Career Development & Academic Success: Discover your purpose and design your own plan.

Why many Unemployed are Throwing in the Towel...

2009-07-23T10:22:00.002-05:00

It's been months and it seems that the economy is getting further and further in disarray. On an average, there were more than 700,000 jobs lost a month. Staggering statistics don't bring a lot of hope to people who looking for income to support themselves, their families, and worst of all, their bills. Yahoo! Finance stated that people have given up because of discouragement. Either sickness, going back to school, and family responsiblities are sending people over the edge of worklessness. States such as North Dakota, Mississippi, and New York are among the many areas of the USA that are on the brink of lost hope of finding a job.

Are people looking and applying? Yes they are. Are people being interviewed? Yes they are.

Certain factors according to this article has been perceived, such as lack of jobs via geographical areas, men are giving up more than women, and lack of positions that match their personal financial obligations. Networking, career workshops, and planning are key essentials to developing more confidence in these difficult times.

Contact: jbutler@purposeandplan.org for questions. Please leave comments on the website. Thank you!

Source: http://finance.yahoo.com/news/States-Where-the-Unemployed-usnews-3479448580.html?x=0

Your Dragging Feet: Procrastination is the Thief of Time

2009-07-16T12:22:00.003-05:00

So how do you see the daily activities of your week? Overwhelming, relaxing, stressful, uneventful? However you see your time spent or the schedule before you, you got to get things done.

My father always stated this saying, procrastination is the thief of time. Your lagging, your putting off, your throwing things on the backburner can be detrimental in your life. Your professional growth depends on you taking charge, grouping your strategy, and making it happen. But your feet won't move!

Procrastination was a huge part of my life in college and new post-graduate life. I hated to do anything that required me to do tooo much. But I learned that unless I did the task, it was going to stay right there until I got my lazy booty up and completed it. Now, I make a to-do list and I scratch each task off. At the end of the day, I am satisfied at my day's productivity. So, ask yourself what are YOU putting off until tomorrow???

*Your resume.
*School/Degree Pursuit
*Weight Management
*Your Studying
*Reading

Don't let your laziness steal your production.

Job Jumpers: New trend in Modern Career Style

2009-06-16T10:10:00.003-05:00

Are the days gone when you graduated from college and you were hired at your dream job, staying there for at least 10 years before you went further up the career ladder? Our generation is known as the microwave, pop generation. Instant gratification is normal feeling of the younger generations, because we believe that "right now" and entitlement will bring us comfort and success. Many people jump jobs for various reasons:

*More money
*Better benefits
*Better incentives
*Favorable Hours
*Boredom
*Bad Upper Management
*Workplace Bullying
*More experience
*Position Title
*Hate their current job
*Career Changes

Nevertheless, it is good to have a stable job history. There are a few employers who look at job jumping at being a red flag. They feel that you will leave, especially if you are overqualified and overexperienced. It could also mean that you cannot maintain or handle authority. Now circumstances may arise, but also make sure that your "job jumping" is accounted for.

People ask me..."is this a good time to change jobs?"

Now, we are in the middle of a recession of course, and it's a huge blessing that you have a job. If there are no talks of downsizing or layoffs, then you are fine. Keep doing the best you can do at what you do at your current position.

"is this a good time to change careers?"

Maybe, but it depends. Most people are looking for 100% pure "recession-proof jobs". To tell you the truth...there is no such thing. Even healthcare is seeing a downgrading of nurses, physical therapists, and other healthcare professionals. But not as severe as your administrative/clerical, financial services, and other lower level employees. Now there are careers out there that may be more stable, but not recession proof...everyone knows you can probably strike gold in healthcare, education, & energy-efficient careers.

When you jump, jump with a plan. If you have a job now, stay put, but make a plan. Go to school part time, get a certification or license, take some additional classes.

There is going to be a little time before the job market becomes flooded again, so take note that a plan is worth your time. Think about where you want to be professionally and build upon that.

3 More Quarters to GO!! I'm a Capella Learner!

2009-06-14T07:47:00.004-05:00

Oh how I kicked my feet up on June 12, 2009 when I submitted my last assignment to my Ethics class at Capella University as I finished up my Spring quarter. I'm not going to lie, taking 2 classes this quarter was very very challenging. For this reason, I had to put my coaching practice on hold. After all, school's first right? After I got off to a great start, somewhere around the middle, I lost focus. I had no idea what exactly was going on at the time, but I knew that I was getting behind on schedule. Time management was definitely a struggle, but I had to pull myself by my bootstraps and get with the program. I really got my husband involved to help out as much as possible on housework and the baby. Every quarter up until now, I only took a single class....

