BYU in Paris

10 Things in My Bag

2018-06-28T23:00:00.000-07:00

10 things I carried with me every day in Paris (or I wish I had):

A sweater: It's true that almost every Parisian you see, no matter how hot it is, is sporting some kind of sweater. It didn't make sense to me for the first week or two. But I realized that the weather in Paris is actually pretty unpredictable, and it can go from windy and cloudy to hot and sunny to cold and rainy within a few hours. I started carrying a thin sweater with me every day and never regretted it!
Napkins/toilet paper: Yep. I learned this after using 4 public bathrooms that didn't have toilet paper (and 1 didn't have soap either). This is probably one of the most important things I wish I had known before I came to Paris.
A portable charger: My phone died so much in Paris!!! I didn't bring a portable charger but I wish I had. Because I constantly had to use my maps, or look something up online, or take pictures, I drained my phone super fast every day. Looking back, I definitely should have brought a small portable charger.
A book: This was something I just started doing because I got bored on the half-hour long metro rides, but I realized that it's actually pretty common for other people to do. When I read my book on the metro I felt less like a tourist or a student and more like a bored Parisian girl. (Also, you can practice reading in French! :D)
Earbuds/headphones: For a while, I only used these when I was on the metro or on my way home. However, I realized that they seriously have magic powers. When you have earbuds in, nobody bothers you. These are very helpful for when you're in a touristy area and don't want to be approached by the aggressive street vendors or people that will try and ask you for money. While I wouldn't recommend wearing them all the time, because it's not always safe and because we're really supposed to be interacting with people, it was nice to know that I had a way to give myself some privacy if I needed it.
Hand sanitizer. This isn't actually something I typically carry with me, but I found that I was in need of it on a daily basis in Paris. If you are even the slightest germaphobe, I would recommend it, unless you plan to just mooch off your roommate (sorry Megan).
Water bottle: So we've all gone over the fact that there are no bathrooms. There is also another issue: no drinking fountains. I bought more plastic water bottles in Paris than I'd like to admit (sorry earth) because there just wasn't anywhere to fill up/drink water. To minimize this, I filled up my water bottle every morning before I left and tried to refill it every time I got lucky and had access to a sink or some other kind of water source.
Cash: I'm big on souvenirs, pastries, baguettes and other things that usually cost less than 10 euros. So I tried to always carry a small amount of cash with me. French people (actually probably just people in general) tend to not like it when you try to buy something small with a credit card, or when you try to use a 50 euro bill to pay for something that costs 2 euros. It's not good to carry around a ton of money, but I found that always having 30-40 euros with me in varying types of coins and bills made my purchases a lot easier.
A small journal: I carried my journal with me every day in Paris and I'm so happy that I did. Whenever I had some down time I would write about what was going on, what I had been doing, how I was feeling, and so on. I'm so glad that I have such a thorough record of our study abroad. If/when I ever go back to Paris, I will be able to find all of my favorite places again and I will always be able to remember the memories I made there. And again, this is a good opportunity to practice writing in French! I tried this for a majority of the time and it was really hard, but it paid off because I have definitely improved my writing skills.
A disposable camera: this was just something for fun, but I brought a disposable camera to Paris and it was really fun to take the occasional picture with it instead of with my phone. There's something cool about taking a picture and not knowing how it will turn out. When I get those pictures developed, I'll get to relive those moments and I'm really excited.

Street Art Revealed

2018-06-28T21:51:00.000-07:00

Final Photo Essay: Street Art Revealed

You can't walk more for more than a minute without seeing some kind of street art in Paris. This project's focus was to capture these works of art in unique ways that perhaps wouldn't be experienced on a first glance. Photos that were taken from farther away emphasize the way the street art interacts and fits in with the city and people around it, while closer photos aim to help the viewer see the art in a new way.

Disintegrating Beauty

A patch of home

A quiet place

Eyes that have seen everything

"Je ne fais rien"

A secret

A different kind of prison

A strange encounter

a fantasyland hidden in grays and whites

An encouraging poster to see after walking all day: "Continuez!"

Details of a cheetah, keeper of the BHV

“If your pictures aren’t good enough, you aren’t close enough.”
-Robert Capa

10 Random Things to Know About France

2018-06-22T07:15:00.003-07:00

There are certain things about France that surprised me, things that I just wasn't expecting or didn't even think to think about. This is a list of those things, that might not even be important, just random and interesting things that I was surprised by in France that maybe will help you in some weird way before traveling to one of the greatest countries in the world! (In no particular order)

1) The water glasses are tiny. Regardless of whether you are eating at a cafe or just at home, French people just don't drink a ton of water with meals.

2) Public toilets don't often have seats. Yep, for all you ladies out there, you might have been worrying about the less than awesome public restroom situation in France.. well, it is definitely doable and your bladder will adjust to not going to the bathroom as often. Unfortunately, when you absolutely have to go there are a limited number of options. Usually the most readily available option is finding a 24/7 self-cleaning bathroom. I would keep a napkin on you at all times in case they don't have toilet paper, and just know that they definitely don't have seats, so while you could sit on that freshly cleaned and bleach-wetted toilet rim, I would just go ahead and squat. (Sorry if that was TMI Olivier, just helping some sisters out)

3) You usually have to weigh your fruit. When shopping at the grocery store, they have scales for you to weigh your fruit and then it will print a sticker out for you to put on and they can scan at the checkout. The first time I bought fruit the cashier made everyone behind me in line wait while I went back to weigh it, but now you know so you can avoid that shame.

4) A cafe experience will probably take two hours. The French love to take their time while eating. The waiter won't bother you unless you are clearly done with your plate. So if you don't have a ton of time, don't eat at a cafe. While it can be done in probably a little over an hour, they will think you're crazy for rushing as they just want you to sit and talk and slowly enjoy the food.

5) Back to bathrooms.. just don't be surprised if a man walks in. No, I'm not saying bathrooms are gender neutral, but I am saying that for some reason in the states we only have people come in and service and clean the bathrooms that are either of our same sex, or they close the bathroom and do what they need to do. Not the case in Europe, and a guy will totally walk in the women's bathroom to take out the trash, change the paper towels, whatever. Again, not a big deal, just a random fact. The good thing is most bathroom stalls come all the way to the ground so privacy is a lot better than in the U.S. where theoretically a small child could easily climb under your stall.

6) It is NOT all about the customer. I'm sure you've heard this, but I will just emphasize it again, the customer is not always right. You definitely have to put in your effort to please whomever is doing a service to you, just please don't act like a priveleged American.

7) Spiral staircases are all the rage. If you get dizzy easily, this might not be your favorite. Not only are there spiral staircases for every single monument in France (most of the churches you climb up, etc.) but they have also incorporated that into modern living, with most of the houses I've been to in France having a spiral staircase.

8) Tax is already included in the price you're paying. Whether it's a delicious snack from Marks and Spencer or a T-shirt from Bershka, the price you see is the price you'll pay. Same applies to restaurants, where the gratuity is already calculated so you don't have to tip.

9) Forearms on the table! This is one of those random good manners while eating, while in America we tend to eat with one hand only and do whatever with our other hand, in France it's not polite to keep any hands under the table. This means you should have both arms resting on the table, somewhere between the wrist and the elbow, and really you should need both of those hands to handle the fork and knife combination. When our host dad explained this to us the daughters promptly exclaimed that that was old etiquette and didn't apply anymore, to which he replied that it is still good manners, and everyone should do it.

