relationship again? Only once you know this answer, can you take the appropriate moves. I doubt very much your ex hates you. Judging by your post, both you and your ex haven't done anything wrong towards each other. Perhaps the 2 of you have just grown apart. Hi Minnie,

You mentioned that you’ve gotten over him. Well perhaps, he’s gotten over you now too.

What do you want from your ex? Friendship or to develop a relationship again? Only once you know this answer, can you take the appropriate moves.

I doubt very much your ex hates you. Judging by your post, both you and your ex haven’t done anything wrong towards each other. Perhaps the 2 of you have just grown apart.


]]> Comment on Signs Your Ex Is Not Over You by Minnie Dassen http://www.backtogetherforever.com/blog/2009/06/signs-ex-not-over-you/comment-page-1/#comment-3105 Minnie Dassen Sun, 09 Jan 2011 04:31:44 +0000 http://www.backtogetherforever.com/blog/?p=187#comment-3105 I dated this boy for one year and one month. It was kind of a long distant relationship, but it worked out pretty well. We both ski so that's how we know each other. We live 4 hours apart, and we don't have our licenses. We might be young, but nothing can beat those memories we shared. Yes, I did love him. But, when my parents told me I wasn't going to any ski camps this summer, that meant I wasn't going to see my boy all summer. It killed us when we weren't with each other for a really long time. It was going to be more than 7 months if we waited! But, since it was too unbearable, we decided to take a break till November. It's January. I see him everyday. I kind of got over him, but it took a lot of other guys to get me over him. 8 to be exact. Everyone always asks me what I feel about seeing him everyday, and I just say that I don't really care. However, whenever people ask him, he says that I'm an annoying b**** and hates that he goes to the same school as me. I didn't really care at first, but as I thought about him more, I started to miss him. I want to talk to him, and every time I make small talk, he doesn't really respond accordingly. But, he is shy.. So I'm not sure. I want to say something to me but I feel like he actually does hate me. Do you think he's over me... I dated this boy for one year and one month. It was kind of a long distant relationship, but it worked out pretty well. We both ski so that’s how we know each other. We live 4 hours apart, and we don’t have our licenses. We might be young, but nothing can beat those memories we shared. Yes, I did love him. But, when my parents told me I wasn’t going to any ski camps this summer, that meant I wasn’t going to see my boy all summer. It killed us when we weren’t with each other for a really long time. It was going to be more than 7 months if we waited! But, since it was too unbearable, we decided to take a break till November.

It’s January. I see him everyday. I kind of got over him, but it took a lot of other guys to get me over him. 8 to be exact. Everyone always asks me what I feel about seeing him everyday, and I just say that I don’t really care. However, whenever people ask him, he says that I’m an annoying b**** and hates that he goes to the same school as me.

I didn’t really care at first, but as I thought about him more, I started to miss him. I want to talk to him, and every time I make small talk, he doesn’t really respond accordingly. But, he is shy.. So I’m not sure. I want to say something to me but I feel like he actually does hate me.

Do you think he’s over me…


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