With my husband pitching in even more, I was sure to do alright. I started getting back on schedule with my courses, but it certainly wasn't easy to do so. Online learning does take energy and discipline. In fact, I have to have more discipline now than undergrad...why ??? Because in undergrad, I lived in a single world, in a messy dorm, with no job, and no real obligations. Dinners consisted of Ramen Noodles and cheese toast, and my alarm clock served a minimum purpose....to alarm me, I can get 20 more minutes of sleep before I wake up and drag my slippered feet to my 8am class.

Now, I have a family, a career, other outside community obligations. It's a little difficult to have everything in line and be in school at the same time. But if you are determined, you can do it. You just have to tweak things a little. That's why I suggest to people with families or kids, get someone to help you as much as possible. Having social and moral support is extremely essential to succeeding in distance education.

So how do I like online learning? I love it, it makes sense for me to go to school online. I'm a woman on the go and I want to do things on my own time. I go to class when I can sit down and concentrate. Not on Tuesdays and Thursdays for 2.5 hours in the evening. I don't knock graduate students who attend brick and mortar schools at all. But I save on gas, I save on commuting in bumper traffic, save on babysitting and time with my family, and I get an accredited and acceptable degree on top of all that.

The only thing is, if you can deal with not having an instructor in front of you, then you can do it. Email and phone calls are best communication methods with instructors, not bad if you can wait a day or two on an answer.

In 3 quarters, I will be a recipient of the Master of Science degree in Counseling at Capella University. I do not have long, I cannot wait. Next quarter, I will have 2 more to complete... Survey of Research Methodology & Life Planning/Career Development.

Drive to Your Purpose...Part I

2009-06-10T14:11:00.004-05:00

It's the time, to follow your heart. Look into your eyes in the mirror, and I'm not kidding.... look into your eyes. Examine yourself and think about where you are now. Really think about it. Do you get upset? Do you get frustrated? Do you actually scrunch up your mouth? What about the shaking of the head? You got the tools you say....you have some experience....you have ideas. But you say, "I'm too old", "I have children", "I have debts", "No one will take me seriously".

Everywhere people make excuses and they push plans and dreams further away out of fear. Your dreams are your motivation, or should they be? Many times we get excited when we daydream about the lives we want. So what is it going to take for you to get off your tushy and get with the program??

A famous theorist named Carl Rogers, who formulated the person-centered theory, discusses the actual self and the idea self. The actual self describes who we are now. The ideal self is who the person who we desire to become in the future. Focus on the ideal self and go from there. What thoughts do you have concerning your "ideal self"? Homework for the week! Consider this a free career/ed coaching session.

Focus on the ideal self and write 3 things that you would love to complete by the end of 2010. Post in the comment section! Feel free to email me for any questions you may have, no charge! Email: jbutler@purposeandplan.org

Pervins, Oliver (2004). Theories of Personality. Hoboken: Wiley & Sons, Inc.

Fear of Failure in your Next Professional Move: Conquer it!

2009-06-06T23:34:00.002-05:00

So you have ideas, you got your finger on a promotion, you have done so much to try to get ahead, maybe you are thinking about returning to school after a long drought...

The uncertainties of our future plague us, so much to think about, so much to inquire, but how do you live like "Nike", and just "DO IT"??

*Get a strong support system in your corner. Most people have tried so many different professional ventures that people have "stopped having faith" in them. So what do you do if this happens? There are so many online forums and literature to read to get you motivated. Not having any positive thoughts could very well kill your pursuit and you may be more prone to giving up prematurely.

*Have a strong plan in line. For some, acting before planning can be fate, however, not planning at all could be a downfall and greater chance is, that you may fail. Write down a plan that will serve as a blueprint for your professional future, whether it's for a business, college enrollment, or applying for a new job.

*Before you abandon your thoughts, try. It's so easy to give up on an idea, especially if you feel that you are getting older, or have to many family obligations, or feel that life has passed you by. What would you do if you never tried? At least you will not have many regrets. Try and attempt your dreams, you never know where they will take you.

*Research. Be a research-a-holic on your dream. What trends or demands are out there? Do you have a niche? What about the funds? Become a master on the things and ideas that you want to become reality.

*Battle your Negative thoughts and rephrase them with "I can's", "I will", and "victory"! Negativity is easy to think of, it's easy to feel defeated, and difficult to be positive. It's a mental battle that you will come across everyday. Your fear can turn into courage if you just focus on the end results. The final results are totally up to you. Stay committed to however long it takes and remind yourself, that YOU are worth it.

Unemployment #'s Down....lowest since January 2009: Where is the Common Sense??

