I didn’t really learn anything new from this class other than the myriad of lubes available and the fun one called J-Lube. Which is a birthing agent for large animals. It comes in powder form and mixed with water the texture is like mucus, she said. That gave me the heeby jeebies. Just the thought of that texture against my genitals doesn’t sound good.

The next class was quite entertaining. It was on orgasm play. The presenters, RuleofThree and Naughty Freckles had a great time discussing orgasm denial, control and orgasm on command.

Orgasm on command attracted both Master and myself. We had orgasm control as a part of our relationship since the beginning. Master realized that we were just 3/4 of the way from having orgasm on command work. It sounds quite interesting! He demonstrated orgasm on command with his girl sitting in the front row. Quite fascinating indeed.

I like that he covered how an orgasm happens and the physical symptoms that an orgasm is imminent. Master watches me closely and can already figure that out. Orgasm on command is in my future.

The last class of the day (we skipped the one right after lunch) was role play. It’s something that froggy has an interest in and I’m terrible role playing. Master isn’t really into it but he’s willing to try with froggy. I enjoyed hearing about different forms of role play and it sparks my desire to have costumes for playtime.

I have asked Master before for more lingerie and maybe he’ll be interested in doing that to bring spice to our sex life.

That concludes the day of classes. Friday I’ll talk about the play party!

–lunaKM

First, Friday and froggy.

We met up with froggy for lunch before the Submissive Guide meetup and I was already looking forward to the weekend both for Master and I and for watching froggy with Master. He has a very different relationship with her and it’s so much fun to watch.

Apparently Master had a lot of fun every time I disappeared. He told me he had 7 orgasms that day and I know I was only involved in 2! She had just as much fun I heard.

We went to the meet and mingle for the event and got to visit with a bunch of people that were going to be at the event on Saturday. I enjoy socializing but Master had to give me the boot to actually do so instead of sitting at a table. When he finally did though I had a great time talking to people.

After the meet we went to a late dinner at Cracker Barrel. Nothing eventful there but after we returned to the hotel fun was to be had!

We got naked and snuggled, froggy in her bed and Master and I in ours. I started to get Master excited and gave him a blow job. Half way through I asked him if he would like to have froggy suck on his nipples. Without hesitation he called her over. I had fun listening to his enjoyment and drawing a good orgasm out of him.

Then…. we switched places and froggy gave him another blow job while I enjoyed Master’s kiss, necking and nipples. He’s so different with her down on him and it was hot.

This was the first time we (Master and I) had another person in our sex play. I was very hesitant but learned there wasn’t anything to fear. I’m not bisexual so it had to be clear that I wasn’t to be involved with froggy and she was okay with that. It was all about Master.  I had a ton of fun and it was only Friday night!

–lunaKM

We are getting ready to go to Mischief in May and I’m so excited! It’s going to be a great time and is a stepping stone for Master and myself for getting out to events. Although I did help plan this one, I think it still counts.

This afternoon I’m having my first ever Submissive Guide meet up. So far I’ve had almost a dozen people say they are attending. I was hoping for at least 2 so I think I’ll be thrilled. (Iowa is small, I never expected a lot of fan base here.)

In other news my car needs some repairs. I noticed the other day that a piece of rusty metal was hanging down near my tail pipe. Turns out it’s my muffler split open! Ah well, old cars tend to need things more frequently. Tuesday I go have that fixed along with getting 2 new tires.

Well that’s it folks, we are off for the weekend. See you Monday!

–lunaKM

The other day I got a mani/pedi and loved the attention. I also go my eyebrows waxed in preparation for the event this weekend. I need to shave really well yet on Friday and Master has requested that I curl my hair with my hot rollers on Saturday.

I’m so excited for the event, there is so much I enjoy about these things from the people and the costumes/ fetish wear to the presentations and the play. It just feels so adrenaline-pumping good fun.

Master just came up to me while I was writing and waved his cock in my face so we had a good fuck over the edge of the couch and I had a great moaning good time. I love it when spur of the moment fun happens. *grin*

Tomorrow I have a lot of preparation work to do and packing. I’m going to try my best to stay home tomorrow so that I can get that stuff done.

–lunaKM

I got in trouble. I let the house get really messy and Master had had enough. I’m lax in my cleaning and it’s a primary duty of mine. I hate cleaning but it was something I agreed to do when he pulled me from the workforce so I had to keep up my end of the bargin.

I didn’t so he took away all of my computers. I had my phone but that’s so limited. I didn’t get the computer back for a week. It was painful but I cleaned and cleaned and worked hard to get the house back to a maintainable level. It was that bad.

I’m getting better now, and if I slip up I know what I’m going to lose. It was hard since so much of what I do is online.

We are preparing to go to a BDSM convention this weekend, the three of us, froggy, Master and I. It will be a fun time and I can’t wait!

–lunaKM

I’m quite tired now though from the late night.