10) Dinner with your family (or anyone really) doesn't start until at least 8 and then it might take two hours. Again, French just love spending time with their food. Especially gathered around the dinner table with their family. Most nights that we had dinner with our host family we would be at the table at 8, and maybe finish eating by 9, but would all just sit there and keep talking until about 10 or 11. Use this time to learn about french culture, about your host family, or ask questions about the language. This was one of my favorite things about being in France, and something that you probably won't get to experience again, so take advantage of it!

Sometimes part of that post-dinner talking will include funny french youtube videos, at least that happened in my family :)

10 Things Post

2018-06-21T19:05:00.001-07:00

10 Metro Stations Worth Being Familiar With

Dallin Day

Becoming familiar with the metro is one of the most important things a visitor to Paris can do. For a short term visitor, however, it can be hard to know which metro stops are worth visiting and why, especially for those looking to get off the beaten path. Not all of the metro stops mentioned below are necessarily the closest stop to a listed attraction, but rather are convenient to several different noteworthy destinations.

1. République - The Place de la République is obviously the headliner here. A popular starting point for demonstrations, the place can sometimes be dangerous. Nearby are the Canal Saint-Martin, which is gorgeous, and Du Pain Et Des Idées, where you can get the best escargot in Paris, bar none. There is also a brunch bar with sweet potato waffles up the street.

2. Place Monge - One of the exits to this station comes out right next to the gladiator arena in Paris, which is now a public park with free water, bathrooms, and a field you can actually use. The Place Monge itself also hosts very famous farmer's markets three days a week. The Institut du Monde Arabe is not far either, which provides one of the best free views of historic Paris and Notre Dame.

3. Censier-Daubenton - While this stop is right next to Place Monge, it is more convenient to several good destinations. First, Carl Marletti, which is one of the best pastry shops in Paris. This stop is also along the Rue Mouffetard, a haven for street artists as well as restaurants/tourist shops that are a little less-frequented and more reasonable.

4. Luxembourg - Not technically a metro station, this is along the RER B line. This stop is really central for a few big attractions. The Jardins de Luxembourg (and the Palais) are obviously very close by, as well as the Panthéon, where many of Paris' most famous thinkers are buried.

5. Chatelet - Pretty much the center of Paris. Since the station covers many blocks underground, there are a lot of sights that can be accessed, depending on which exit you use. The Forum, Centre Pompidou, several churches (including the LDS church building), the Seine and islands in the Seine are all within easy walking distance. This is important to be familiar with because it epitomizes the beaten path, but hidden gems are there for those willing to put in the work, such as Huré or the Steak and Shake near the station.

6. Saint-Michel - This stop is essentially the gateway to the Latin Quarter for me. The Fontaine Saint-Michel is impressive, but the whole surrounding area is a ginormous tourist trap, another epitome of the beaten path. Nearby, however, are the Musée du Moyen Age, campus of the Sorbonne, and Crepe-Genia, which is the Little Caesar's of the crepe world: lots of mediocre food for cheap.

7. Opéra - The Palais Garnier is obviously huge, but there are lots of cool things within easy walking distance. The flagship Lindt store in Paris is around the back of the opera house, where you can always get a free sample, and usually two or three without much trouble. The Galeries Lafayette and Le Printemps are also close by.

8. Saint-Sulpice - Such a cool area, and not nearly as crowded. The cathedral is simple but nice, and so big. My favorite thing to visit in this neighborhood was the Hungarian Cultural Institute, where they have bake sales every other saturday.

9. La Défense - Pretty low on the list of sights for most tourists, the Grande Arche is really cool. That said, the hyper-modern metropolis aesthetic of the region is a good place to go for an American fix. Malls dot the area, and american restaurants and other stores are common. Basically, the whole area is a temple to capitalism.

10. Charles de Gaulle - Étoile - This is my catch-all for a whole cool region of the city. The Champs-Élysées is obviously all tourist-trappy, but the Arc de Triomphe is not something to miss. In addition, many other famous sights are within a moderate (but worth doing) walk down the street to Concorde and beyond. For the lazy traveler, however, there's a really good sandwich place just northeast of the arch that's worth a visit.

A Walk Through Rueil (Final Photo Essay)

2018-06-21T17:06:00.001-07:00

This photo essay is intended to pay homage to the town of Rueil-Malmaison, which was for me a home away from home. It will introduce through pictures and journal entries my interactions with this hidden gem of a town which rests in the shadows of Paris. Some might still prefer the city, but take a minute to see the town through the eyes of a foreigner, and maybe you too will find a second home within.

May 4: Our family showed us around Rueil today. Apparently, Josephine, the wife of Napolean, lived here and that's kind of what they're famous for. Everything just looks so old! Like the Hotel de Ville, I feel like there would be nothing like this in the states.

May 5: Today was really our first day out and about on our own. It takes 17 minutes to walk to the metro, but the fastest way to go is if you shortcut through the square in front of the Carrefour. There's this gate that you have to go through, one side is for bikes and the other side is for everything and everyone else. It has a funky shape and at first I had no idea how to get through, we had to stand there for a few seconds before we figured it out.

May 10: The name of our street is Rue Sophie Rodrigues, which is just funny because it sounds like a french spanish name, and I want to know the history of it because it doesn't seem to fit the rue at all.

May 17: I kind of feel like the trees outside our house make it seem more tropical or jungly. Maybe one day you can look at a picture and decide for yourself.

May 22: I feel like I'm going to trip every time I walk down the stairs to our room. Really, I've never seen any stairs quite like them, I swear the french are just obsessed with spiral stairs.

May 30: There are these random knobs in the shower, and they shoot water out at very uncomfortable places. I can only imagine what it is for, and I kind of want to ask, but I feel like that would be kind of an awkward conversation.

June 2: There's a school right by our house that we walk by everyday, and it just makes me laugh because according to our host mom, there were two rich Americans, Mr. Tuck and Mrs. Stell, who came to Rueil and absolutely fell in love with the town, so they donated a ton of money to the town. They used that money to build a school and a hospital, and named it after them. The funny part is everyone says their names in a french accent, L'École "Too-k Stell".

June 6: Shopping at a french grocery store is just not the same as shopping in an american one. For instance, they make you weigh all your fruit and print out a sticker. They also have security guards come around 5 minutes before closing and basically herd you to the cashier. The second one happened to us today, and we looked like fools.

June 9: We heard a noise outside the church and wandered in to find a christian rock concert going on. It was pretty trippy to see a light show and rock concert going on in a super old catholic church. I'm not complaining though, that's the mix of french culture, old things adapting with the new.

June 16: After the basketball game a few weeks ago our host family took us to steak n shake, which I know is american, but their shakes are to die for. I tried a speculoos one last time and we decided tonight that we needed to celebrate our last weekend in Paris and try the macaron pistache flavor. I'm basically in heaven with this weird franco-american food. Maybe I'll survive after all when I have to go home.

Man vs. Wild

2018-06-21T06:55:00.001-07:00

Georges-Eugène Haussmann was the mastermind behind the urban modernization of Paris. Grand boulevards and manicured gardens are things that define the metropolis of today's Paris, but before the beautiful buildings and modernity there existed a countryside and natural beauty; nature in its raw state before man tailored it to become as he wanted.