2009-06-05T14:27:00.002-05:00

We have seen numbers climb the charts due to unemployment, layoffs, & downsizing of employers. The numbers for May 2009 are around 350,000, when January 2009 it toppled around 750,000. Is it improvement or just an ignorance on the media's reports? Well if the numbers are lower than January, could it be that there are less people working than January? I would love to hear your thoughts on this topic.

To add to this notion, they explain that jobs will most likely become available before the end of this year? Is there a positive outlook for job seekers?

Popular Part-time Job Ideas

2009-06-04T21:40:00.003-05:00

Okay, so you have failed or spent too much on a business opportunity, your bills are more than your income, and you need to save for a rainy day. So what do you do? A part-time job may be a great idea to earn some cash. Need ideas for a good part-time job?

Here are 5:

1.) Retail: Okay, retail is starting to pick up a bit, not a lot, but there is some progress where people are gaining some financial confidence in shopping again. Retail part time positions are usually flexible and you are able to have a little fun along the way (don't forget those discounts).

2.) Bartending: Believe it or not, you could actually make a decent part-time income as a "liquor handler". College students and night owls could benefit from bartending. Clubs usually offer a base wage and tips are given. People love to party and they love drinking. Bartending schools usually take 3-6 weeks and only a couple of hundred dollars to enroll.

3.) Homemaker/Pet-sitter: If you need extra income, consider cleaning houses for a while. There was woman I knew that paid her sitter $60/hr to watch her 4 dogs for 6 hours a day while she worked. A lot of money?... yes it is. You get 3-4 clients, you just might turn it into a full-time venture.

4.) Waitressing/Hostessing: There are a lot of eating venues that are looking for friendly faces to wait on customers. But remember, always keep a great attitude to rack in tips. Couple of hundred dollars isn't bad.

5.) Lawncare: Maybe you are in a neighborhood and you see a lot of upkept yards, consider taking your lawn mower to houses and asking if they would like to take a break and get their yard cut by ya....extra $$ for groceries, utilities, etc. A man in my neighborhood makes $200/day on the weekend from this and yes, we pay him, along with others, every 2 weeks to cut our yard.

Temporary, substitute teaching, and babysitting, are a couple of additional jobs that you could do to get you on your feet. Extra income couldn't hurt especially if you are trying to bridge gaps in income and cashflow, need additional experience, or fund a business.

2009 Semi Annual Review: Career Seekers & Entrepreneurs...

2009-05-24T22:43:00.002-05:00

So it is approaching June, mid-year, and it is curious to know how job seekers and business owners are doing? More people now than ever, have accepted the fact that it is stiff competition out there and you must be ready to tackle it head on. So what is your take on the job market? Do you feel that the end of frustrations are near? Has business increased or decreased since the job recession?

For recent college grads, how is the job search going?

Will relocation save your job search?

2009-05-23T06:32:00.003-05:00

So you have looked and looked in your local area for a job? You prefer full-time, approximately the same or more in compensation than your last position, and plus benefits. So, you haven't found a thing. You read articles on the best cities in America for relocation, so what do you do? You think that it's worth the try to relocate to another metropolitan area to get a job that will bring stability. So how do you decide if relocation is for you?

*Your $$ is saved up, but none is being added (no added income)

*You haven't heard anything from job prospects in months.

*Your metro area is an unfavorable for job growth and the market.

*If married, you and your spouse are on the same page about relocating to another area.

*If single, weigh your finances and obligations. If it makes sense to move away consider a plan of action.

*You are bored with your current city and need social interaction.

*You are looking to be near family and friends.

*You professional field is prominent and huge in another area.

If you are considering relocation for a job as an option, be sure to pay close attention to the job growth in your field, the costs of living, your savings, and the areas surrounding your area of choice. Although relocation assistance from companies and organizations has decreased since the economic shift, you may still inquire about it. But remember to start setting aside a couple of dollars every pay period until you get to your goal.

Also, PLAN AHEAD!

Entrepreneur Shakedown!!

2009-05-20T08:29:00.001-05:00

You have heard it before..."unlock secrets to success", "you control your hours", "you determine the income potential". You get excited when you think of staying home with your children, turning in your resignation to your boss, or being able to determine the growth of your business. But it's mind boggling that 50% of small businesses fail in their first year, according to the Small Business Association. Why? #1, most of us think very small, we make excuses about why we cannot succeed. "There's competition, I don't have much money to invest, or "I've tried starting businesses in the past and it didn't work."

Excuses. Excuses. Excuses.

