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		<description><![CDATA[Your goal in pick-up is to efficiently meet, attract and seduce women! 
As many as you want! 
The TYPE that you want. 
The RELATIONSHIPS that you want.
This little survey will help me help you get that goal, please take it and give me as much information as you can. I&#8217;m looking more for your TRUE [...]


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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Your goal in pick-up is to efficiently meet, attract and seduce women! </p>
<p>As many as you want! </p>
<p>The TYPE that you want. </p>
<p>The RELATIONSHIPS that you want.</p>
<p>This little survey will help me help you get that goal, please take it and give me as much information as you can. I&#8217;m looking more for your TRUE feelings, not the &#8216;right&#8217; answer.</p>
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<p>Would you like new possibilities in your life with women?</p>
<p style="text-align: left;">It doesn't start with new tactics or techniques... it starts with new Viewpoints and new Strategies.</p>
<p style="text-align: left;">I can help you with that...</p>
<p style="text-align: left;">Here's a new way:</p>

<p><strong>Introducing... The Master Strategies Monthly Teleconferences </strong>- Would you like to hear more of my thoughts and ideas on Game? There is<br> only so much I can do in writing. Especially in a blog because it is difficult to<br> really flesh out, develop and expound ideas in such a small space. But, with<br> an hour of talking or 8-12 pages of writing I could do A LOT.<br>
<br>

<em><strong>Here’s the plan… </strong></em>I am going to do a monthly<br> conference call. Each call will last 90 minutes. The first sixty of those minutes will be<br> me discussing, dissecting and really fleshing out how you can make this<br> whole Gaming thing easier, funner and more effective. It’s pretty safe to say that no<br> one has the same perspective and ideas about this stuff as I do.
<br>
<p>The last 30 minutes of the call I’ll answer questions and berate people for not getting it (just kidding about the berating).
<p>
I’ve thought about charging monthly for this but I’ve decided not to. It’s a one-time payment for the full year. That’s 12 calls for a total of 18 hours. The price I’ve<br> settled on makes the cost $16.39 per hour. That comes out to $295.00 for the year.<br>
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		<description><![CDATA[I&#8217;ve had a little &#8217;secret&#8217; I&#8217;ve been using for a few years now that has given me a huge advantage in attracting and seducing women. It doesn&#8217;t have much at all to do with &#8216;female psychology&#8217; or &#8217;social blah, blah theorems of socialness&#8217; or any such dumb things.
It has to do with what I am [...]


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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I&#8217;ve had a little &#8217;secret&#8217; I&#8217;ve been using for a few years now that has given me a huge advantage in attracting and seducing women. It doesn&#8217;t have much at all to do with &#8216;female psychology&#8217; or &#8217;social blah, blah theorems of socialness&#8217; or any such dumb things.</p>
<p>It has to do with what I am calling <em><strong>treacherous data.</strong></em> That&#8217;s any idea that supports, allows or creates behaviors that work COUNTER to your goals.</p>
<p>What most people don&#8217;t realize is that the data you have makes what you can DO possible and therefore puts boundaries on what you can HAVE.</p>
<p>The community is FILLED with <em><strong>treacherous data</strong></em>. In fact, 90% of it is so. Not only that, they have no idea of the relative importance of data, the proper sequence of events, the time component of data, differentiation of data and a WHOLE lot of other things that really matter in becoming a MASTER at something.</p>
<p>One of my secrets has been a method that I use to discover the treacherous data, blow it out and then show someone how to come to a new conclusion (their own conclusion, not mine).</p>
<p>Once this is done the PUA&#8217;s effectiveness increases markedly.</p>
<p>Why? Well, because even if they have the skill that&#8217;s only ONE part of it. You have to know WHEN to use it, when NOT to use it and WHO to use it on. Having a skill doesn&#8217;t mean you&#8217;ll use it at the right times and in the right way.</p>
<p>The actual skills of pick-up aren&#8217;t that complicated. There are only a few things you have to do. Learning them takes a few weeks max, then a few months of drilling and that&#8217;s it. The skill part of pick-up is really only a 4-6 month job.</p>
<p>Really, that&#8217;s it.</p>
<p>But, because of bad data, incorrect viewpoints, wrong sequences we&#8217;ve been busting our asses for years. Aren&#8217;t you tired of that yet?</p>
<p>Shit man, I got tired of it real quick.</p>
<p>Look, if you know all the skills but aren&#8217;t getting results you have <em><strong>treacherous data</strong></em> holding you hostage.</p>
<p>Here&#8217;s something else sure to piss you off:</p>
<p>If you are out there banging your head in pick-up with NO or little success, you are getting more and more skilled at FAILURE! That&#8217;s right&#8230; You are actually drilling failure right into your body-mind. Going out night after night, doing the right things at the wrong time, doing the wrong things when you should be doing something else&#8230; Locking those wrong behaviors in deeper and deeper. Getting more and more disillusioned as time goes on&#8230;</p>
<p>Switching gurus isn&#8217;t going to help&#8230; learning a new system isn&#8217;t going to help&#8230; doing MORE sets isn&#8217;t going to help (in fact, it could make things worse)&#8230;</p>
<p>I know, it sucks.</p>
<p>Have the past months and years been a total waste then? No. Not at all. See, when the data is blown out and new realizations gained ALL of that experience is still in your head. It now gets viewed properly and becomes Calibration Points for the future! Blowing out the data re-syncs you with Reality and helps you to see things as they really are&#8230; not as your bad data skews them.</p>
<p>The result is a huge leap in effectiveness!</p>
<p>Have you ever thought about what you really want in your life in regards to women?</p>
<p>It&#8217;s important to think about this because it&#8217;s the only way to get clarity and to know if you are moving towards your goal or just stalled out.</p>
<p>Whatever you want in your life with regards to women you <em><strong>can have.</strong></em></p>
<p>The end result of a Be The Seducer trained PUA is:</p>
<p><strong>A PUA who can easily and happily create, maintain and end the exact KIND of relationships he wants with the type of women he chooses.</strong> (I&#8217;ll be talking much more about that in upcoming posts.)</p>
<p><em>That&#8217;s what I want for you. </em>That&#8217;s what I have been working these last few months like crazy on. By knowing what I want for you and knowing what YOU want, I can figure out what&#8217;s missing and give corrective actions for you to drill on to boost your success.</p>
<p>I have a way to question you, discover where the initial problems lie and a catalog of processes to bust you out of them. I can bust the treacherous data holding you back thus FREEING you up to get what you want!</p>
<p>If you&#8217;re stuck in pick-up and getting little to no results then I can help.</p>
<p>Unfortunately, this can&#8217;t be done over email. It can&#8217;t be done on a group call, either. It is too personalized. The only way to do it is one-one-one via phone, just you and me and the processes.</p>
<p>Here&#8217;s how it works:</p>
<p>1. We get on the phone and I begin questioning you to get an idea of where you are and what the ROOT CAUSES. This is the diagnostic part of the call.</p>
<p>2. I begin making you aware of the ROOT CAUSES. Many times the awareness of them will blow them out completely. (Treacherous data is always hidden from view).</p>
<p>3. I give you processes to sync you back in line with reality. You&#8217;ll come to your OWN conclusions and they&#8217;ll WORK because your sexuality is INNATE!</p>
<p>4. We&#8217;ll talk about what you are going to do in-field over the next week or two and I&#8217;ll give you some assignments.</p>
<p>But, that&#8217;s just the first call. After your field experience we do this again! Layers and layers of false data BLOWN OUT and skills and abilities regained!</p>
<p>The minimum is 2 calls but 3 is recommended. There is no maximum time limit on the call, it takes as long as it takes so you&#8217;ll want to do it when you have a few hours free. (The last one I did for someone took about 2 hours).</p>
<p>I have Tuesday, Wednesday and Thursday of next week available.</p>
<p>Are you ready to get unstuck and start <em><strong>(finally!) </strong></em>getting what you want?</p>
<p>If so, I hope you&#8217;ll let me help you.</p>
<p><a href="http://tinyurl.com/nljl4n">2 Call Package: Treacherous Data Destruction Signup</a></p>
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<p>Captain Jack</p>
<p>P.S. There is a guarantee of sorts&#8230; Thirty minutes after the first call you are going to hear a timer go &#8220;ding!&#8221; At that point, I&#8217;m going to stop and ask you if you want to keep going. If you aren&#8217;t getting anything out of it, think I&#8217;m full of shit, or whatever then all you have to do is say &#8220;No.&#8221; We can stop right there and I&#8217;ll give you back your money. No hard feelings.</p>
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Architect a Game Plan that Fits You, Crush Your Sticking Points, Sexualize Your Converstations and Get Near-Instant Feedback:
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<i>
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</i><p>
</h3>