Nature is organized naturally and man seeks to impose his own organization. For example, a wall and bench were built by man and yet are surrounded by nature. So which came first, the bench or the plants?

What used to be untamed is interrupted by manmade structures and inventions

So does man seek to protect or control nature?

Has man completely taken over or is there still a space for that which is naturally occurring?

Does man let nature take its course?

Are fences and chains to keep people out or to keep nature in?

To protect or control?

Perhaps in some cases it is both to protect nature and to control how much man interferes with it.

Nature is a cycle. Modernization gives organization to nature, though at times it seems as if man's interference is nature's tomb. Yet the two coexist and have since the beginning of man's existence. Humans will always transform and interact with nature, and nature will always adapt and make itself manifest.

The People of Paris

2018-06-21T02:04:00.002-07:00

“Become friends with people who aren’t your age. Hang out with people whose first language isn’t the same as yours. Get to know someone who doesn’t come from your social class. This is how you see the world. This is how you grow.” -- Unknown

“We don’t get to know people when they come to us; we must go to them to find out what they are like.” – Johann Wolfgang von Goethe

Approaching a stranger with a camera and asking to take a picture of them can be a daunting task. However, when we seek people out, when we reach out and start talking to them, our lives and their lives are touched and changed in a way that comes no other way. One must appreciate and learn others' ways of thinking to be able to relate to the world and see it in a new light. Strangers can teach history, give advice, or share a simple conversation where both parties leave smiling. To do this, we must have an open mind and be willing to ask questions and to try to connect with people in whichever language they speak. Everyone has something to contribute when given the chance.

Danielle: "...sinon, j'aime bien la Place des Vosges."
Moi: "En fait, c'est la première fois que je suis ici."
Danielle: "Et vous aimez ?"
Moi: "Oui, j'aime bien !
Danielle: "Tout est historique chez nous. Alors, vous avez la place là, et ici, tous les bâtiments sont égaux. Comprenez ce que ça veut dire ? Ils sont tous pareils. Sauf ce pavillon là qui est plus haut, vous voyez ? Mais bon. Et en face, alors, vous avez le pavillon du roi, et le pavillon de la reine."
Moi: "Ohhh, et ça, c'est de quelle époque ?"
Danielle: "De l'époque d'Henri IV."

(Danielle ne voulait pas que je prenne une photo d'elle, disant qu'elle n'était pas très photogenique. Mais après qu'on a parlé, elle a accepté que je prenne une photo de ses mains.)

Mrs. Bueche: "And when you go back [to America], what do you intend to do?"
Me: "So, I am studying French actually. So I will keep studying French but in America. Umm... yeah, studying and working. And... missing Paris probably."
Mrs. Bueche: "It's always the same."
Me: "It's always the same."
Mrs. Bueche: "Okay. It's always like... cities and countries... and you go back to your home, and you miss it."

Me: "Okay, before we leave, what's one piece of, like, advice for photography?"
Michael: "One piece of advice? Shoot film."
Michael: "And besides that, just have an open mind. And, like, uh... go to the strangest places. I mean, this is subjective because this is what I do, you know. But, like, do something unusual and try to find something that hasn't been done before. And stray away from stereotypical things but also, look for the stereotypical things, look for those images that are really iconic and take those. And if you're shooting digital, just shoot everything. But, um, even if not, shoot everything anyway. And don't listen to these rules that they tell you--oh, the rule of thirds, or that can't be in the center, or it has to be up, you know... Just like, do it however you want, like whatever you think looks good is good. And then... get critiqued as much as possible. And try to get people to give you a real honest critique, not just kiss your a**... which is hard to get."

Benjamin: "Yeah, sure, you can take a picture of me. I don't have to do anything or say anything, right? I have work to do. I have a class of students to teach in twenty minutes."

Moi: "Bonjour, excusez-moi ! Je sais que c'est un peu bizarre, mais je fais un petit projet de photographie où je demande à des gens que je ne connais pas de prendre une photo d'eux. Puis-je prendre une petite photo de vous?"
L'homme sur la droite: "Oui, oui."
L'autre: "Ouais, mais pas avec la bière !"
Moi: "Ok, vous pouvez cacher vos bières !"
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Moi: "Comment vous vous appelez ?"
L'homme sur la droite: "Momo."
L'autre: "Moi aussi, je m'appelle Momo."
Moi: "Ok, ça marche."

Moi: "Ça fait combien de temps que tu es ici à Paris ?"
Anne: "Ça fait... à peu pres une année."
Moi: "C'est bien ! Et tu étudies quoi ?"
Anne: "Le modelisme... C'est un peu comme... les vêtements... le style !"

Me: "So what's something cool that I should go do or see the next time I am in London?"
Alice (to Kat): "What is there to do in London? What do we do in London? We drink beer on the south bank."
Kat: "Yeah, that's like all we do!"
Alice: "It's the same here, except you change the beer to wine and drink along the Seine."

Moi: "Bonjour, monsieur, excusez-moi ! Puis-je carasser votre chien, s'il vous plait ?"
Monsieur: "Oui, bien sûr."
Moi: "Comment il s'appelle ?"
Monsieur: "Il s'appelle Jules !"
Moi: "Ah, il est mignon. J'ai un labrador aussi, en fait, mais elle est chez moi aux États-Unis."
Monsieur: "Vous voyagez sans votre labrador ??"
Moi: "Oui, je sais que c'est un désastre !"
Monsieur (en train de rire): "Oui, un désastre !"

Moi: "J'aime bien ton T-shirt."
Delphine: "Ah, merci !"
Moi: "Tu viens d'où ?"
Delphine: "Je viens de Champs-sur-Marne."
Moi: "C'est où, ça ?"
Delphine: "C'est dans le soixante-dix-septième."
Moi: "Ah, ok. Je viens de Seattle."

Me: "Well I feel like you have to leave your own country and experience other cultures to be able to experience them but also to appreciate your own culture, you know..."
John: "Definitely."
Me: "Like, yes I'm behind on my studies since I took that two-year break to go on my mission, but I'm so glad I did because I have so much more life experience."
John: "Absolutely. Good for you! I mean, book knowledge is great, don't get me wrong, and you need it, but life knowledge is irreplaceable."

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“When I felt comfortable with the camera, I realized that it was my ticket to getting to know people and it is those types of conversations and experiences that I now want to capture on audio.” – Bryan Cox

After

2018-06-21T01:45:00.000-07:00

Before coming to Paris, I had the expectation that I would like the city, but not as much as I like other cities in France. I was excited to experience France since I am no longer a missionary here, and looked forward to exploring the city, going for walks, hanging out, etc. But I was still biased for the south of France, and think I set my expectations of liking Paris a little low before coming.

I can say now that I genuinely love Paris. I love it in a different way than I love other cities in France, but that’s normal because I had different experiences in Paris than in other cities. I was expecting Paris to be all city, all tourist, all crazy drivers, all the stereotypes. And there is a lot of that in Paris, but I was pleasantly surprised by how much I got to know and appreciate the city. I think that had I come as a tourist, only to take a picture with the Eiffel Tower and go inside the Louvre (which I still did, of course, but there’s more to Paris than that!), I would not have come to appreciate Paris like I do now. Living here as a student for a semester really gives you the opportunity that most tourists don’t have, which is to explore, go slow, enjoy things that Paris has to offer that tourists typically don’t take the time to see or do.