A recession is good and bad for us, yes, it gives people the chance to really do some self evaluation. What things you are good at, what have you learned in your past professions and how do you think your skills benefit you in owning your own business? It is bad for business owners in some cases, because the demand may not be there. Nevertheless, when it comes to thinking big, your strength and power to overcome circumstances are there. Look at your bills, your children, your goals for the future, does that make you think higher than in the past?
Flyers, business cards, and a blog or website is very inexpensive. Thinking of hiring a business consultant? If you have very small funds, your answer is probably no. The library, world wide web, and bookstores supply a wealth of knowledge on business practices. Take the time to read personal development books and success strategies to see how other successful business people leaped over obstacles for their dreams.

It's called thinking big! Thinking small can hurt you, it can destroy your self esteem, and lower your confidence. Many have the fear of failure, but it's a chance you must take to get the life you want.

Top 5 Online Universities of 2009

2009-05-17T21:04:00.003-05:00

Online Universities are becoming more increasingly popular since the rising of gas prices, adults who need an alternate schedule to their hectic lives, and the competition in the job market. So you may be thinking what are the top online universities that will bring validity, great reputation, quality learning/training, and affordability? Well, the top 6 quality online universities are listed below.

1. Devry University: This school has a 90% job placement rate. They have campus and online programs and complete your four year programs in three. They offer Associates, Bachelors, and Master degree and Certificate programs. Career Interest Favors: Technology, Management, Health Information Technology, Human Resources Management, & Accounting
Visit Devry.

2. Capella University: My university! More than 28,000 students attend this university worldwide and is known as one of the most prestigious universities that offer online programs. Regionally accredited, Capella offers Bachelor, Masters, and Doctoral level programs. They also house two CACREP accredited programs for future Psychotherapists and Marriage & Family Counselors. Career Interest Favors: Human Services, Mental Health Counseling, Reading & Literacy, Clinical Psychology, MBA programs, and Information Technology
Visit Capella University.

3. Walden University: A business magazine called "Fast Company" did some research and graded several online universities, only one received a straight A, Walden U. They are affordable and among the most prestigious online universities. Walden Universities are favorites to educators and social science professionals. Similar to Capella University, they also offer CACREP programs in Mental Health Counseling for prospective Psychotherapists. They offer Bachelor, Masters, and Doctoral-level programs. Career Interest Favors: Educators, Nonprofit professionals, Social Sciences, Information Technology, & MBA programs
Learn more about Walden.

4. Western Governors University: This NATCE accredited program for Teachers is among the most affordable online universities out there. It is also a nonprofit university. Their programs are competency based that focus on what you know and the skills you have learned. 69% of employers of graduates label the employees as "excellent". Career Interest Favors: Teachers/Education, Nursing, Information Technology, Marketing, and Management
Check out WGU

5. Argosy University: One of the more pricier, yet quality universities offers campus and online universities that are among top choices for those looking to expand in the Social Sciences and Counseling disciplines. If you are a veteran or an active in military, Argosy has established great relationships with all branches of the Armed Forces. Career Interest Favors: Psychology, Management, Business, Nursing, and Mental Health Counseling.
Argosy's site

Losing Focus in Your Online Classes:5 Ways to Stay the Course in your Online Courses

2009-05-10T22:48:00.007-05:00

You have made a decision to go back to school. You're busy, maybe kids, volunteer work, your job, and organizations keep you up on your toes and there are only 24 hours in a day. Your online classes are getting the best of you, you get frustrated, behind in your work, and worst of all, you feel like quitting. So is quitting your best option? Nope!

Online learning is not traditional; it's actually pretty difficult to stay on task, on top of readings, discussions, or assignments. 2.3 million people are estimated to take the plunge in online learning courses from individual courses to enrolling in online universities. But contrary to popular belief, online learning retention is up 50% than traditional universities and colleges. People are finishing school in their pajamas!

So tips on staying alert, focused, reminded, and determined to complete your online degree or certification successfully?

*Get a Calendar: Calendars are reminders that can assist in documenting assignments, important papers, online discussion posts, and study times. Not only write in your calendar but refer to it 3-4 times a week. Put a reminder in your cellular phone or electronic device to remind you to get up and study.

*Get active in the courseroom: It shouldn't stop at posting your assignment or response and logging off until the next week or so. Take the time to respond to more than one student, start forums elsewhere, connect on Chat Networks.

*Embrace your learning experience: Your actions and reaction to online learning can influence another prospective student to pursue their academic goal. Plus, embracing your courses will fully prepare you for your new job or new position. So knowing all you can, will actually influence companies, friends, and family members that online universities is definitely an asset to their professional development and their confidence in your skills/training.

*Involve your family in your academic journey: Ask a spouse or family member to help you with the children or household chores while you get some reading in. My husband is extremely compliant when I ask him to do chores or entertain our toddler while I read or post assignments. Have a strong support system in your corner.