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<p>Would you like new possibilities in your life with women?</p>
<p style="text-align: left;">It doesn't start with new tactics or techniques... it starts with new Viewpoints and new Strategies.</p>
<p style="text-align: left;">I can help you with that...</p>
<p style="text-align: left;">Here's a new way:</p>

<p><strong>Introducing... The Master Strategies Monthly Teleconferences </strong>- Would you like to hear more of my thoughts and ideas on Game? There is<br> only so much I can do in writing. Especially in a blog because it is difficult to<br> really flesh out, develop and expound ideas in such a small space. But, with<br> an hour of talking or 8-12 pages of writing I could do A LOT.<br>
<br>

<em><strong>Here’s the plan… </strong></em>I am going to do a monthly<br> conference call. Each call will last 90 minutes. The first sixty of those minutes will be<br> me discussing, dissecting and really fleshing out how you can make this<br> whole Gaming thing easier, funner and more effective. It’s pretty safe to say that no<br> one has the same perspective and ideas about this stuff as I do.
<br>
<p>The last 30 minutes of the call I’ll answer questions and berate people for not getting it (just kidding about the berating).
<p>
I’ve thought about charging monthly for this but I’ve decided not to. It’s a one-time payment for the full year. That’s 12 calls for a total of 18 hours. The price I’ve<br> settled on makes the cost $16.39 per hour. That comes out to $295.00 for the year.<br>
<p>The calls will be recorded in case you miss them, or you’re in Europe, Asia or Africa where the calls will likely be at an inconvenient time.

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		<description><![CDATA[This guy has been working hard. He&#8217;s taken the eCoaching bootcamp and he&#8217;s on the Master Strategies Monthly program. His ability to approach, attract and seduce women are on the upswing as evidenced by his multitude of dates and the lays are beginning. He&#8217;s breaking NEW ground for the first time in years!
I&#8217;ve been studying [...]


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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>This guy has been working hard. He&#8217;s taken the <a href="http://www.betheseducer.com/fs.html">eCoaching bootcamp</a> and he&#8217;s on the <a href="http://www.betheseducer.com/2009/09/unexplainable-shit-now-explained/">Master Strategies Monthly</a> program. His ability to <em><strong>approach, attract and seduce women</strong></em> are on the upswing as evidenced by his multitude of dates and the lays are beginning. He&#8217;s breaking NEW ground for the first time in years!</p>
<blockquote><p>I&#8217;ve been studying game for almost 2 years. The progress that I&#8217;ve made during the first 1.5 years was very little. I was spending a lot of time reading everybody&#8217;s stuff and as a result I got confused and my game was not improving much.<br />
In the past 6 months I&#8217;ve made more progress than I&#8217;ve made in the 1.5 years before that. One of the main things that enabled me to make the progress is your teaching methods.</p>
<p>Your understanding of game fundamentals helped build my game plan and learn how to fix sticking points and improve over time. You&#8217;ve also helped me understand and solve inner game issues that were holding back my progress and taught me sexual framing.</p>
<p>I think one the main things that made the change was the <span style="text-decoration: line-through;">xxxxx</span> exercise in one of the Master Strategies bonuses. It helped me get over inner issues and boost my confidence.</p>
<p>Thanks to you I was able to break through a few major barriers that held down my game. After making this breakthrough my game learning process became much faster and I see the results in the field. &#8212; David from NYC.</p></blockquote>
<p>My pleasure! It really PUMPS me up to get emails like this&#8230; This guy has been working hard and it&#8217;s been paying off.</p>
<p>Captain Jack</p>
<p>P.S. By the way, I&#8217;m working on totally revamping the way Pick-up is taught. It&#8217;s taken me into a study of how people learn, psychometric testing, diagnostics, gradient scales and a whole bunch of other stuff. To make a long story short, the community is fucked up in the way it teaches men Pick-up. I plan to change it for good. I&#8217;ll make the first post on this in another day or two.</p>
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<i>
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</i><p>
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<em><strong>Here’s the plan… </strong></em>I am going to do a monthly<br> conference call. Each call will last 90 minutes. The first sixty of those minutes will be<br> me discussing, dissecting and really fleshing out how you can make this<br> whole Gaming thing easier, funner and more effective. It’s pretty safe to say that no<br> one has the same perspective and ideas about this stuff as I do.
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<p>The last 30 minutes of the call I’ll answer questions and berate people for not getting it (just kidding about the berating).
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<p>In response to one of my blog posts on <a href="http://www.betheseducer.com/2009/09/back-to-back-snls-and-a-3some/">&#8220;Approaching and Seducing Women with Game Dynamics&#8221;</a> a commenter had this question which was enthusiastically echoed by another reader. Here are the comments:</p>
<p><strong><em>Owen said: I have a question about the last article. Considering game dynamics (best way of getting laid and connecting with women) it’s not better to go direct and clarify your intention? I mean the rest is all done by passive acceptance of the frame or I am wrong?</em></strong></p>
<p><strong><em>Jim said:</em></strong></p>
<p><strong><em>Great question! Doesn’t going Direct make it clear to her that you are a Player? Anxiously awaiting CJ’s response </em></strong><strong><em></em></strong></p>
<p>To clarify the Game Dynamics are:</p>
<p><strong>All Games are Based on Agreement.</strong></p>
<p><strong>Game Dynamic 1: You and her must agree you are both Players in a Game you both want to play. </strong></p>
<p><strong>Game Dynamic 2: You and her must agree you are both playing the same Game TOGETHER. </strong></p>
<p><strong>Game Dynamic 3: You must show her that you VALUE her Game Goal.</strong></p>
<p><strong>Game Dynamic 4: You must demonstrate that you can carry her through the Obstacles… first by handling them in her mind, then in the immediate environment then over time. </strong></p>
<p>So, you have to get agreement on all 4 Dynamics and KEEP agreement until you can actually achieve the Game Goal.</p>
<p>I have nothing against Direct Approach to meet women… Direct works. I’ve used it and I’ve seen others use it for great effect. However, I don’t think it is an optimum move. You want your opening move to be the one that gives you the highest probabilities of getting to the next stage.</p>
<p>In some cases, direct has such an effect that it blows past all the stages. If you couple this with the fact that women DO love sex and are sometimes just ready to go at it then you get some success.</p>
<p>The problem is I think it lowers your overall probabilities.</p>
<p>Let’s look at it from a Game Dynamics viewpoint with my last lay report.</p>
<p>Here was a girl who was obviously down… But… she was there with her ex-boyfriend (who still wanted her) and a ‘big brother’-type guy friend. (Now don’t we know that almost all ‘big brother’ types are basically guys who still want to have sex with her but don’t know how to make it happen?)</p>
<p>She and I had exchanged hard eye contact and smiles several times. Would’ve been fairly easy for me to Direct Approach. But, it would’ve blown out Dynamic 4 and ended my chances. Now, I don’t agree with Mys’ idea that everyone else in the set is an Obstacle but in this case they were definitely Obstacles because we had Counter Intentions. An Obstacle is defined by Counter Intentions not by simply NOT being your Target. I’ve had non-Targets be ALLIES in set.</p>
<p>I’ve also had circumstances where I have opened 2sets and discovered the Target was out with her boyfriend’s sister. How would Direct fare, then? Of course, you could decide, “Well, it would save me time!” Perhaps, if you’re not good or you have no intention of getting Supremely Good at Game. But, history shows that a Boyfriend is often a trifling matter!</p>
<p>The Game Strategist opts for <a href="../tag/low-investment-openers">Low Investment Openers</a>, indirect approaches to meet women or the social type openers like, “How’s everyone tonight?” and discovering what’s deal. He picks his optimum move at every step… and she loves him for it.</p>
<p><strong>So, my conclusion is: </strong>Sure you might be passing Dynamic 1 with flying colors by going Direct but could be destroying any chance/opportunity of getting agreement on any other Dynamic by destroying Dynamic 4. You COULD also be violating a few Game Rules (like “Protect Social Reputation”) depending on what Game is her natural preference.</p>
<p>Captain Jack</p>
<p>P.S. The Game Dynamics audio has been recorded and is being delivered along with all the past “Master Strategies Monthly” audios. You can read more at <a href="../720/unexplainable-shit-now-explained/">“How to Pick Up Girls Using The Game Dynamics”</a></p>
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<p><strong>Introducing... The Master Strategies Monthly Teleconferences </strong>- Would you like to hear more of my thoughts and ideas on Game? There is<br> only so much I can do in writing. Especially in a blog because it is difficult to<br> really flesh out, develop and expound ideas in such a small space. But, with<br> an hour of talking or 8-12 pages of writing I could do A LOT.<br>
<br>