One of my favorite things to do in Paris was just to hang out. There were times during our study abroad where we would casually go sit in front of the Eiffel Tower, on the steps of Sacré Coeur, in a beautifully manicured park, or walk along the Seine, simply because we could. We had time to really enjoy ourselves without feeling rushed to go from one tourist site to another.

Don’t get me wrong, I love visiting all the tourist sites. They’re popular for a reason. But I was really looking forward to spending time relaxing and enjoying every moment, which is what I did, and I am not disappointed one bit. Paris truly is amazing!

10 Places for a Cheapskate to Shop in Paris

2018-06-21T00:57:00.000-07:00

Going to tourist shops in Paris can be fun, but there’s more to life than buying Eiffel Tower keychains. Being a somewhat frugal spender myself, it’s important to know where to go shopping without burning a hole in your bank account, while still having the whole “French shopping” experience. Hopefully this sheds some light on where you might want to spend your money, outside of tourist shops.

1. H&M – We have H&M in America, but I don’t know what it is about H&M in France, it’s somehow better. The styles are slightly more European, and it’s a good place to go when you need something inexpensive but practical like a cardigan, pants, you name it.

2. Zara – We also have Zara in America, but it’s cheaper in Europe! You can’t go anywhere in Paris without seeing someone walking around carrying a Zara shopping bag. If you want trendy clothes that aren’t too expensive, Zara is the way to go.

3. Mango – Mango is kind of like Zara in that it has trendy clothes that are a bit nicer, and a bit more expensive, but still affordable. I also discovered when I came to Paris, that Mango has a men’s section! Everybody wins.

4. C&A – This is a good place to find inexpensive clothes in what one might call an ordinary clothing store. But when people ask where you bought your shirt when you go back to America, and it’s from C&A, you can brag that you bought it in France.

5. Bershka – Bershka will be your new best friend. Need an inexpensive t-shirt with French words on it? Go to Bershka. Super trendy clothes, super good price!

6. New Look – Yet another store with cute, inexpensive clothes. They have a lot of accessories too!

7. Marks and Spencer – Marks and Spencer isn’t a clothing store, but it will change your life. It’s also an English store, so they don’t sell crepes or baguettes which might be a disappointment if you’re looking for the stereotypical French snack. However, Marks and Spencer sells the most delicious cold juices, ready-to-eat sandwiches and salads, cookies, candy, chips, etc. If you’re feeling snacky, hop off the metro at La Defense (there are other locations in Paris, but the one at La Defense is my favorite) and grab something from Marks and Spencer. You can’t go wrong!

8. Hema – At Hema they sell a variety of different things, including small household and kitchen items, notebooks and pens, as well as candy and snacks. You can get a bag of off-brand peanut M&M’s from Hema for 1.75, whereas grocery stores sell them for double the price. And they’re better at Hema! I would also highly recommend the stroopwafels.

9. Le Bon Marché – Le Bon Marché is a department store that might seem a little bit more pricey in some areas, but I think it’s fun to just wander around and look at everything they have to offer.

10. Flea markets at Vanves and Saint-Ouen – If antiques are your thing, you should check out the flea markets at Vanves and Saint-Ouen. I’m not a huge collector so I don’t go to buy, but rather to look. They have a wide variety of old knick knacks and just about everything you could think of, so it’s worth it to take a look!

10 Things to Prepare Yourself For Before Going to France

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The Smoking: Before arriving in Europe I did not realize how many people smoked! If you are sensitive, hold your breath because you can't go two steps without smelling it.
Please prepare exact change: Never go anywhere without euros because you never know who will only accept the change.
Long dinners: The French love their leisure and make the most time out of their dinners. It is their time to relax and be surrounded by love ones. Just enough the 4-course meal and sit tight!
The cars: Always, always look both ways (if a two way street) because cars will zoom past red lights (even 10 seconds after it turned yet) and they do not always stop for pedestrians.
Zero personal space: Hopefully you can handle no space because the metros tend to get extremely busy during rush hour and no one wants to go up stairs ;)
NO A.C! Make sure to bring few pajama clothes for the summer time because the French don't believe in air conditioning and you might end up sleeping on top of the covers most of the time.
Removable shower head: This was definitely my least favorite thing about France. Showering turned into an inconvenience when really it should not be an inconvenience.
No ice cubs: Cold drinks? Yeah right. Unless your host family has ice cubs. Get used to drinking milk warm drinks.
Strikes on strikes: The French love their strikes. From the RER to the catacombs, to Versailles, "Les movements socials" are everywhere and will mess up your plans from time to time.
The French will always offer you more: With that being said, take smaller portions if you get full quickly and then just work your way from there!

Final Photo Essay

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The Paris Métro. 214 kilometres, 303 stations, 16 lines, and millions of passengers a day. People file on and off the trains all day long, surrounded by fellow commuters, travelers, and tourists. Humans are naturally social, we crave human interaction yet due to social code we only interact under specific circumstances. This photo essay captures people on the métro, it captures the solitude we force upon ourselves. Many of the people photographed were aware they were being photographed, yet none of them reacted.

Sunglasses on the métro, très cool

Final train of the night

Ignore the girl taking a picture

Put on your face girl

Don't. Make. Eye. Contact

Illuminated reading

Candy Crush

Deep in thought

Caught in the middle

Giving me side eye

After: Experiencing Paris Baguettes 🥖

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Before post: https://byuinparis.blogspot.com/2018/04/before_79.html?m=1

I set out on this study abroad with the goal to try as much food as I could. Of course, you can’t really get more french than a true, french baguette. Though I was not able to try all the best baguettes in Paris (that would probably take years!) I was able to try my fair share, and it taught me quite a lot about what the french value, and how important the quality of food is.

During my time in Paris I was able to eat a baguette almost every single day. My family always had a baguette there for breakfast with butter and jam, I would often eat a sandwich for lunch that was made on a baguette, and for dinner my family would always have a baguette with the meal and also with a cheese course after the meal. Eating all these baguettes made me kind of a snob when I ate one that was less than life-changing.

A good baguette usually has to include at least 3 things, first, a wonderful crunch, second, a fluffy inside, and third, (and this might just be for me) but a good buttery flavor. The first life-changing baguette that I tasted in Paris was the ‘Best Baguette of 2018’ at Boulangerie 3M. This was amazing, in fact with this one, it was still hot so I took it outside, plopped down at a picnic bench, and just ate. There was a perfect amount of crunch and fluff, with a wonderfully delicious taste.

The second life-changing baguette that I ate was from Boulangerie Brun which was named the ‘Best Baguette of 2017’. In my opinion, this one was not nearly as good as the best baguette of 2018. It had the same wonderful crunch, although it was almost too much to where the roof of my mouth was being completely destroyed. As far as the taste, this one tasted a lot more like sourdough than normal, losing most of the beautiful butter flavor. However, it was still one of the best baguettes I’ve ever eaten.

Overall, I learned that there’s a lot that goes into a good baguette, and there are many different variations, but as far as Paris baguettes go, it’s hard to go wrong.

