BELIEVE IN YOURSELVES

Jai Samaikhya Andhra Pradesh

2014-01-12T10:10:00.000+05:30

Jai Samaikhya Andhra Pradesh

Unlock your incredible powers

2009-04-03T17:15:00.003+05:30

You have no idea that those who guard their unproductive behaviors even though they cost them too much rarely think about being extremely powerful. They guard their unproductive behaviors because of feelings of insecurity that come from inferiority complex. I will show how to identify that pattern in a moment. Just stay with me.

From my experience I can give this statement.

As long as you guard your unproductive behaviors, you can’t live in the life of your dreams!

Guaranteed! 2000 %!

Why?

Simple! You don’t change. (Why should you? All your misery is due to something else other than you!)

If you don’t change, you keep doing the same old things and you keep getting the same old results. Correct?

Then how do you expect to live your dreams if you guard your unproductive behaviors?

Let me tell you this: you live in shit as long as you realize and accept to your self that you are in shit!

Common! No one is perfect. It’s ok to be like that. It’s not ok to guard it!

You may ask “well Raja, how do I know if I am guarding my unproductive behaviors?”

Good! See if any of these statements are true in your life. You need not tell this to any one, no one is going to know about them I won’t tell it to anyone. You have my word. It’s your life you are being with your self. Just be true to your self.

• When someone criticize you or give a constructive feedback, do you argue back or think about it?[At least when you are alone]
• When you fail at something do you ask your self ‘where did I go wrong?’ or look for justifications?
• When something goes wrong do you assume responsibility or look for ‘whom to blame?’
• Do you keep complaining with out doing much to change the situation or your response?
• Do you blame the fate for your misery?
• Do you say I know everything? Or I don’t need to learn?
• Do you invest in self improvement?
• When someone gives you a suggestion, do you follow it or argue why you can’t or don’t do it?
• Do you look for your faults?
• Do you look for improvement?

Okay! Good. What did you find about yourself? What ever it may be, my next posts will give you much more tools to deal with your life. So you may want tokeep reading this blog.

Also see http://managementjoke.blogspot.com/ for fun filled management lessons

How to think positive even in the negative situations

2008-10-18T15:48:00.000+05:30

By the time you finish reading this article I am sure you will have a most power full tool to keep yourself resourceful and positive. And if you start using it, you control your emotions and the situations to your advantage.

Pretty big claim! Isn’t it? I dare make it because I have been using that tool for a long time and find myself happy about my life.

Eager to know what the tool is?

I am going to revel that to you in a moment. Before I do, let me tell you how I got myself out of clinically depressed to normal just in 11 days using this tool as a major weapon!

Yes! You read it correct. In just 11 days! I am a living example of its power.

In 1998 I was reading the book “Awaken the giant within” by Anthony Robbins. Did I say ‘reading’? Let me correct myself. I was desperately searching for a way to get out of depression with which I have been under medication for the past 8 months.

I hate the idea ‘clinically depressed’! I hate to take those filthy smelling tablets! I hate the fear of stopping the medication abruptly because one of my cousins committed suicide doing it! Can you feel the emotional rut I was into?

So I was searching with one goal in mind. Is there a way to get out of negative thinking which became a habit? Can I use it consistently?

Fortunately I found it!

I have tablets for 11 days. On 11^th day, I should meet my psychiatrist and get the new prescription. I thought of giving a trial and test the method for 11 days. If it works, I won’t see my psychiatrist again.

Here is what I did: Tony Robbins says “change your focus to change your experience of life” Agreed! How do you do it? He says “ask a better question” and he explains how asking a question changes our focus and changes our experience of the situation.

Here is the important part of it. He gave specific questions to ask. This is what I have been luring you all this while. Here we go…

1^st question: what’s great about this? And

2^nd question: How can I use it?

When I asked that first question, as you guessed I got no answer! In fact it sounded so stupid. I asked again. I have got only 11 days to go so I asked again and again. My first answer is ‘I am grateful about the book I am reading” I smiled and asked what else? “Parents”, “the place I live” and on and on…

The secret is in flipping the mind. Once it is done, it just runs in that direction.

What I did next?

Day after day I consciously asked the question “what’s great about this?” for every situation. Little by little my emotions started to change. I was more resourceful and in 7 days, I have decided not to see my psychiatrist any more. By 11^th day my medicines were over. I stopped abruptly. For 3 to 4 days I felt some kind of giddiness and uneasiness after that everything was normal.

10 years passed. Now I am alive, enthusiastically typing this to you. Let me confess one thing. I also used some other NLP techniques along with it. Since you are not depressed as I was, this alone will benefit you. Even though I will be writing about them, you need not wait for them to start. You can start using it right away.

What are you waiting for? Start asking “what’s great about?” and then ask “How can I use it?” common… start doing it!

6 Reasons to choose Affiliate Marketing to make money online

2008-09-13T12:20:00.000+05:30

Ever heard of affiliate programs? These are forms of Internet advertising & marketing that rewards the affiliates for driving traffic to the advertiser or for other transactions. The advertiser pays the affiliate to place a link on their website, articles, and newsletters or even in their emails. The affiliate sends traffic to the advertiser in return gets commissions from seller.

Here are the following reasons on why web marketers go over affiliate marketing as a form of Internet advertisement & marketing.