<em><strong>Here’s the plan… </strong></em>I am going to do a monthly<br> conference call. Each call will last 90 minutes. The first sixty of those minutes will be<br> me discussing, dissecting and really fleshing out how you can make this<br> whole Gaming thing easier, funner and more effective. It’s pretty safe to say that no<br> one has the same perspective and ideas about this stuff as I do.
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<p>The last 30 minutes of the call I’ll answer questions and berate people for not getting it (just kidding about the berating).
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I’ve thought about charging monthly for this but I’ve decided not to. It’s a one-time payment for the full year. That’s 12 calls for a total of 18 hours. The price I’ve<br> settled on makes the cost $16.39 per hour. That comes out to $295.00 for the year.<br>
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I started off Friday. Rolled out solo and ran into Vector and some D-Lair guys. Chatted with Vector a little bit and they mentioned they were going to a diff place across the street.
Really wasn&#8217;t much out. The only 2 girls I wanted were already invested with guys and I pussed out [...]


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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Crazy weekend for me.</p>
<p>I started off Friday. Rolled out solo and ran into Vector and some D-Lair guys. Chatted with Vector a little bit and they mentioned they were going to a diff place across the street.</p>
<p>Really wasn&#8217;t much out. The only 2 girls I wanted were already invested with guys and I pussed out by not opening this tall thin Latina, easily the hottest girl there and probably one of the hottest anywhere she goes.</p>
<p>About 1:15 or so I start chatting with this blonde nurse, we start dancing and then sit at a table. I could tell by the conversation this was essentially a done deal so I just chilled and did some physical escalation. (When you are clear on all the dynamics you don&#8217;t do anything because it can make her think you don&#8217;t get what is going on, then you&#8217;ll probably have to go back and clear them.)</p>
<p>Her (hideously fat) friend was having a girl conference with her trying to decide if she was going to bang the cop she was with&#8230; They were pretty blatant about it and talked about it right in front of me&#8230; I told the nurse something like, &#8220;She should. Sex is fun and really enjoyable. Two adults should be able to do whatever they want without worrying about it. I&#8217;m not judgemental blah, blah, blah&#8230;&#8221; but that is the only frame I set. I don&#8217;t think I needed to do it but since it was out there I figured I might as well explicitly handle it.</p>
<p>At the end of the night she blatantly asked, &#8220;Are you going to take me home with you?&#8221;</p>
<p>Awesome body which she attributed to doing yoga several times a week. (All girls should have to do yoga.)</p>
<p>I drove her back to her car in the morning and she took my number and texted &#8220;call me sometime.&#8221;</p>
<p>One set, one lay.</p>
<p>I sleep most of the day Saturday and wake up happy as shit that I don&#8217;t have a hangover.</p>
<p>I want to check out a bar in Fort Worth that I haven&#8217;t been to in years but it doesn&#8217;t get started until 11:00-11:30&#8230; I find if I get out that late that I have a little trouble getting situated mentally as I honestly can&#8217;t stand bars/clubs/alcohol/smoke/crowds&#8230; so I go to my local place with plans to leave at 11:00 for the other place.</p>
<p>Again, not really that many hot girls. There are 2 in a 3set (2 hot girls and one blonde elephant). The hot girls are doing lesbianish dance moves all over each other and I&#8217;m liking it because it is them basically broadcasting to all the dudes that they want penis.</p>
<p>Problem #1: They are at a table (hate opening seated sets).</p>
<p>Problem #2: They are at the OTHER side of the bar against the wall. Which means I would have to walk across the bar to open them.</p>
<p>At that point I would have to go direct.</p>
<p>Damnit.</p>
<p>I mentally decide I will do it right before I leave for the other bar if one of the hot ones doesn&#8217;t break away and head to the bar. (That&#8217;s actually a sign I look for&#8230; some girls have realized that breaking away from their gfs for a bit will get them opened so they do it. Watch for it. I promise you&#8217;ll start to see it happen. Open them, it puts the odds a bit more in your favor).</p>
<p>Right about that time the Blonde elephant rumbles across the dance floor and she&#8217;s heading towards me&#8230;</p>
<p>oh, shit.</p>
<p>I&#8217;m going to have to deftly reject a fatty without pissing her off and ruining my chances of having sex with one of her human female acquaintances.</p>
<p>The elephant&#8217;s momentum grinds to a stop a few feet short of me&#8230; She wasn&#8217;t coming for me! She came for the blond dude with a little boy haircut and his friend! She takes them to the table to talk to the two hotties.</p>
<p>I find this interesting because the 2 guys are presented with a golden opportunity and it&#8217;s so painfully obvious they have no fucking clue what to do.</p>
<p>The girls bail leaving the dudes at their table about 15 minutes later.</p>
<p>Now there are NO hot girls in the venue and I&#8217;m getting ready to leave when I spy a Vanessa Hudgens look alike&#8230; sitting with 3 dudes.</p>
<p>Oh well, I stare at her and catch her eye. She smiles and stares back.</p>
<p>Hmm&#8230; this could be interesting.</p>
<p>I move to my bird&#8217;s nest spot putting me right in front of her.</p>
<p>We keep exchanging glances for the next 20 minutes or so. I&#8217;m debating what to do&#8230; I want her but there will be dozens of girls I want at the venue I&#8217;m going to instead of just one in the worst possible situ at this one&#8230; decisions, decisions.</p>
<p>She makes it easy on me by walking right past me.</p>
<p>Ninjitsu ensues and about one minute later I am sitting at her table with her.</p>
<p>The guys are pissed.</p>
<p>They are talking shit about me and I act like I don&#8217;t hear and keep talking to her. (I am on her left hand side and they are across and to her right).</p>
<p>Long story short, one was her ex bf who wants her back and the other acts like he is her big brother. In between me talking to her they are arguing about my presence.</p>
<p>This makes me want to win even more. What better revenge?</p>
<p>She says that she has to leave and gets my number, kissing me real quick and going with them.</p>
<p>I text her at 2:30 am and she arrives at 3:10am.</p>
<p>One set, one lay.</p>
<p>&#8212;&#8211;</p>
<p>Early Sunday night I am thinking I am too tired to go out. My stomach muscles hurt. But, it&#8217;s a holiday night and it always seems like those end up being crazy!</p>
<p>I talk to Sinn on the phone about the past two nights. He says I need to try to keep the streak going. I decide he&#8217;s right and start getting myself mentally geared towards going out.</p>
<p>I see AceOfHeartSS at the bar and I like to see him out because he actually opens. After coming back from the rest room he is talking to a cute tall blonde.</p>
<p>About that time, I open 2 hot asians. I can&#8217;t even remember what I said something like &#8220;It&#8217;s a good thing you are hot because you are tiny.&#8221; or something silly like that.</p>
<p>They are immediately all over me. I pick the short one up and she screams and hugs me tight.</p>
<p>I tease them a few times and have a normal conversation for a bit and towards closing time I walk them to the car and get in.</p>
<p>Things are going well so I hatch a plan: <em><strong>Bang Two Hot Asians.</strong></em></p>
<p>Problem #1: I&#8217;m drunk. The 2 nights of drinking caught up with me this night and I only seemd to have half my normal tolerance. This impairs my almost flawless strategic abilities.</p>
<p>Whenever I escalate with one the other interrupts. At one point the shorter asian is straddling me in the back seat giving me a lap dance while I am trying to rub the other&#8217;s boobies through her shirt.</p>
<p>I&#8217;m thinking&#8230; holy shit, this is going to be a cold approach <a href="http://www.betheseducer.com/tag/snl">SNL</a> 3some.</p>
<p>Not so fast. (God has other plans.)</p>
<p>They actually start talking about who is going to fuck me. Right in front of me.</p>
<p>I&#8217;m sitting in the back seat now. They are in the front.</p>
<p>Asian #1: &#8220;I want you to&#8230;&#8221;</p>
<p>Asian #2: &#8220;No, you should go home with him. I can tell you like him.&#8221;</p>
<p>Asian #1: &#8220;You saw him first.&#8221;</p>
<p>I&#8217;m sitting back there dumbfounded. I can&#8217;t speak. Perhaps they thought they were speaking Asianish instead of English&#8230; It&#8217;s really strange to have people talking about you like you are not there and this is the 2nd night in a row it has happened to me.</p>
<p>I want to say, &#8220;No problemo laides&#8230; I&#8217;ll pound the shit out of both of you!&#8221;</p>
<p>Instead I say, &#8220;Let&#8217;s go to my hot tub.&#8221;</p>
<p>I am confused.</p>
<p>They are confused.</p>
<p>They can&#8217;t work out who gets to fuck me and like a dumbass I should&#8217;ve just decided. That&#8217;s all I would&#8217;ve had to do&#8230;</p>
<p>Asian #1 says, &#8216;I have to drop her off at home.&#8217;</p>
<p>what would the proper thing for me to do? &#8220;Ok, cool, gimme your number.&#8221; Then what? Then I wait 15 minutes and text her to come see me.</p>
<p>Simple, right? Not to a confused drunk man. To a confused drunk man that is like Calculus to a retard.</p>
<p>So, I get nothing.</p>
<p>Damnit.</p>
<p>Captain Jack</p>
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<p><strong>Introducing... The Master Strategies Monthly Teleconferences </strong>- Would you like to hear more of my thoughts and ideas on Game? There is<br> only so much I can do in writing. Especially in a blog because it is difficult to<br> really flesh out, develop and expound ideas in such a small space. But, with<br> an hour of talking or 8-12 pages of writing I could do A LOT.<br>
<br>