After Post: Café Experience

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Before post: https://byuinparis.blogspot.com/2018/04/before.html

The French take prize possession in their free time, which is something that I for one lack and that I think America lacks as well. No matter what the time, the French will enjoy a sit down meal at a restaurant with friends. My parents traveled to France this past year, so they passed on their food recommendations to me. The café I went to was Breizh café: a quaint little crêpe place that specialized in savory buckwheat crêpes. At the time, it was not possible to sit outside and people watch because of the rain. However, the conversations inside the café were equally as interesting. I could have sat inside that café for hours just listening to others, but like always, there was somewhere else I needed to be. All because of this crazy and hectic lifestyle that Americans keep.

10 Important Moments in History

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The tearing down of the Bastille fortress.

Built in the 1300’s, the Bastille fortress was originally created to protect the eastern side of Paris. By the time of its demise the fortress was mainly used as a prison; most of its inmates were political prisoners put there by the monarchy. It was torn down by revolutionaries on July 14, 1789. July 14 is now a national holiday known as Bastille Day. Anyway, revolutionaries tore down the prison and it triggered one of many revolutions. Today, Place de la Bastille stands in the place of the prison. The French still protest regularly, because of the Bastille's history protests take place in the square every year.

2.) World War 1

Alright you should really know about WWI. It’s often overlooked in history classes (rude) and there is a lot to know so I’m gonna be embarrassingly brief. Basically the war started because European leaders were greedy. Austria declared war on Serbia after an archduke was assassinated by a Serbian rebel. Russia was kinda bros with Serbia so they declared war on Austria, Germany was friends with Austria so the Germans declared war on Russia. France was like “wait I want to be involved too” so they declare war on Germany saying it’s because they were Russia’s allies. Germany decides the best way to attack France is to go through Belgium and obliterate them (this is known as the Rape of Belgium). England was experiencing FOMO and was like “hey Belgium is little, leave them alone” and so they declared war too. As you can see it was a hot mess and suddenly millions of Europe’s young men were fighting each other for no real reason. On top of that the world had created modern weaponry but decided to fight using old tactics. The result was horrific trench warfare that left survivors with debilitating shell shock. Wilfred Owen, a poet who died in the war, wrote haunting poetry that records the appalling conditions the soldiers lived in as well as the lack of patriotism and distrust of leaders that so many soldiers felt. OK I’m telling you all this because Modern Art is hella important for the world and subsequent art movements. Many Modern artists fought in the war and were deeply affected by the madness that ensued. Writers, painters, poets, actors, musicians found themselves in Paris after the war making incredible art. In order to appreciate a lot of the art as well as Paris’s influence you gotta know why they made it and why it was in Paris.

3.) World War 2

OK so obviously after learning about WWI you should learn about WWII. Luckily WWII is a popular subject in schools and so most people know a lot about the subject. Germany quickly took Paris during WWII. There were valiant rebels who fought to oust the Germans but I don’t want to focus on that. The French government and police cooperated and aided in rounding up about 75,000 of France’s Jews and deporting them to death camps. Yikes. Le Marais is one of the oldest areas of Paris and is known as a Jewish neighborhood. France was definitely a victim of WWII but it's important to know they were not completely innocent. France is often quick to admit to this.

4.) Haussman’s Renovation of Paris

OK so like obviously Paris is a super old city, it was actually created by the Romans, but most of the Paris you know and love today is only a couple hundred years old. Emperor Napoleon III (not THE Napoleon, some nephew or something) commissioned Paris to be rebuilt between 1853 and 1870. Georges-Eugène Haussman was in charge of the planning. They effectively burned down the city and rebuilt it. This allowed Paris to more effectively battle overcrowding, disease and crime. It also allowed Paris to build a new grid system, one that better suited modern life. If you are curious as to what Paris looked like before Haussman, visit the Marais. While it wasn’t left completely untouched, a large portion of this neighborhood survived.

5.) Napoleon Bonaparte’s Reign

Oh Napoleon, small man on a big horse right? He did more than commission grand paintings of himself. Bonaparte changed Paris. Bonaparte gained power in 1800, he brought stability to a country that had formerly been in the throws of anarchy due to the revolution. Some of Paris’s most famous attractions owe their existence to Bonaparte. He commissioned the building of Arc de Triomphe, Place Vendôme, and the Madeleine (which started as a memorial to the military). He also built one of the most walked streets in Paris, Rue de Rivoli. He designated the Louvre as a museum. As you tour Paris and snap pictures of all your favorite monuments, remember you have Napoleon to thank.

6.) Colonization

“France wasn’t colonized, Paris wasn’t colonized why should I know about it?” Because France became what it is because of colonization. Colonization in Europe really started during the 16th century. They took parts of Asia, South America, and Africa. Over the course of colonization Europeans kidnapped millions of Africans and sold them into slavery. The French took over most of North Africa during this time. France also took over a number of islands in the Caribbean. There they pillaged the indigenous people and forced African slaves to produce sugar cane. Imma spare you all the details of colonization but just know it was ROUGH. While pillaging the world they also stole a lot of art, most of it still lives in Paris. When you visit the quai Branly museum keep in mind that a great deal of the art there was stolen during colonization. Yikes.

7.) Post- Colonization

Ooo we’re talking about colonization again. Lol it’s important. European countries eventually lost their colonies. I’m not gonna get into it but when France and other European countries left these colonies they created a power vacuum. After working hard to destroy local culture and customs they left with little political aid. This meant that the person with the biggest guns was the one with the most control. A lot of the unrest around the world is partly thanks to Europe and post colonization. OK I'm speeding through this important topic and I sincerely apologize. Lol if you want to know more, research it! I think we’re all getting tired of this blogpost.

8.) The creation of Académie française

The academy was established in 1635. Any poor soul who has attempted to learn french knows how serious the language is. Living in France without being fluent in French means being corrected A LOT, or even worse, just being spoken to in English after attempting French. So when studying in Paris it’s important to remember that the French take their language very seriously, it’s part of the culture. Don’t be too offended when you’re brushed off for your mediocre language skills.

9.) September 10, 1977

This is the last day the guillotine used in France. This date isn’t that important, I just think it’s cool. The guillotine was created in response to hundreds of years of torture and gruesome death sentences, the guillotine was a great way to go. There is also a theory that the brain stays conscious for up to 13 seconds after the head has been cut off. So now I kind of want to die by guillotine because it would be pretty cool to be just a head for 13 seconds.

10.) May 1968

The biggest protests in Paris history took place in May 1968. University students started the mass protests but factory workers and farmers joined as well. Today Parisians still protest heavily in May. It’s a deep part of the culture, taking to the streets for what you believe in is possibly my favorite thing about Parisians.

A New Perspective

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"Nature does not create works of art. It is we, and the faculty of interpretation peculiar to the human mind, that see art."

Man Ray.

Time and time again, people set out to capture the perfect image once seen on Pinterest or Instagram. Needless to say, sometimes those pictures aren't always what we are looking for and we are disappointed with the outcome because we can't mimic the work of others. But what happens when you tilt your head a different direction, get down on one knee, or move one foot over? A new world is discovered and a new set of eyes are born as the way we view the world changes.

10 Cathedrals in Paris

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Most of my free time wandering was driven by an inner dialogue of “that looks like a church, I’m going to go find it.” I love churches and I fell in love with each one I visited. Catholicism is a big part of French culture and it’s amazing to physically see the history before your eyes. If you need another excuse to go in a church, they keep you dry in the rain and they are always cool, even on the hottest days of summer. Here are my top 10 cathedrals you’ve gotta see in Paris.