Tomorrow is the munch. I’m leading the short topic on traveling with toys and then there is a medical play presentation. It should be a good day.

I promise there will be more to my life next week when I dust myself off and get back to myself.

–lunaKM

And then it hit me. Gluten Intolerance has shaken my whole world. I’m finally facing a silent enemy and it’s taking away an emotional friend that has been with me for years. Many of you may recall that I’ve had problems with bingeing and emotional eating. And now, because of a disease I have to say goodbye to some very delicious friends.

When I talked with Master about it I couldn’t help myself and I broke down and cried. We’d gotten to the heart of the matter. He assures me that he’ll stick with me (not that I doubted him) but also that I’ll get through this and adjust. I think he’s glad to finally have answers.

Even if that doesn’t mean an immediate end to my depression. At least it doesn’t feel very deep – it’s just jarring. You don’t think about eating really and it’s not important when it comes down to it, but then you can’t eat a lot of what you love any more it becomes something you have to think about all the time. Each and every time you eat you have to check labels, read ingredients and decide if it’s something your body will accept or reject.

It’s a  hard road.

On happier news, Mischief in May is only 2 weeks away! I’m really looking forward to it. There are over 100 people registered and everything is all set for a fantastic time. froggy will be there too! It feels so good when we are all together. I love it. She has a sexy fetish outfit picked out and my dress that I ordered arrived today. It’s not fetish at all, but it will be a wonderful comfortable convertible dress. Now to find shoes.

–lunaKM

It’s overwhelming.

My mood lifted a bit in the evening but I felt a huge sense of fatigue so I’m going to have to try to sleep in later tomorrow morning.

–lunaKM

For dinner we met some friends, Kiva and Sissy Rachelle for dinner at Famous Daves. They have a very tiny gluten-free menu but can’t guarantee cross contamination since nothing is dedicated. Well I stuck with that menu but this morning I’m suffering. Something I ate had too much gluten in it for my newly adjusting body to handle. I’m guessing it was the cole slaw – listed on the menu but often in other places it has emulsifiers in it that are wheat based. I mentioned that I was surprised it was listed – I should have stuck with my gut instinct and skipped it.

This morning I spent some time looking at restaurant sites that are nearby so that I can be more educated. One of the restaurants that we’ve been to, that Master isn’t a huge fan of but will go has a giant menu and dedicated grill/fryers for gluten menu.

I even found a pizza place in the city we were in last night that makes a gluten free pizza. I just might have to try it.

It’s not that Master and I eat out a lot, because we don’t, but when we do I’d like to be able to enjoy the day after with Master and not the nearest bathroom. Ya know?

Today, in just a few minutes Master’s other girl will be here for play and socializing. She wants to go to subspace this time which is something I tend to avoid. I don’t expect that it will be a fast play session and I’ll be out somewhere for awhile. Thankfully I have a ton of work to do!

I’m off, have a great weekend!

–lunaKM

7 Things You Have Learned From A Dominant About Submission

Can you think of 7 things you have learned about your submission or submission in general from a Dominant? Why is it important to look to Dominants for insights on ourselves? What makes learning from them different than learning from other submissives?

When I started learning about submission the people who I found first were Dominants. They wanted to talk about D/s or sex or things related to BDSM. Finding submissives to talk to was actually difficult. Listing seven things that I’ve learned from Dominants about my submission or submission in general might be easier if I think back to those first few cautious months.

Learning from Dominants about submission is valuable because they aren’t clouded with beliefs and opinions about their personal submission. They see what you may not be seeing because they are looking at you from the outside.

1. Complete submission is a rare thing. No one can be in complete service all the time. There are life issues and stress that cloud our judgement and can derail our submission. When we are on we are really on though so watch out!

2. Submission in the wrong hands can leave the submissive damaged and broken. I’ve seen this on only in my real life experiences but online as well. We are vulnerable as human beings and allowing someone so deeply into our lives and being mistreated can do tremendous damage.

3. The expectations of my service can change on any given day not just with different Dominants. Master can change his mind, he can demand more of me one day and less on another. It’s his whim I have to adjust to – not mine.

4. What I consider submission others may consider slavery and vise-versa. I’ve talked about how I don’t connect with the label ‘slave’ but that others consider me a slave. It’s that difference of opinion that makes us so wonderful and accepting of variations of submission.

5. I choose to submit every single day; it’s not a natural personality trait. That choice brings about so much joy in my life that it’s not even a question of if I will choose to submit that day but how.

6. Submissives have every ability to be leaders, mentors and persons of great respect. Dominants feel pride in their property. I am a leader in the community and hold great respect from those who know me. Master has admitted to feeling pride for his submissive because of that.

7. My submission is unique but I can still share my story, knowing that it has common threads with other submissives. I once thought that because there are so many submissives out there who would really want to hear my story. After 8 years of blogging I think I’ve proven to myself over and over again that people want to follow my life and progression in service.