<em><strong>Here’s the plan… </strong></em>I am going to do a monthly<br> conference call. Each call will last 90 minutes. The first sixty of those minutes will be<br> me discussing, dissecting and really fleshing out how you can make this<br> whole Gaming thing easier, funner and more effective. It’s pretty safe to say that no<br> one has the same perspective and ideas about this stuff as I do.
<br>
<p>The last 30 minutes of the call I’ll answer questions and berate people for not getting it (just kidding about the berating).
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Sets that were going well suddenly unravel?
A girl who was all over you on the first meeting is acting like a church girl on the first date?
Things seem to work for others but not YOU?
A girl suddenly stops responding to calls or texts?
You do well at some venues but not others?
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Do you ever wonder why&#8230;</p>
<ul>
<li>Sets that were going well suddenly unravel?</li>
<li>A girl who was all over you on the first meeting is acting like a church girl on the first date?</li>
<li>Things seem to work for others but not YOU?</li>
<li>A girl suddenly stops responding to calls or texts?</li>
<li>You do well at some venues but not others?</li>
<li>You do well with certain types of girls but not others?</li>
</ul>
<p>If meeting women and attracting women is frustrating, you&#8217;ve been spinning your wheels and can&#8217;t make any (or much) progress DESPITE working at it for awhile then there is a fundamental problem.</p>
<p>Working harder won&#8217;t do a damn thing for you but continue to frustrate you and waste your time.</p>
<p>I&#8217;ve already proven that what nearly every other PU guru says out there is just plain dead wrong. Social Pick-up is dead (or it should be)&#8230; It is retarded and is based on bullshit ideas.</p>
<p>Social is the wrong thing to be. She is SICK of Social. Those are the nice guy losers she not only won&#8217;t have sex with but who she is actually REPULSED by&#8230;</p>
<p class="bodytext">If you&#8217;ve been reading my stuff for any length of time you at least have SOME idea of where I am coming from. Right now, I am EXCITED because          I&#8217;ve discovered the &#8220;<strong>Missing Link</strong>&#8221; to finding THE THING that is causing you trouble.</p>
<p class="bodytext">And in just a few minutes, <em>you&#8217;re</em> gonna discover it,          too.</p>
<p class="bodytext"><strong>Here&#8217;s what it&#8217;s all about:</strong> Nearly everybody thinks <strong>attracting women </strong>is either a Social Game, an &#8216;Inner Game&#8217; or a &#8216;X&#8217; Game or all those things to different degrees. You open confidently, you do this technique, that technique, get a number, see her again and after some elapsed time you make a move.</p>
<p class="bodytext">And, sure…          you need to do all those things&#8230; No getting around          that.</p>
<p class="bodytext">But, in terms of real progress, it is DEADLY to think it&#8217;s only those things. The          guys who got good intuitively understand this… but not          always in the <em>right way</em>. A lot of gurus will yak on and on about how important Inner Game is. How you gotta get your Inner Game on and get your confidence up and be a man and strengthen your &#8216;masculine core&#8217; and other such things which CANNOT be demonstrated or taught.</p>
<p class="bodytext">They have a point&#8230; You do need that stuff but it isn&#8217;t learned. It&#8217;s a Phenomena of this &#8216;Missing Link&#8217; I&#8217;m talking about.</p>
<p class="bodytext">And until you understand this &#8216;Missing Link,&#8217; you          will NEVER get where you want to go <strong><em>in terms of attracting women</em></strong>. <strong>Ever. </strong>(Sorry.)</p>
<p class="bodytext"><strong>Listen:</strong> You&#8217;re going to be just as thrilled AND ecstatic as I am          once you see what I&#8217;m talking about here. It will change everything about Game (and life) for you… and it will:</p>
<ul class="bodytext1">
<li> Make your skillset more stable&#8230; (forget about wild and unexplainable swings. If weird shit happens you&#8217;ll know WHY and how to fix it.)</li>
<li> Instantly detect where SHE is at in the interaction and precisely what you need to do next to baby-step it towards your Goal.</li>
<li>TRULY feel more confident in interactions.</li>
<li>SEE and notice opportunities in the field and in-set that you&#8217;ve never noticed before.</li>
<li>And literally FORCE your Game Plan to be <em><strong>more precise, accurate and effective!</strong><br />
</em></li>
</ul>
<p class="bodytext">And the best part is…</p>
<h3>It&#8217;s REALLY Simple!</h3>
<p class="bodytext">Have you ever had been watching a mystery movie and you solved the crime halfway through? The other people watching it with you are still completely in the dark and making these wild statements about who did what and using earlier scenes to tell you why&#8230; and it all sounded so ridiculous you couldn&#8217;t believe they were so dumb?</p>
<p class="bodytext">If so, then you have a feeling of what it is like for me when I&#8217;m crushing old Pick-up ideas left and right using this new &#8216;Missing Link.&#8217; It&#8217;s a Process that anyone can run. I&#8217;ve run it on myself a few times and each time I see things clearer and clearer and results go through the roof.</p>
<p class="bodytext"><strong><em>I know this sounds </em><em>too good to be true</em> &#8211; but, </strong>this &#8220;missing link&#8221; process really is just like suddenly discovering you can do something that no          one else seems able to do.</p>
<p class="bodytext">That&#8217;s because <em>it has nothing</em> at all to do with the <em><strong>anything anyone in the community has ever discussed&#8230; </strong>nothing</em> at all to do with the whatever half-baked InnerGame ideas that any of the gurus are talking about&#8230; no magic crystals, or &#8216;energy vortexes&#8217; or &#8216;loving and stroking your masculine side&#8217;&#8230; and <em>nothing</em> at all to do with anything that any regular guru would suggest to try to &#8220;fix&#8221; your Game.</p>
<p class="bodytext">Here&#8217;s an email I got from someone who just recently got this &#8216;missing link&#8217; a few days ago:</p>