1) Notre Dame de Paris. We know you’re going to come here, but consider making your visit a little more meaningful by attending a mass or perhaps climbing into the bell tower and seeing an amazing view.

2) Eglise de la Madeleine. This place is full of Roman architecture, but on the inside is an amazing collection of sculptures and an amazing organ. The organ is played on Sundays between masses and I would highly recommend hearing this amazing instrument.

3) Notre Dame de l’Assomption. This one is just around the corner form the Madeleine and not popular with tourists, though it is certainly beautiful enough. There are often fresh flowers inside and the bright paint brightens up even the greyest of Paris days.

4) Saint Antoine des Quinze-Vingts. Tucked right in the middle of apartment buildings, it’s amazing the space created inside. Try to stop by during an organ rehearsal or choir meeting. The music fills the space beautifully and is an unforgettable experience.

5) Saint Sulpice. I do not know the exact dates, but this church certainly feels much much older than the others. You can sense it in the floors, walls, windows, everything. It also features an amazing statue of Mary at the back. If churches aren’t your groove, check out the fair outside this church and see if you can find any great treasures.

6) Saint Merri. This church holds free concerts every Saturday and Sunday, followed by a tour of the cathedral. Pick up a schedule and find which tickles your fancy. You simply must attend one.

7) Saint Léon. The tile work on the outside of this building is amazing and a stark contrast to its setting. It seems the buildings had to be constructed around this obstacle of a church and it really sticks out. But the architecture is amazing and it’s certainly worth a trip. If you’d like a place to picnic, there is a parc right across the street with grass you can actually sit on.

8) Sacré Cœur. What would this list be without this famous site? It’s an amazing view high above the city. CLimbing the dome is an amazing experience but it’s certainly not one for the claustrophobic at heart.

9) Saint Eustache. Right next to Châtelet, this enormous building is a must see. Concerts are held here regularly and the organ has more than 8000 pipes.

10) Saint Chapelle. While it is no longer an active site of worship, this is certainly a must see. The stained glass is unmatched. Brush up on your bible stories if you want to take a shot at interpreting some of the windows. While the large windows on each wall are rightly the centerpiece of this amazing building, don’t forget to look at all the other details in that room.

Final Photo Essay

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Graffiti Vs. Honoring the Past

This photo essay was inspired partly by the Mission Héliographique. It aimed to document graffiti-centered abuses of irreplaceable historical sites in Paris. While Paris is famous for its street art, graffiti feels unrefined, destructive, and qualitatively different from art in any sense. But is that really the case?

Porte de l'Église Saint-Paul

"Modern art is a disaster area. Never in the field of human history has so much been used by so many to say so little." -Banksy

La Fontaine Saint-Michel

"There's something really the matter with most people who wear tattoos." -Truman Capote

Statue de Voltaire

"My students tag tables, walls, and chairs because their greatest fear is that no one will ever remember them. They do not believe they can give impassioned speeches, rally people in protest, paint masterpieces. They think they will die, small and forgotten, and it dictates their every action." -Thomm Quackenbush

Place de la Bastille

Place de la Bastille is the final resting place for five hundred people. As the birthplace of the French Revolution, the Place is steeped in history and architecture that cannot be replaced.

Pont des Arts

The pont des arts, once a popular place to hang padlocks, has been cleaned in recent years. Still, locks and graffiti dot the "Bridge of the Arts."

Musée du Louvre

Street performers often do their work illegally, for little or no compensation. While their relationship with the authorities is strained, these performers add a dynamic, cultured element to the city that would not exist without them.

Musée Trocadéro

"Some people become cops because they want to make the world a better place. Some people become vandals because they want to make the world a better looking place." -Banksy

Fontaine Saint-Denis

"Graffiti is one of the few tools you have if you have almost nothing. And even if you can't come up with a picture to cure world poverty you can make someone smile while they're having a piss."

-Banksy

Centre Georges Pompidou

Once considered vandalism in its own right, the centre Pompidou's design specifically reflected the ugly parts of building. Eventually, the public accepted the message of the Pompidou and the Pompidou itself.

Place de la République

The "Mission Héliographique" ended in failure. All the pictures taken by government photographers showed damaged, marked up buildings that were accepted and integrated into their surroundings. Government agents were angry because people accepted imperfect monuments for what they were.

Marcher

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It’s a cliché as old as street photography itself: find an interesting wall, wait for someone to walk past. Bonus points if the subject somehow matches or interacts with the backdrop It’s used time and time again, but that’s because it’s effective. Just because a photographer may be using a “formula” for his or her photo doesn’t mean it still takes some time, effort, and creativity.

Doisneau talked about the difference between hunting photography and fishing photography. When a photographer takes a hunting approach, she is walking the streets searching for the right place and the right time. When fishing, she has found the right place and is patiently waiting for the right time. She is aware of her surroundings, almost like some new form of flâneurie. A movement that began in direct opposition to the idea of always being in a hurry, flâneurs deliberately walked slowly and without purpose. Alain de Botton writes of the flâneur, “What they are doing is looking. They are opening their eyes and ears to the scene around them.” When a photographer fishes, she lets her senses open to the world until her photo comes along.

This particular collection is a study of how a photo formula can be tweaked and expanded upon. Perhaps an interesting background can be something as common as a door, or maybe the interest comes from a striking subject with a bland background. Many street photographers take a “humanist” approach, capturing the real life, day-to-day, blurry things around us. Why capture these moments? Real life is something we all participate in. Take the time to appreciate what’s happening where you stand rather than just what you’re heading for.

After

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I spent a lot of money in Europe, and I think most of it was spent on pastries. I absolutely adore pain au chocolat. Pain au chocolat are meant to be eaten within two hours of coming out of the oven so the only way to bring my favorite part of Paris back to Utah was to learn how to make them myself. I took a three hour long class that taught me how to make croissants, pain au chocolat, pain aux raisins, and pain Suisse. Pastries are taken very seriously in Paris and they are difficult to perfect. I'll spare you all the many details I learned, just know that making these pastries by hand is a real process. I bought a lot of great souvenirs but I think this one is of my favorites. Not only do I have a new skill but also this is a souvenir I can share with the people in my life.

Phōtos-Graphé

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Phōtos-Graphé

The word “photography” originates from a conjunction of 2 Greek words: photos, meaning light and graphe, meaning drawing, which gives us “drawing with light” as our rough definition. The linguistic roots of photography imply that it is much more than just a simple tool used for capturing important moments for future reference, but a medium by which an artist may depict the world through new eyes; not their own eyes, but the eyes of a camera lens. When we look through this unique perspective we transcend human eyes to see past the things that are present and opt more for an intellectual exercise in form, shadow, color, intensity, lines, depth and more. This pushes photography beyond being just a tool or a process, but an art. It brings the possibility of expression in ways that are separate from other forms and most importantly it brings us to see the piece for more than simply the objects that are contained within, but for the craft used to create it.

“Si je remue l’ampoule électrique, les OMBRES ne parlent plus de la signification, elles rendent l’image une chose qui ne reste plus chose, qui évoque autre chose que la chose”

- Raoul Hausmann

"I am afraid that there are more people than I can imagine who can go no further than appreciating a picture that is a rectangle with an object in the middle of it, which they can identify."