*Keep reminding yourself about your graduation time: If you are unsure of your estimated graduation date, ask your academic advisor. They will help you calculate your approximate time of completion. If you see your goal mentally, you will be able to strive for it.

I wish you the best in your online endeavors.

Jayna is a Graduate Learner in the Masters of Science in Human Services program at Capella University. Estimated graduation date is March 2010. For more information on distance learning and articles visit: Elearners website.

Top 10 Colleges w/Highest Acceptance Rates

2009-05-09T22:03:00.002-05:00

USNews.com has come out with their newest report the top 10 colleges and universities that accepts the most students. The full report has the top 100, I will list the top 10:

If you are interested in these schools remember these factors:
*Admission Criteria
*Testing Scores
*Tuition & Costs
*Location
*Graduation Rates
*Programs & Concentrations

1. Bellevue University, Bellevue, Nebraska

2. Wilmington University, New Castle, Delaware

3.Baker College of Flint, Flint, MI

4. Gratz College, Melrose Park, Pennsylvannia

5. Utah Valley University, Orem, Utah

6.West Virginia University at Parkersburg, Parkersburg, West Virginia

7.Glenville State College, Glenville, West Virginia

8.Mountain State University, Beckley, West Virginia

9.Weber State University, Ogden, Utah

10.Morris College, Sumter, South Carolina

To view the full article and the 90 other schools with the highest acceptance rates, click here:
Top 100 PostSecondary Institutions with the Highest Acceptance Rates

For additional educational advising and guidance email jbutler@purposeanplan.org.

Independent Consulting: Ideas for Launching your Business

2009-04-29T20:12:00.005-05:00

Independent Consulting, catching title? More and more business owners and money savy consumers are using consultants to save money and increase profitability. So you need something to do, you need something to refocus your energy, you need a way to use your creativity. Here are some ideas on independent consulting:

*Beauty Consulting: Major cosmetic companies have generous commission structures. But behold, most cosmetic companies do have sign-up fees, Avon, Arbonne International, Mary Kay, and BeautiControl are just a few. These companies are considered network marketing, which means you make very generous income when you make big sales and recruit others to do the same.

*Jewelry/Novelty Consulting: Just like the cosmetics industry, many jewelry and adult novelty companies have some network marketing concepts as well. Premiere Jewelry, Passion Party, and others have a great commission/pay scale.

*Certifications in HVAC/House Inspection/General Laborer: If you are pretty skilled with your hands and considered the handyman to friends and family, it's good to get a certification in an area that will give you a leg in additional income and may become a fruitful business for you in the future if you build some good referrals.

*Beauty Schools & Beauty Industry: No matter how many women or men who say they are financially struggling, grooming is still a priority to many. And grooming is usually preferred by a professional. There is still a need for licensed cosmetologists, massage therapists, barbers, and nail technicians. If you are creative and have a love for making others feel great about themselves, look into your local career colleges for more information. You will be glad to know that many of these schools take federal financial aid for students in need.

*Become a Life Coach: This field is very broad and fairly new to the U.S. Life Coaching is helping others with goal-orientation and motivation. The good thing is, there is no necessary credentialing, semi-bad news is, there is no regulation for this type of career. Another good thing is, it is a legitimate field. Certifications can be acquired online to help with your professional reputation.

*Web design/Marketing/Graphic Design: Computer whiz's equipped with Creative Design. Many consultants in this area are finding it easy to get work for aspiring entrepreneurs who need a unique touch in their websites or marketing materials. Some are looking for Marketing Managers to help them come up with marketing techniques. Training for this type of work can be acquired at your local community college for low costs and online through distance learning programs.

Other forms of independent consulting: Image/Fashion Consulting, Organizational Development Consultant, Training Consultant, Legal Consultant, Computer Repair Consulting, Internet Marketing, and Academic Tutoring

Women Co. picks Best Cities for YOUR Career.

2009-04-29T17:28:00.004-05:00

Well the news tell all when it comes to the job market, it's a slump right now. But there are cities in the mix that have the hot markets, but it's going to cost ya. Moving out of your local area where the competition is fierce, maybe a good choice to heighted your chances of getting a good job.

Top Cities for a Good Career (and a Clean Start)
*St. Louis, MO: "The Gateway City", full of mega corporations such as Rent-A-Center and Scottrade. This city has a wide array of tourist attractions and job opportunities. The unemployment rate sits at 9.2%. A little lower than the national average, but there are corporate positions available.

*Boston, MA: Calling all you educators and higher education administrators, this city is home to 21 major 4-year colleges and universities. It's considered the educational center of the country.

*Columbus, OH: Government workers, this may be your fit here! Columbus has the most government jobs in the country, so if you are looking for this type of career, look into this metro area. The unemployment rate is at a 7.9% which is decent.