<blockquote>
<div>Dude, I have been in this so called community for years now, while I get lucky here and there.. (way more then before I started).. I always end up losing or messing out on potentially good opportunities, i take that back, great opportunities.  I&#8217;ve always known that it had to do something with reframing my way of thinking about some part of the interaction, but It didnt really make much sense until I heard the last two pieces you sent.</div>
<p class="bodytext">fuck, its like i been stuck in my own little mental cell. I&#8217;m definitely going to put this plan of action in play.  Ever since I read your modified strawberry fields test some where on the web, I knew you had a unique view about thist, the sexual framing part I have lacked for years now.</p>
</blockquote>
<p class="bodytext">You want to know what this is? Of course you do. And I&#8217;m going to reveal it to you. Right now.</p>
<p class="bodytext">Come closer. Closer. Listen: The secret is…</p>
<p><strong>HOW YOU SEE THINGS!</strong></p>
<p class="bodytext">Or, the better way of saying it is &#8216;Your Viewpoint.&#8217;</p>
<p class="bodytext">Now, don&#8217;t think for a second you know what I mean by &#8220;Viewpoint.&#8221; It&#8217;s not your attitude or belief or anything like that&#8230; It goes much deeper and it is a mind phenomena that I saw at work in me and others.</p>
<p class="bodytext">Forget about all the tactics, strategies, body language and all that shit you &#8216;know.&#8217; You could know EVERY POSSIBLE pick-up routine and if your Viewpoint is fucked&#8230; so are you. You won&#8217;t execute the tactics at the right time or you&#8217;ll OVER do it&#8230; or, forget&#8230; or not see the opportunity. The list goes on.</p>
<p class="bodytext">Basically, the mind avoids confusion by grabbing onto a basic ordering idea. It is &#8216;good&#8217; because it brings you out of confusion and helps you operate/interact with your environment&#8230; It is &#8216;bad&#8217; because it only allows you to &#8217;see&#8217; things that jive with it&#8230;</p>
<p class="bodytext">Bad &#8216;Basic Ordering Idea&#8217; and you&#8217;ve got REAL TROUBLE.</p>
<p class="bodytext">It clouds, skews and keeps you from seeing what is actually happening. Problem is&#8230; once you&#8217;ve adopted it, the Basic Ordering Idea DISAPPEARS from immediate conscious view. You aren&#8217;t aware of it&#8230; you are only able to see the ideas and inputs IT organizes!</p>
<p class="bodytext">Those ideas and inputs are anchored and have the appearance of HARD REALITY.</p>
<p class="bodytext">The plain fact is… and this is what separates the great ones from the guys having shitloads of trouble&#8230; there&#8217;s a very destructive <strong>ILLUSION</strong> going on. There is stuff happening in the real world&#8230; then, there&#8217;s the stuff that &#8216;The Viewpoint&#8217; magnifies and notices and the stuff that it ignores or writes off&#8230;</p>
<p>&#8216;The Viewpoint&#8217; is the reason why you don&#8217;t make or make very little progress. You can never get better than it allows you to&#8230; it creates an artificial upper limit on your results! And, no matter how much work you do&#8230; no matter how many sets you open&#8230; no matter how many Pick-up Systems you learn&#8230; you&#8217;ll be kept captive by &#8216;The Viewpoint.&#8217;</p>
<p class="bodytext">What you THINK you see is NOT what is actually happening. What no pick up guru (who cares about actually training and getting his students GOOD!) &#8211; has realized is that…</p>
<p style="text-align: center;"><strong>The Viewpoint Completely SCREWS You</strong></p>
<p style="text-align: center;"><strong>Every Time You Are In the Field!</strong></p>
<p class="bodytext" style="text-align: left;">The ability to discover, then dismantle, and then REPLACE the basic ordering idea the Viewpoint is attached to is what is going to separate you from the pack!</p>
<p class="bodytext">The guys who got good either did this on accident or (more likely) never had a very limiting basic ordering idea to begin with&#8230; They don&#8217;t know what they&#8217;ve done to get past the illusion created by the Viewpoint!</p>
<p>Imagine a <em><strong>simple discovery and correction</strong></em> boosting your game. Previous tactics that NEVER worked for you now work BECAUSE you can see when and how to use them and you do it EASILY.</p>
<p class="bodytext">Imagine KNOWING where she is at and what to do next&#8230; this is the most shocking thing to see in my opinion. Girls are READY far more quickly than we&#8217;ve previously suspected!</p>
<p class="bodytext">The plain fact is… you can be awkward, average looking and even selectively lazy… and STILL get good at Game. It is NATURAL and sex is simple. But ONLY          if you&#8217;ve conquered the viewpoint created illusion.</p>
<p class="bodytext">Okay, I&#8217;m not going to tease you any more. I can&#8217;t teach you this process here in a blog post, because it takes a bit of explanation and drilling. You&#8217;ve got to          HEAR it and then do it for yourself.</p>
<p class="bodytext">It&#8217;s an audio that is about an hour long and will take you about another hour or so to do the process on yourself.</p>
<p class="bodytext">But once you do, you&#8217;ll start seeing and feeling shit you never have before. You&#8217;ll be amazed and wonder how you missed it&#8230; You&#8217;ll also say &#8216;No wonder!&#8217; at a lot of the stuff that happens in set when you get to the basic ordering idea.</p>
<p class="bodytext">It will take you about an hour          to listen but only a few minutes for the realizations to start setting in&#8230; Then, it&#8217;s time to do the process on yourself AND see how things change next time you go out!</p>
<p class="bodytext">And that&#8217;s it. You&#8217;ll have <strong>corrected</strong> the illusion          that is the SOURCE of all your misery <strong>in Game.</strong></p>
<p class="bodytext">Simple. Easy. <em>Fast</em>.</p>
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I know I&#8217;ve mentioned this before BUT it is so effective in getting communication lines back open that I think it deserves it&#8217;s own post&#8230;
AND&#8230; I want you to try it out and post results in the comments, much like we did with the &#8220;starting to forget what you [...]