-William Eggleston

“Of course, there will always be those who look only at technique, who ask “how,” while others of a more curious nature will ask “why.” Personally, I have always preferred inspiration to information.”

-Man Ray

"I would urge everyone to start looking at the world in a different way. Spend some time looking at everyday objects, at their design, their shape, their individual characteristics. Think ahead and imagine their significance."

-Martin Parr

"There is no particular reason to search for meaning"

-William Eggelston

That doesn't mean that I won't, though.

Lost Love

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Lost Love

Love. One word that has intrigued the human race for many centuries. One word that has escaped us and alluded us. One word that we all search for, but often times end up feeling lost and confused instead. This one word can have multiple meanings that contradict and intertwine, creating a feeling of butterflies and fear all that same time. This word can take on different meanings at particular times in your life and can morph into distinctive and contrasting feelings at various stages of your life.

When in Rome, I met a man named Paulo. The word love once again, like an uninvited guest, protruded its way into my life, leaving me to question this simple 4 letter word and the complexities that are tied up in it. It was at the most unexpected of moments, as love likes to be inconspicuous and mysterious, that I met this dreamy man. I was just going to fuel my body with food the food that my body craved (pizza in case you were wondering), when my lost love entered quite suddenly, like a deer emerges from the woods. He had the locks of a great Greek God, thick and curly, eyes that were emerald green, so green that one could imagine themselves diving into them, trying to find the secrets that were hidden beneath the surface. His voice had a deep timber to it, leaving one feeling warm and cozy inside. His laugh rang and echoed through the restaurant and entered ones ears peacefully, yet left you craving more, like you would do anything to make him laugh just one more time. What was that feeling, that stirring in my stomach? Was it the exuberant amount of icecream I ate today? Is all the pasta I've been eating not sitting well with my stomach? And then the truth came out... It was the feeling of falling in love.

But alas, I had finished my meal and it was time to go to bed. We made eye contact. He whispered some secret words and my friends whisked me away. A bright fog, like that of awakening from a precious dream seems to filter my lens, leaving me not quite in reality, but not quite in a dream... if only I could stay fully asleep, there with my lost love. Oh the tragedy of a love lost! Now all that consumes my mind is what our lives could have been like had our encounter not been cut short...

...We could have traveled the world, searching out love on well worn paths and carving our own paths on new terrain...

"The path to paradise begins in Hell." - Dante Alighieri

... We could have run through fields of grass together, laughing and smiling, with no cares, ignorant of the
world around us because we are so enthralled in each other...

"The first magic of love is our ignorance that it can never end. "
-Benjamin Disraeli

... We could have gone house shopping and looked at all the castles in the area, for you are my knight in shining armor...

... We could have rowed away on the waves of love...

... We could have walked along the cobblestone streets of Paris and seen the sights where other lovers have strolled along in the paradise of falling in love...

"The path to paradise begins in hell."
-Dante

...You could have played with my hair, a time honored tradition of love and longing...

... We could have seen the romantic painting of Monet together and compared our love to that of a budding water lily or the first chapter of a book...

"In that book which is my memory, On the first page of the chapter that is the day when I first met you, Appear the words , 'Here begins a new life [with my lost love].'"

... We could have gone on picnics together and eaten only chocolate covered strawberries and cheese, the food of romance, where we would afterwards take a nap or sit and talk for hours, exploring everything about each other...

...We could have gotten a fur baby together, officially starting our family...

...But for now, my lost love, I will wish upon a dandelion that you will somehow find a way back to me, and not just in my dreams.

"All hope abandon, ye who enter [into the land of love]"
-Dante Alighieri (with a touch of Kenzie)

Haunted Houses

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All around the largest, oldest cities, there are buildings where people have lived and worked for hundreds of years. These inhabitants move in and out, frequently without personally interacting at all with the previous owners. Yet, they take the space that those previous have left behind and create their own, which at times integrates the traces they left behind and other times erases them completely. This set of pictures, from doors to businesses to people’s homes, is a perfect example of how this process of continuous change alters the environment. Combined with the words of Henry Wadsworth Longfellow’s poem “Haunted Houses,” each of the following doors and pieces of doors suggests something of the history behind the location itself and its current and sometimes past residents.

"All houses wherein men have lived and died

Are haunted houses. Through the open doors

The harmless phantoms on their errands glide,

With feet that make no sound upon the floors."

"We meet them at the door-way, on the stair

Along the passages they come and go,

Impalpable impressions on the air,

A sense of something moving to and fro."

"There are more guests at table than the hosts

Invited; the illuminated hall

Is thronged with quiet, inoffensive ghosts,

As silent as the pictures on the wall."

"The stranger at my fireside cannot see

The forms I see, nor hear the sounds I hear;

He but perceives what is; while unto me

All that has been is visible and clear."

"We have no title-deeds to house or lands;

Owners and occupants of earlier dates

From graves forgotten stretch their dusty hands,

And hold in mortmain still their old estates."

"The spirit-world around this world of sense

Floats like an atmosphere, and everywhere

Wafts through these earthly mists and vapours dense

A vital breath of more ethereal air."

"Our little lives are kept in equipoise

By opposite attractions and desires;

The struggle of the instinct that enjoys,

And the more noble instinct that aspires."

"These perturbations, this perpetual jar

Of earthly wants and aspirations high,

Come from the influence of an unseen star

An undiscovered planet in our sky."

"And as the moon from some dark gate of cloud

Throws o’er the sea a floating bridge of light,

Across whose trembling planks our fancies crowd

Into the realm of mystery and night,—"

"So from the world of spirits there descends

A bridge of light, connecting it with this,

O’er whose unsteady floor, that sways and bends,

Wander our thoughts above the dark abyss."

Final Photo Essay

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The French are known for their architectural beauty in design, and the detail goes down to the very handle on the door. The city streets are lined with apartment buildings designed in nineteenth, eighteenth, or even seventeenth century style. These designs include grand doors in various colors and with various delicate flourishes. The time and effort put into the handles on doors shows the French dedication to luxury and class even in the smallest details, despite the fact that the object is often disregarded or ignored. It’s in small details like these that the French hold on to their culture and set themselves apart from modernization and culture dissemination.

For the French, living in certain areas in Paris is a symbol of status. It’s not enough to live in Paris; you have to live in the right areas of Paris, coupled with exceptional buildings and décor. Great care is taken to create beautiful spaces in the city. Being surrounded with this environment creates a sense of public luxury that the French take pride in as part of their culture. Often lions are seen around the city as symbols of power from the monarchies of centuries ago.

Another way to look at this part of French culture is that it’s being particular about things that aren’t of great importance. While the door handle is supposed to help open the door, it’s often not used and is sometimes left off completely. It’s interesting to think about moving forward with modern times and how culture develops. Should the French keep their detailed door handles as a sign of their culture, or leave it off for efficiency and risk losing what makes them unique? You can learn a lot about a society by looking at the small, seemingly insignificant details, such as the handles on the doors.

How to Be Parisian in 10 Steps

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How to Be Parisian in 10 Steps (or less)

Blending in in Paris is not simply a list of things to wear or not to wear, it is a complete lifestyle, an almost tangible attitude. When I first arrived in Paris, I was simply brimming with excitement, not only to see the many touristy attractions, but also to observe the much talked about Parisians and see the differences in lifestyle compared to my way of living (I was also secretly hoping that they would rub off on me so that I could return to America with the famous Parisian way of living). The following list contains the quickest way to not only blend into the Parisian lifestyle, but also the ways to become a Parisian.