*Hartford, CT: Insurance agents, this could be your haven of opportunity. Hartford is considered the "Insurance Capital". This city has a decent cost of living, where unemployment is sitting in 8%.

*Nashville, TN: One of my favorite cities! Aspiring gospel and country music singers, higher education administrators and instructors, writers and editors, this city in the south is your ticket. Very good cost of living with many tourist attractions. Population is sitting well above half a million.

To see the full list of cities and report on the best cities to take your career aspirations, view http://www.womenco.com.

For information regarding career development and coaching, visit www.purposeandplan.org

Encourage Yourself After a Layoff...

2009-04-29T16:26:00.003-05:00

It's hard to hear someone say, "I'm sorry, but we have to let you go," or "we have to cut some positions due to budgeting". You're left out in the cold, you have plenty of obligations, children, and nonetheless, bills. So what do you do? You loathe, you get angry, and worst of all, depression suddenly sinks in. But you are not alone by any means. Be mindful of your skills, your acquired assets, and the goals you have. Don't stop at the unemployment line and settle for defeat, transfer your skills to freelancing, enroll into a university or community college, think about working for yourself for a while.

The bills don't stop coming so why should you? Fear is in the eye of the victim, and you, my friend, are a victor. Consider yourself relieved from answering to a manager, thankful for unrestriction on lunch breaks, drama-free from office gossip. Your life begins now, take this as a lesson, do some soul-searching, and move on to bigger and better things. They are certainly ahead of you.

Miss California 2009: Staying true to herself!!!

2009-04-21T08:37:00.003-05:00

Miss USA Pageant, for years, has been a pageant of some of the most beautiful ladies whose task is to represent the class, elegance, beauty, and respect of the United States of America. There have been some controversial stories of some of the contestants and even the Miss USA winners in the recent past, but the newest whirlwind story of Miss USA contestant, 1st runner-up, Miss California answered a question that angered some and made others quite cheerful.

Miss California, Carrie Prejean, 21, of San Diego, CA was asked a question by one of the 3 judeges, the "Queen of Media", celebrity gossip blogger and openly-gay, Perez Hilton, on same sex marriages. Prejean responded in a way that sent Hilton on an anger movement across cyberworld and what Donald Trump believed "cost her the crown." Miss California, a devout Christian, stated that she believed that marriage was between a MAN and a WOMAN. Of course, many individuals hated her answer and the judges who happened to be supporters of gay marriages were in total shock. This resulted in Miss North Carolina to be crowned Miss USA 2009.

So what does Miss California teach us?? That we stand up for the right and true Word of the Lord. She did not ban or leave her beliefs to wear a bejeweled crown. She knew that something is greater in store for her in the long run. God rewards them who represent Him openly and honestly. I greatly commend her for her comments and I hope God provides favor and blessings upon her life.

Many of us conform to beliefs and try to justify other's lifestyles. Homosexuality is wrong, it is a sin, but it is a sin (like others) that can be fixed and changed under God. What shocked me about this story is that California is one of the most liberal states in America, it isn't one of the Bible-belt states like Georgia, Tennessee, or Alabama. It's California, home to one the gay capitals of the U.S, San Francisco. Miss California is a great role model to teach young people to not be moved from your values, believe and stand up for it. Be stern and be upfront, do not justify what is wrong, but stand up for what is right and be a soldier in Christ. Because in the end, his Glory and Righteousness will reign forever.

November 4, 2008: Yes We Did! Obama elected 44th U.S. President and First Black to Become Commander-In-Chief!

2008-11-05T09:31:00.010-06:00

It's a bittersweet moment for Americans. We have clearly spoken and voted for our next President.

On November 4, 2008 at approximately 10:00 p.m Central time, news networks and headlines were beamed when California submitted their 55 electoral votes in favor of Barack Obama, the Democratic Presidential Candidate. Along with California, Ohio, Pennsylvannia, and New Hampshire's electoral votes supported Obama, shutting down John McCain, the Republican Presidential Candidate.

California, Oregon, and Washington state pushed Obama over 270 electoral votes, in which Democratics roared in victory and other nations across the globe became ecstatic.

However, for John McCain-(R.)Arizona's Senator, who was disappointed, pledged his support to the new President-elect in any way he can. The speech by John McCain was seen as sincere, despite his defeat. But for his faithful supporters across the nation, there were feelings of hurt and despair.

Barack Obama is not only the 44th President of the United States, he is the nation's first African-American President. This position holds great sentimental value for minorities everywhere, especially in the hearts and minds of African-Americans. The post-civil rights' era, in the United States, still experienced prejudice and discrimination in all forms. However, it was proven that on National Voting Day, color was not a huge factor, but the needs of the American people were.