1. Low cost

Many are scared to go on a home based business because of the capital required. In affiliate marketing, you don't have to spend much to start making money.

2. Inventories not included

Product management fuss could be very stressing. An inventory is not asked to be maintained. The merchant does the maintenance required.

3. Unlimited income through leverage

When you have a paid job, your monthly income mainly relies on whether you go to work or not. With affiliate marketing, your articles or biog will lead traffic to your merchant’s site without having to work continuously. Though not every web marketer earns limitless, it still is a fact that all the necessary matters for the advertiser or Internet marketer are all there to be successful.

4. Go worldwide

With affiliate marketing, you are dealing with a global market place. All you have to do is choose a niche product and prepare all the necessary tools for your merchants to lead traffic from just about anywhere to your website.

5. Low risk

The very main reason for Internet marketer's enthusiasm with affiliate marketing is its having a low risk factor. Especially for those with low budget, affiliate marketing is just the way to do it.

6. No closing time

With affiliate marketing, your business works every single second of the day while targeting a worldwide market! What could be better than that?

But all of these will be put to waste if you don't have the right niche product and all the other important tools to make it big in affiliate marketing, i.e., well-SEO-ed website. So better work on this first before ever considering those benefits.

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The Power of Silence as Described in Ramayana

2008-09-10T15:54:00.001+05:30

Note: Ramayana is a mythology which describes about Rama’s (Considered as deity in India) life and victory where the major victory being on Ravana (Antagonist) who kidnaps sita, Rama’s wife.

They say silence is power...

It is..!

Particularly to control other person, it is very powerful. When I squarely look at the person in silence without responding, I find people saying too many irrelevant things to convince/explain or whatever.

This reminds me of an episode from Ramayana...

After great victory over Ravana, Rama, Sita, Lakshmana (first younger brother of rama)& others came back to Ayodhya(Their capital). While getting down the chariot, Lakshmana giggles.

Observe how author describes the interpretations people have...

Sita thought, this person laughed because he thought " If sita listened my words... all this would not have happened..."(He advises her not to come out of house, but she does & get kidnapped)

Bharatha(second younger brother of rama who took the throne instead of rama) thought, " May be he thought, this fellow had enjoyed royal pleasures all this while keeping the deserved at forest & now came to welcome us "

Urmila (wife of Lahshmana) thought, " He may be he is thinking that I was enjoying here while he was struggling in the forest. What a love!!!"

Sugriva(friend of rama who helped to fight ravana for the favor of killing his powerful brother) thought, “This man used my brother to kill his brother & now getting the dignity of King!"

Like this, everybody was thinking or giving their own meaning.

Tempted by curiosity, Rama asked, “Lakshmana why did you laugh that way?"

To that Lakshmana said, “Brother, all these days I was serving you without sleep. But, just now, I dosed for a while. This amazed me! So I laughed at my dose."

What does it got to do to us?

So much!

With silence, you can control the thoughts of others. They rarely get your idea when you are silent.

People rarely judge others by reality. They often judge others by their own standards. See here! Not even one had got him correctly. Not even those who are very close & dear to him. Isn't it? Probably Swami Vivekananda was true when he said, “You see in others what you carry in your own heart." Isn't it?

So what’s the lesson?

First, don’t try to judge when the other person is silent. You will be misguided.

Second, use your silence as a strategic tool to control other person or the situation all together.

This is all for ancient wisdom for now

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Raja

Benjamin Franklin's Way to Improve Habit of Doing Good

2008-09-10T14:07:00.002+05:30

Recently I happened to read autobiography of Benjamin Franklin. This person had a great message to the world & he gave it through his autobiography. One of the best things about it is....

Every Day in the morning he used to ask himself a question. This question according to me should have made a significant change in his life. This alone could have made him great. Guess what the question is?

What good shall I do this day?

Great question right?

Did you think this great man had stopped here?

If he did it, he would not have become that great. He used to ask himself another question at the end of the day. By now you should have got the question! That’s right! That is the question

What good have I done today?

You may begin to notice what good this process of daily planning to do good & evaluating that commitment will do to our own lives. Aren't you?

Now how shell you go about it?

First: Have a journal:

Buy a 60 page white book and

a) Start listing all the good things you did so far

b) Write whatever good you can do on a daily basis

Now you know what you can do. Select what you want to do from the list.

Second: Add it in your planner:

I suppose you have the habit of planning your day (If not, start doing it now. Check my article for help). Add the one good thing you have selected in the previous step to your “to do” list and resolve to do it. Start looking for opportunity.

Third: Tell your plan to your friend:

Speaking out your resolution to do good will reinforces the idea and it actually compels you to action. We dread criticism to some degree right? We don’t want to look light before our friends. So you will do it.

Fourth: Write your feedback daily:

You remember Ben Franklin asked himself “What good have I done today?” You need to do the same. Also write how you felt then. Re-live all the good feelings you had then. This will make you want to do it more.

Fifth: Reward yourself occasionally:

By rewarding yourself, you make your habit more consistent and more repetitive. You need not spend too much on this. You can buy your favorite meal. Or you can buy a book if you love reading, etc.

That is it folks. Don’t you think if you do these steps daily, you feel good about yourself and your popularity increases? Believe me friends many good things will happen in your life.

Good day,

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Raja.