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<p>I know I&#8217;ve mentioned this before BUT it is so effective in getting communication lines back open that I think it deserves it&#8217;s own post&#8230;</p>
<p>AND&#8230; I want you to try it out and post results in the comments, much like we did with the &#8220;starting to forget what you look like&#8221; text I told you guys about a while back.</p>
<p>It&#8217;s real simple.</p>
<p>You can use this on old blurred numbers or even girls you are still texting with but not getting anywhere.</p>
<p>Text: &#8220;I met your twin last night.&#8221;</p>
<p>If she says, &#8220;where? what did she look like?&#8221; (The most common responses) I usually text back something like:</p>
<p>&#8220;Short, chubby, red hair with freckles and a bowl cut&#8230; great personality.&#8221;</p>
<p>Then, you can use the killer, &#8220;We should hang out soon, I&#8217;m starting to forget what you look like&#8221; and if she gives a positive response, set up a meet.</p>
<p>Do it and let us know what happens in the comments!</p>
<p>Captain Jack</p>
<p>P.S. Early Sunday afternoons are the BEST time to text because the women are irritated about Fri/Sat night not working out for them. </p>
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<p>Would you like new possibilities in your life with women?</p>
<p style="text-align: left;">It doesn't start with new tactics or techniques... it starts with new Viewpoints and new Strategies.</p>
<p style="text-align: left;">I can help you with that...</p>
<p style="text-align: left;">Here's a new way:</p>

<p><strong>Introducing... The Master Strategies Monthly Teleconferences </strong>- Would you like to hear more of my thoughts and ideas on Game? There is<br> only so much I can do in writing. Especially in a blog because it is difficult to<br> really flesh out, develop and expound ideas in such a small space. But, with<br> an hour of talking or 8-12 pages of writing I could do A LOT.<br>
<br>

<em><strong>Here’s the plan… </strong></em>I am going to do a monthly<br> conference call. Each call will last 90 minutes. The first sixty of those minutes will be<br> me discussing, dissecting and really fleshing out how you can make this<br> whole Gaming thing easier, funner and more effective. It’s pretty safe to say that no<br> one has the same perspective and ideas about this stuff as I do.
<br>
<p>The last 30 minutes of the call I’ll answer questions and berate people for not getting it (just kidding about the berating).
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I’ve thought about charging monthly for this but I’ve decided not to. It’s a one-time payment for the full year. That’s 12 calls for a total of 18 hours. The price I’ve<br> settled on makes the cost $16.39 per hour. That comes out to $295.00 for the year.<br>
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The Game Dynamics posts have really gotten around. I&#8217;ve had DOUBLE the normal traffic and linking as my normal stuff and a lot of guys are resonating with it.
It&#8217;s gotten to the point where I look at all the words out of her mouth, text messages or emails as attempts to Clarify on the Dynamics. [...]