Obama pressed through the color lines of those who still saw race as an issue and he prevailed. In his corner, wife, Michelle Obama and his daughters, Malia and Sasha shared in his success as becoming President-elect. By Barack Obama's side, serving as his Vice-President, Joe Biden (D.), a Senator from Delaware since 1972 will also join him on Capitol Hill to start re-directing the path to prosperity for Americans.

With a staggering economy, to the two wars in Afghanistan and Iraq, to uninsured or underinsured health-insurance holders, to the damaged housing market, to unexplainable higher education tuition hikes, Obama has a challenging and difficult road ahead of him. His inauguration will be January 20, 2009, in which he will officially take on the position as Commander-in-Chief. So as Americans, no matter what color, gender, or political party, must unite and come together as "one nation under God".

Americans had lost confidence and hope in our government, until the day that Barack Obama, committed his position as Leader of the Free World, pledged to bring back the land of opportunity and the prosperity that our nation once had. Impossibilities have become limitless for people of color and minorities . Let us join our next President in making our childrens' lives and generations to come a more safe, prosperous, and hopeful future. May God Bless and Keep America!

Federal Government to Help Homeowners!

2008-10-30T08:50:00.004-05:00

I guess the Government got the Hint, homeowners who have went over their heads NEED help!

According to the Associated Press, there are talks of a $500 billion plan to help troubled homeowners stay in their homes.

In June 2008, are number of 400,000 homeowners were in the middle of the foreclosure process while, 4 million homeowners were at least one payment behind during this same time period.

This plan would help approximately 3 million homeowners to stay in their homes. Are they too late?

Some conservatives would call this "socialism", but I call it "simple help". Many citizens want the government to have their backs. Our confidence has been so low during these recent years due to poor financial planning, rising healthcare costs, and record job loss. But hopefully, the talks will turn into action on Capitol Hill. People will feel hopeful again and the economy will thrive as it did more than a decade ago (wink).

Read story here:http://biz.yahoo.com/ap/081029/meltdown_foreclosure_help.html

How to stay strong through a Recession

2008-10-30T07:49:00.005-05:00

Through these difficult times, people all across the country are suffering and this time, even the wealthy are feeling a crunch in their bank accounts. There are many factors that people blame, the president, the wars, the housing crisis, credit crunches, and even more.

Jobs loss are more widespread than ever and banks just got a boost from the federal government. Most citizens believe that they were neglected, especially those who lost their dream of homeownership due to the failed adjustable-rate mortgage loan products.

The last recession was in 2001, of course, I wouldn't have known, since I was entering my first year of college during this time. But being a parent and a wife now, whew, do I see the recession signals surrounding me!

According to a recent story by the Associated Press, consumer spending is the lowest in 28 years. A lot of people are getting tighter with their money and there is a need to be. Credit cards had turned into a source of income, which isn't very wise to do and people are living paycheck to paycheck to make ends meet.

So how can one stay strong during a period of a "recession"?

Come up with a plan. Be productive with sitting down with family and come up with a reasonable, realistic plan to financially cope and stretch dollars, and use this time to pay off debt.
During a downturn, consider extra schooling and certifications. Job loss is on the rise, many high profile corporations are letting employees loose. Eventually, the job market will revive itself and you will be ahead of the competition. Check with your local community college or university for information.
Stay spiritually grounded and focused. Now we have heard that trials and problems come to make us stronger, so get spiritually connected with God, perhaps and encourage yourself daily.
Spend wisely and bargain shop. Yes, food products have risen, but you have to eat right? Coupons haven't went anywhere, and look at your local grocer for saving opportunities, catch specials and don't settle when you know you can get a bargain elsewhere.

Staying strong is easier said than done, but it is essential to stay encouraged and uplifted during this time of slowfulness and uncertainty. Be wise and stay focused on hope. Dreams can happen if you just keep believing.

Email Jai at: total.serenity@yahoo.com

Obama chooses VP...WAY to GO!

2008-08-24T13:48:00.003-05:00

Unless you've been living under a rock for the past 2 days, Barack Obama, the presumptive Democratic nominee for President of the United States has chosen a Vice Presidential candidate that will partner up the road to the White House. Joe Biden, a United States Senator, of the Democratic party. This "blunt" politician has a whopping 35 years in the Senate and of course, he is a great expert in foreign and domestic issues.

Now, Obama has of course, been a huge target of McCain and other conservatives of being "inexperienced" and now that we have an addition to the formula of "change" (issue instituted by Obama), people are now saying that Biden has "too much experience"?? Some people are so hypocritical!