1. Je ne sais quoi!
Parisians are not as scary as everyone makes them out to be. But they do exude a serious air that they do not care. Period. They do not sweat the small stuff and they most certainly do not let the small stuff stand in their way. If they bump into you, a quick pardon is muttered as they continue to walk away. This is crucial to blending in. Do not make a big deal about things. If you feel overwhelmed, calm down or try to hide your nerves on the inside. Master the I DGAF face. It will come in very handy.

2. Café? J'ai déjà eu 3 tasses!

Parisians drink coffee like you should eat your fruits and veggies, for breakfast, lunch, dinner and dessert. This was something that I found to be a bit similar to the way that Americans are, since the rise of coffee consumption has rapidly increased in the last couple of years, but the type of coffee is the important thing to note. Where Americans tend to like their caramel machiatto with extra caramel and whip creme, the french do not add fuffoo to their coffee. They like it black and filled with caffeine. Do not be surprised if you order a cafe au lait and a small shot glass arrives at your table with a hint of milk in it.

3. Avez-vous un briquet?

Smelling smoke every where you go is a normal scent to assault your senses (that and the smell of hot fermented pee... but that is a different story). You will see waiters and bus drivers and street cleaners take a smoke break every 15 minutes as you traverse down the streets of Paris. If you have never been exposed to smoke, you will have a rude awakening as you walk the streets of Paris. But do not worry, you'll get used to it eventually,
and maybe you'll even be inspired to
carry around a lighter just in case
someone asks you for a lite
(which happens quite frequently).

4. Mes cheveux? Tout est naturel!

Bed head to natural curls, the french embrace the hair they were born with and let it flow! Often times the fanciest they do their hair is the "thrown into a bun on the go look", where there are lots of bumps and hair on the loose. Although this may seem lazy through the lens of an American, embrace the nonchalant attitude of hair doing.. when in your life will you be able to walk out the door without really doing your hair and not be judged for it?

5. Mon sac? C'est designer!

Always have a tote bag or a designer hand bag. It is a dead giveaway to wear a backpack... so touristy! A simple side tote with the name of your favorite shopping store or street name carries all your belongings as well as making you seem tres chic. You can most certainly carry around a tote stuffed with various items as well as a designer purse. The more not back-bags the better.

6. Mon Visage? C'est naturel!

Minimal to no make-up is the ideal range for Parisians! It is a dead giveaway that you are a tourist if you come on the metro with your Kim Kardashian face on. Embrace what your momma gave you and try not wearing any make-up (with round circle glasses if you dare to jump all the way into the French style). If you're too nervous to wear no make-up, embrace the beach look and add a little blush or a touch of mascara, but in Paris, a little goes a long way.

7. Mes vêtements? Ils sont tous noirs!

Parisians dress in 50 shades of grey. From head to toe the most flattering of colors envelopes their body. If you are a designer who already has conformed to the design world dress code, then you are set. For the rest of us who love to wear colors and patterns, try stepping out of your comfort zone and wearing all black or all white one day. It's a freeing and fun experience to go monochromatic. But also do not be scared to add a pop of color or fun experimental piece.

8. Une carte? Qu'est-ce que c'est?

Ditch the map and look up your routes ahead of time. Nothing screams tourist than a person stopped in the middle of the sidewalk, twisting their head from side to side in utter confusion while looking at a map. Download the metro app and get your directions that way. You do not need data to get new routes and it is a lot more Parisian to look at your phone instead of a map.

9. Le métro? C'est ma voiture!

Master the metro and you know you're truly a Parisian. There is something so cozy yet grungy about the metro. The zone out metro look is a real thing, but try to avoid dozing off, because Parisians are always alert after all that coffee they consume!

10. Chaussures de tennis?
Ils sont les nouveaux talons!

The french love their Adidas tennis shoes as well as vans or the converse with the heart and eyes on the side... they're comfy yet chic and allow one to be stylish all at the same time. No need to break your back while walking around Paris, just slip into your favorite pair of tennis shoes and let your Parisian adventure begin!

10 Ways to Not Look Like an American in Paris

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We get it, you're proud to be an American. But is the best thing to do in Paris really show how American you are?

Here are ten tips to avoid looking like a tacky tourist in the City of Light:

1) Don't talk too loud. One sure-fire way to tell an American in Paris is if he or she is talking very loud in public. The French do not talk loudly; they respect others around them. Americans take up lots of space, while the French try to go more unnoticed.

2) Don't wear baggy clothing. The French wear clothes that are more fitted. Nine times out of ten, those wearing baggy clothes are American (think of those touristy dads wearing baggy khaki pants and a button-up that came out of the early 2000's). Your clothes don't have to be the latest and greatest as long as they are timeless--tighter fit, solid colors, etc.

3) Don't smile at people you don't know. The average Frenchman or woman only smiles at someone if they know the person or if you both witnessed an event like a cute little kid laughing or a dog doing something funny. To look more French, master your RBF and resist the urge to smile at everyone you see.

4) Don't speak English the whole time and expect others to understand you. Sometimes, Americans assume that others will speak English when they need to communicate. While this is often the case in touristic places, you should remember that you are in the French's country and that should motivate you to make an effort to learn at least a couple phrases in their language.

5) Don't stand on the left side of the escalator. The French have a well-oiled escalator system: those who want to stand do so on the right-hand side of the escalator while others walk up/down the left side. Americans do not understand this. Do not be an annoying American by not following this system. Nothing is worse than being stuck on an escalator as you watch the doors close on the train you were supposed to catch.

6) Don't even take up the whole walkway or sidewalk without letting people pass. In America, we understand that you're supposed to be on the right side of the road/sidewalk/walkway to go slow and the left side to be fast, but we don't actually always follow that model. However, it can be really inconvenient for a French businessman who is trying to get to work if you take up the whole sidewalk with your big group.

7) Don't bring your five kids under age ten to Paris. The French often do not have more than two or three kids. If you bring your whole gaggle of gamins to Paris, expect weird looks. First of all, the French might think you're crazy for having so many kids, but second, they will think you are even crazier for bringing them all to Paris and trying to herd them all to take a picture together at Trocadero.

8) Don't not learn about the history of France while you're here. If you talk to basically any French person, they will be able to tell you the complete history of Paris and France. This is hard to do in America since it is so big and the history is so spread out. However, when you learn the history behind the famous monuments dotting the city, you will learn a lot more than if you were just there to take pictures of them.

9) Don't live through your camera screen. The typical tourist either has a camera around their neck or a selfie stick in their hand. At any given famous monument around Paris, you can probably find more people taking pictures of it than looking at it and admiring its beauty. To avoid looking like an American and to actually gain intellectual experience along with your photos, put the camera away for a moment and just observe what makes that monument special. You never know what you will notice when you take time to study it.

10) Don't try to be something you're not. While the French can seem to get pretty annoyed with American tourists, they are also a great example of just being yourself. They are very frank and honest people; what you see is what you get. Try to fit in with the locals, if that suits you, but if not, be your own American self while respecting and learning about other cultures at the same time. Most importantly, have fun and take advantage of all that Paris has to offer!