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<p>The Game Dynamics posts have really gotten around. I&#8217;ve had DOUBLE the normal traffic and linking as my normal stuff and a lot of guys are resonating with it.</p>
<p>It&#8217;s gotten to the point where I look at all the words out of her mouth, text messages or emails as attempts to Clarify on the Dynamics. I can HEAR which Dynamic is out of whack by the topics she brings up and stuff she says or questions she asks. Now that I know what she is getting at I can smoothly feed her the info she needs and ONLY the info she needs to get it Clarified.</p>
<p>Sexual Framing, while elegant in itself, did a lot of this but did it somewhat sloppily compared to what I expect to create with this new model.</p>
<p>MOST of the success you see PUAs from other systems getting comes from a boost in numbers/attempts, a boost in Intention+followup and the fact that women have high sex drives. (There&#8217;s also the added effect of having something to say so they are less likely to fuck things up.)</p>
<p>Now, shit is getting much, much easier.</p>
<p>It changes everything. It changes Sticking Point Analysis because now we look at SPs in terms of which Dynamic you are not Clarifying or Violating. If you are doing it and notice a pattern you can bust it and get a move forward&#8230; BUT, if you look at it from a higher viewpoint and see which Dynamic you are fucking up on then you handle MULTITUDES of SPs and potential SPs in one shot!</p>
<p>Progress will go through the roof!</p>
<p>I&#8217;ve already handled a BIG SP I have with girls that I&#8217;m actually/truly interested in&#8230; cracked it wide open and dissolved it once I saw what it was&#8230; easy, easy, easy. Using SP Analysis in the previous fine-grained approach would&#8217;ve taken a LOT more time/effort and it would&#8217;ve reappeared down the road further in interactions.</p>
<p><strong>Texting and Phone Game becomes so much easier.</strong> You probably have recent text messages in your phone right now that are attempts by a girl to Clarify on Dynamic 2 (&#8221;playing the same game Together.&#8221;) Handling it via text CAN be done but it would&#8217;ve been so much easier (and more powerful and persuasive) to do it in person.</p>
<p>If you do too much texting/phone without setting things up and getting back in front of her then you are creating Doubt on Dynamic 4 (<strong>You must demonstrate that you can carry her through the Obstacles… first by handling them in her mind, then in the immediate environment then over time.)</strong></p>
<p>Shit that was &#8220;ON!&#8221; can fizzle really quickly if you create DOUBT here. Also, if original Agreement on Dynamic 2 was on an SNL type or &#8220;no strings attached&#8221; relationship then the prolonged and repetitive association with her day-to-day life can start undermining the original agreement as that begins to look like a diff. game!</p>
<p>Can you see this?</p>
<p>We now have a model and a methodical way to deduce WHERE our gaming attempts are going wrong!!! And, then apply fixes in our communication to make things seem to her like &#8220;it just happened!&#8221;</p>
<p>This WILL create a huge jump just like Sexual Framing has!!! I predict it will have much more far reaching impact as we can begin to really get at the Game Rules (haven&#8217;t posted about this yet)&#8230; briefly, Game Rules are things that must be met or &#8220;not violated&#8221; in order for the Game to exist and operate&#8230; quick example: asking an FB if she is fucking anyone else is a violation of GR because it begins to blur the lines of the FB Game.</p>
<p>Time frames will shorten and close ratios will go WAY UP.</p>
<p>I am doing the Master Strategies Monthly audio on Game Dynamics in just a few days here. I REALLY think you should get it if you want Game to get much, much easier, less time consuming and less annoying.</p>
<p>This is Gaming Elegance at it&#8217;s finest and there aren&#8217;t a bazillion steps to remember or keep track of&#8230; once you have conceptual understanding a simple question (in your head) to notice what she is attempting to Clarify and then your response to Clarify makes shit run so smooth it is ridiculous.</p>
<p>When you sign up you&#8217;ll also get a Sexual Framing Audio (not the old free ones on my blog, the new advanced one with other PUAs asking questions for over an hour after the presentation) it&#8217;s one of the 4 from the Teleconference series. Plus, the previous recordings from the Master Strategies series. That&#8217;s 4 audios PLUS the upcoming game dynamics audio&#8230; then you&#8217;ll get another 9 additional over the next 9 months. That works out to something ridiculous like $17 per hour of audio.</p>
<p>In the future, I&#8217;ll release even more audios on new techniques and ways to execute this stuff, starting with a reclassification of all the &#8220;standard&#8221; stuff in the community. Using a tactic or routine at the wrong time can really, really fuck things up! Once you have Clarified you&#8217;ll NEVER use certain tactics/communications with her again because it will only make you go backwards. This is why certain sets inexplicably unravel.</p>
<p>Anyway, guys this is awesome new discovery&#8230; we ARE on to something that is going to SIMPLIFY and FORWARD gaming for the future.</p>
<p>Hope to see you as a member of my group of PUAs going out and benefiting and really jumping to the cutting edge.</p>
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<p><strong>Introducing... The Master Strategies Monthly Teleconferences </strong>- Would you like to hear more of my thoughts and ideas on Game? There is<br> only so much I can do in writing. Especially in a blog because it is difficult to<br> really flesh out, develop and expound ideas in such a small space. But, with<br> an hour of talking or 8-12 pages of writing I could do A LOT.<br>
<br>

<em><strong>Here’s the plan… </strong></em>I am going to do a monthly<br> conference call. Each call will last 90 minutes. The first sixty of those minutes will be<br> me discussing, dissecting and really fleshing out how you can make this<br> whole Gaming thing easier, funner and more effective. It’s pretty safe to say that no<br> one has the same perspective and ideas about this stuff as I do.
<br>
<p>The last 30 minutes of the call I’ll answer questions and berate people for not getting it (just kidding about the berating).
<p>
I’ve thought about charging monthly for this but I’ve decided not to. It’s a one-time payment for the full year. That’s 12 calls for a total of 18 hours. The price I’ve<br> settled on makes the cost $16.39 per hour. That comes out to $295.00 for the year.<br>
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This is a little update..
Went out last Sat. night. It was monumental. I worked a 2set  (blonde hb7, brunette hb9) and had a helluva a time because the 7 was ALL over me almost from the get go. Her Persistence is unparalleled. She kept on coming. I almost gave in a couple of [...]


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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hola Gentlemen,</p>
<p>This is a little update..</p>
<p>Went out last Sat. night. It was monumental. I worked a 2set  (blonde hb7, brunette hb9) and had a helluva a time because the 7 was ALL over me almost from the get go. Her Persistence is unparalleled. She kept on coming. I almost gave in a couple of times. I thought about going with it and SNL&#8217;ing the 7 but the 9 was too ridiculously hot for me to pass. The 9 was holding back giving her friend all the chances, though I could tell I was attracting her. She purposely muted her responses so it made it harder on me to use Magnification Principle on her. The whole night it was a tightrope walk gently fending off the 7 without offending her and gradually shifting to the 9&#8230; She was a brunnette with the &#8220;Swing Bob&#8221; hairstyle. A perfect face, real slender body and a nose ring. Perfect teeth and beautiful lips.</p>
<p>I opened them about 11:00 I think and the set ended at 1:20 am when they left. The 9 only had 2 drinks because she was driving them home. </p>
<p>I kept gradually shifting convo towards the 9 and the 7 just kept reasserting herself. I would linger eye-contact with the 9 even while shifting to speak to the 7&#8230; I&#8217;d look the 9 up and down and then look her in the eyes. I would gently kino her hips and waist&#8230; Then, at one point I decided it had gone on long enough, while talking I looked at her and held eye-contact hardcore for a LONG time (basically eye-fucking her)&#8230; she held it back and then a slight smile started to spread. She got the point.  </p>
<p>Another 30-40 minutes passed and the 7 FINALLY went to the bathroom. Girl was tall and slender but had a bladder the size of a watermelon. I grabbed the 9 and whispered in her ear, &#8220;I think your friend likes me&#8230; She&#8217;s cool and sexy but I&#8217;ve had my eye on you all night. I think you&#8217;re sexy.&#8221;</p>
<p>She said, &#8220;I&#8217;m glad you think that because I think you are sexy, too.&#8221;</p>
<p>CJ: &#8220;This is cool. I wasn&#8217;t going to stay out tonight past 12 (I had told them this earlier) but I&#8217;m glad I did.&#8221;<br />
HB: &#8220;Me too.&#8221;</p>
<p>Having her that close to me for that long actually created physical arousal in me which RARELY happens anymore. </p>
<p>She did, however, reject my kiss close. <img src='http://www.betheseducer.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_sad.gif' alt=':-(' class='wp-smiley' />  She said, &#8220;We hardly know each other&#8221; or &#8220;We just met.&#8221; &#8212; not sure what that was about so it makes me wonder. </p>
<p>In any case, I have her number and we are going out this week. I made sure to use a lot of C&#038;F during the couple of hours with them and give off player vibe because I have a natural tendency to lean towards LTR with the hotter more professional girls (she has a bachelor&#8217;s in MIS). They also do a lot more screening around this on D1 so I have to make a point to not give Agreement on that.</p>
<p>The Hot College girl is back in town so I am going to call her tomorrow to set up a Date. She was out of town for the original TimeBridge which she agreed to&#8230; isn&#8217;t that interesting? She agreed even though she knew she&#8217;d be at the beach, which goes to show you she intuitively knew it was NOT about the actual day\time but more about us hanging out.</p>
<p>The 7 I made out with on Tuesday is still on, too. So I&#8217;m going to set that up this week also. I don&#8217;t really like Day2s, though, so it is starting to feel like work&#8230; The only thing keeping me from rebelling is that I am really attracted to all of them (the 7 is cool and I am in a bit of a big booty phase).</p>
<p>I have a definitive way of diagnosing where things are screwy along the Dynamics which I&#8217;ll be using on the dates to guide my communication and thus get Clarification and Agreement (btw, Agreement is &#8220;harmony in feeling&#8221; &#8211; this is the feeling that you two are in harmony on the 4 dynamics.)</p>
<p>I&#8217;m willing to have any/all of them as FBs so that&#8217;s what I&#8217;ll be working towards.</p>
<p>Captain Jack</p>
<p>P.S. If you are good at designing logos and shit and are willing to trade my stuff for your work please email me at captainjackpua@gmail.com &#8212; </p>
<p>P.P.S. I feel like the majority of the rust is off&#8230; but, I&#8217;m tackling bigger sticking points and cutting way down on the alcohol. Eventually, I am cutting out alcohol altogether. I have recently discovered a group who have been successfully breaking alcohol for about 30 years. First, they handle the physical component. Then, they have a method for discovering and rooting out the mental aspects&#8230; the REASONS you resort to it when you do. By handling these they are able to get someone to full abstinence (my goal). It interferes way too much with my life for me to let it continue. </p>
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<p style="text-align: left;">I can help you with that...</p>
<p style="text-align: left;">Here's a new way:</p>