As you may or may not now, I am a huge supporter of Barack Obama. I support his views as a citizen of the middle class young America. For eight years, we have been under the leadership of a ill-spoken, oil and gas tycoon, illiterate, and untrustworthy president. And now that McCain has accepted the nomination of Republican presidential nominee, it is apparent that many are in between candidates. McCain has full support of Bush, wants to remain in Iraq (for whatever reason), and wants to support a gas tax that will put more money in gas executive's pockets!

So what does this have to do with personal development?

Everything. Being a total person, spiritually, emotionally, physically, and mentally does indeed involve being actively participating in your country's and local governmental issues. You can help change the next generation. Our well-being, money, education, and daily lives are directly reflective upon our leaders' decisions. Although we pray and know that God is the ruler of our destinies, we are in part responsible for children's livelihoods. So rock the vote...or should I say, Ba-Rock the VOTE!

God Bless!

Managing Job Stress...Rest, Relax, Release.

2008-08-10T15:00:00.002-05:00

As a new mom, juggling motherhood, wifely duties, school, and a full-time job as a Clinic Manager, things have definitely turned to a stressful edge. With all the economical barriers and companies doing major setbacks, elimination of job positions, it's quite regular to be stressed these days. Perhaps you are in a job where it takes much pressure and have very demanding duties, whether it being healthcare, sales and marketing, clerical, or trades. Learning how to managing job stress can make your career and health much easier to maintain.

It is important to identify the causes of job/career stress:

Change in management
Change in corporate policies and guidelines
Increase in job duties (more commitments and not enough time)
Negative job performance review
Micro-management by supervisors and managers
Hours, or workday schedule (long hours, no personal time)
Meeting a monthly, quarterly, and/or yearly quota
Job outlook uncertainty
High self-expectations
Feeling as if you have no direction

Sometimes stress can be a good thing, it does help you to perform your best, test your drive, and gives you a sense of motivation. However, when you feel a pull in your physical or emotional health, stress can leave you burned out, depressed, and physically sick. Job stress can lead to unproductivity, a strain on your romantic and personal relationships, irritability, and life-threatening sickness, like high-blood pressure or heart disease. So okay, now you know what causes stress at the workplace, what can we do to manage it so that we are more efficient, productive, and motivated to do our best?

Leave work at work, unless absolutely necessary, do NOT take work home.
Take a vacation, you don't have to travel or go on an exotic vacation (I would if I were you), but lounge around the house, pray, go to the park, go out with friends, rejuvenate and then refresh yourself.
Prepare yourself if your job is threatening a layoff or termination, prepare resumes or get in touch with your professional network. Get going now to avoid being left in the cold.
Practice time management skills, do what you can do and do your best at it, whatever you did not complete may have been out of your control. Tell your supervisor what you have done, of course you would want to put the most important tasks first. Put them into next day's tasks.
Feeling direction-less, look into your position and see what you can do to increase your marketability, for example, take a professional or certification course or join a professional organization.
If all else fails, you may have to start looking elsewhere for the job that will meet your needs. Think of starting a business or join a corporation that promotes work/life balance.

The OBAMA family speaks on fashion,,,so cute!

2008-07-10T06:07:00.002-05:00

Great to see a normal American family laugh and enjoy each other...I think it's so refreshing to see a down-to-earth people laugh about everyday things. For years, we have seen uptight Presidents, in my lifetime, there has been one real down home President (Clinton). So I think Americans will feel that they can at least relate to the fact that yes our potential President need fashion tips and his wife loves clothes and his children are being children and very well spoken. In no regards to race, Americans want to feel that their next President is empathetic and likes to laugh and joke with his family as well as take care of business.....

Is the Media going to far?

2008-07-09T07:02:00.002-05:00

"Jamie Lynn Spears Poses with Baby for Mag Cover"......HUH???

http://news.yahoo.com/s/ap/20080709/ap_en_ce/people_jamie_lynn_spears

Okay, I am all for babies being a blessing, however, we all know that to condone the premarital facet of young teens and others is a bit immoral to begin with. According to Yahoo!, courtesy of the Associated Press, Jamie Lynn Spears, baby sister of the controversial entertainer, Britney Spears, gave birth to a little girl, named Maddie several weeks ago. Spears was also a star of a hit TV show on Nickelodeon called "Zoey 101".

What has me confused is that she is 17 years old and she is not the first teenager to give birth out of the institution of marriage and unfortunately, she will not be the last. However, I think it is appalling that the media gives this circumstance so much ammunition and attention. What is this teaching our little girls, when they have role models that are being praised for their negative acts? Is our media going too far?? I shook my head in shame and disbelief when I read this story. To elevate this to a front page of a popular gossip magazine, is very unnerving and begins a cause of concern.....