<p><strong>Introducing... The Master Strategies Monthly Teleconferences </strong>- Would you like to hear more of my thoughts and ideas on Game? There is<br> only so much I can do in writing. Especially in a blog because it is difficult to<br> really flesh out, develop and expound ideas in such a small space. But, with<br> an hour of talking or 8-12 pages of writing I could do A LOT.<br>
<br>

<em><strong>Here’s the plan… </strong></em>I am going to do a monthly<br> conference call. Each call will last 90 minutes. The first sixty of those minutes will be<br> me discussing, dissecting and really fleshing out how you can make this<br> whole Gaming thing easier, funner and more effective. It’s pretty safe to say that no<br> one has the same perspective and ideas about this stuff as I do.
<br>
<p>The last 30 minutes of the call I’ll answer questions and berate people for not getting it (just kidding about the berating).
<p>
I’ve thought about charging monthly for this but I’ve decided not to. It’s a one-time payment for the full year. That’s 12 calls for a total of 18 hours. The price I’ve<br> settled on makes the cost $16.39 per hour. That comes out to $295.00 for the year.<br>
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Recall from &#8220;Game Dynamics and Player in the Game = Elegance&#8221; Game Dynamic 1: You and her must agree you are both Players.
So, I&#8217;m going to introduce &#8220;Player States of Existence&#8221; to you to help you improve Dynamic 1.
Before she sees you or is aware of your presence your state is &#8220;Non-Existence.&#8221; After she [...]


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<p>Recall from <a href="http://www.betheseducer.com/2009/08/game-dynamics-and-player-in-the-game-elegance/">&#8220;Game Dynamics and Player in the Game = Elegance&#8221;</a> <strong>Game Dynamic 1: You and her must agree you are both Players.</strong></p>
<p>So, I&#8217;m going to introduce &#8220;Player States of Existence&#8221; to you to help you improve Dynamic 1.</p>
<p>Before she sees you or is aware of your presence your state is &#8220;Non-Existence.&#8221; After she becomes aware of you and/or you open and the set progresses, she updates your State to one of the following:</p>
<ul>
<li>Potential Player of a Game I Want to Play</li>
<li>Doubt (could be Doubt about Dynamic 2, 3, 4)</li>
<li>Playing a Different Game</li>
<li>Someone I Want to Play With</li>
</ul>
<p>All of her communication is geared towards Clarifying the Dynamics and/or forwarding agreement on them. If you are in an Existence of Doubt on Dynamic 3 she may call a certain girl in the club who is dancing sexy a slut to see what you say about it. (Also remember that most of this is unconscious, we are wired to gain certainty about the Game we are playing and our states of existence in it.)</p>
<p>If you call the girl a slut as well then you&#8217;ve shed some light for her on Dynamic 3. You need to respond in a way that reaffirms what Game you are playing and that you VALUE that Game Goal.</p>
<p>Contrast these two responses:</p>
<p>1) &#8220;For real, her boyfriend needs to put her in check.&#8221;</p>
<p>2) &#8220;I like it when women express their sexuality so freely.&#8221;</p>
<p>In one simple exchange you&#8217;ve created entirely different scenarios.</p>
<p><strong>Shit Tests?</strong></p>
<p>What we used to call &#8216;Shit Tests&#8217; aren&#8217;t &#8216;Shit Tests&#8217; at all. They are attempts to Clarify. Simple as that. You&#8217;ve done something or broadcast something or she has flat out ASSUMED something about the Game and wants to get a response from you about it to Clarify.</p>
<p>In the writing of Field Reports (or, even better, audio recordings) you can notice when you&#8217;ve been in a Doubt Status in her mind. It is clear as day. The stuff she says or asks you is so obviously trying to Clarify that I now wonder how I missed it for so long.</p>
<p>When the Dynamics are Clarified and Agreed on sex is a matter of keeping them clear and getting her to a place where you can escalate physically to sex.</p>
<p>Almost all sets that blow up after things have been going well are because you&#8217;ve cast Doubt on one or more of the Dynamics.</p>
<p>I did it msyelf just yesterday. Super hot 19 year old asian waittress, disqualified her so much that Dynamic 1 got thrown out and she didn&#8217;t feel like she could play.</p>
<p>What&#8217;s the Strategy now? I have to go back there and Clarify on Dynamic 1 and work back through the rest of them.</p>
<p><strong>Nested Games</strong></p>
<p>I have the working Hypotheses that women go to bars/clubs to find attractive mates to have sex with. That hypotheses has served me well and it is one that I continue to work within&#8230;</p>
<p>For some people, the hardcore clubbies, sex occurs inside of another game. That Game is Faux Celebrity. Think of the super-hot club chick. Her primary Game is Faux Celebrity. <em><strong>Almost </strong></em>anyone who wants to gain Agreement on Dynamic 1 for the Sex Game has to be playing Faux Celebrity Game first. For them, Sex seems to be a Nested Game inside of it&#8230; I think that since Mystery didn&#8217;t have any awareness of Nested Games he took this to mean this is THE ONLY way to do it. This is where his Celebrity and Entourage games concepts come from (and hence DHVs.)</p>
<p>Since the problem with Nested Games stems from having to Clarify and Agree on the Game Dynamics  TWICE (once for each Game) it appears more difficult.</p>
<p>People who have Sex as a Nested Game have larger Social Circles and/or serial LTRs or some other side effect. You see a lot of hot girls with Social Circles that have a lot of guys who passed on Dynamic 1 of the Outer Game and then failed on the Nested Game. Caught in the Friend Zone!</p>
<p>The Master Strategy is to cast DOUBT on the validity of the Outer Game and then BYPASS it to go straight to Clarifying on the Nested Game. If you can get Agreement on them then she will backwards rationalize why the Outer Game doesn&#8217;t matter or apply in this case.</p>
<p>She will HOOK MUCH HARDER because she has those intense feelings and it makes her feel like it must be more REAL.</p>
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