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		<title>Social Media Stats – It’s Raining Content!</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 20 Jul 2010 22:55:55 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Does it ever feel that there is a non-stop downpour of Facebook posts, YouTube videos, Twitter tweets, LinkedIn connections and blog posts? Do you ever feel like you're drowning in content?

If so and you spend any amount of time online, it isn't just your imagination. The larger our networks of contacts, the more information we see pushed in our direction every time one of our friends shares a link to a news article, their latest blog post and a funny video of a cat dressed as Lady Gaga. ]]></description>
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<p><a href="http://www.almostsavvy.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/07/4399350078_a8fc836e08.jpg"><img class="alignright size-medium wp-image-2289" title="4399350078_a8fc836e08" src="http://www.almostsavvy.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/07/4399350078_a8fc836e08-300x199.jpg" alt="Click here to read more about social media stats on almostsavvy.com" width="300" height="199" /></a>Does it ever feel that there is a non-stop downpour of <a href="http://www.facebook.com" target="_blank">Facebook</a> posts, <a href="http://www.youtube.com" target="_blank">YouTube</a> videos, <a href="http://twitter.com" target="_blank">Twitter</a> tweets, <a href="http://www.linkedin.com" target="_blank">LinkedIn</a> connections and blog posts? Do you ever feel like you&#8217;re drowning in content?</p>
<p>If so and you spend any amount of time online, it isn&#8217;t just your imagination. The larger our networks of contacts, the more information we see pushed in our direction every time one of our friends shares a link to a news article, their latest blog post and a funny video of a cat dressed as Lady Gaga.</p>
<p>How frequently is new content added online, you may ask? It can take an awful lot of leg work and number crunching to figure that out. Luckily, <a href="http://twitter.com/garyphayes" target="_blank">Gary Hayes</a> from <a href="http://www.personalizemedia.com/" target="_blank">Personalizemedia</a> has put together a nifty tool which easily allows us to get a snapshot overview of the flow of uploaded content. Take a closer look and you&#8217;ll see that you can customize the data you see by selecting a timeframe and type of information (social media, mobile or games).</p>
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<p>If you&#8217;re interested in digging deeper into the source data used here, you can find all the relevant <a href="http://www.personalizemedia.com/garys-social-media-count/" target="_blank">links on Gary&#8217;s blog</a>.</p>
<p>I&#8217;ll keep this blog post short because I just found out that I&#8217;ve got several hundred thousand YouTube videos to catch up on and that&#8217;s going to take some serious time.</p>
<p><em>Image courtesy of </em><a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/fixe/" target="_blank"><em>Tiago Ribeiro</em></a><em>.</em></p>
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		<title>Just Because We’re Social Networking “Friends” Doesn’t Mean I’ll Go To 3rd Base With You</title>
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		<description><![CDATA[Where did the romance go? When did we stop asking, "Tell me about yourself," "Do you like to take long walks on the beach?" or even the tired old line, "What's your sign?" Suddenly, upon meeting someone new, they immediately try to score and ask me to go over to their place to seal the deal.]]></description>
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<h4>You Don&#8217;t Bring Me Flowers Anymore</h4>
<p>Where did the romance go? When did we stop asking, &#8220;Tell me about yourself,&#8221; &#8220;Do you like to take long walks on the beach?&#8221; or even the tired old line, &#8220;What&#8217;s your sign?&#8221; Suddenly, upon meeting someone new, they immediately try to score and ask me to go over to their place to seal the deal.</p>
<p>Am I talking about my dating life? Hardly. I&#8217;m talking about my relationships with people where I spend much more of my time &#8211; online.</p>
<h4>Talk (And Listen) To Me</h4>
<div id="_mcePaste">We&#8217;ve all read the advice that the most effective ways to leverage the opportunities to build relationships with new people online is to be engaging and interested in them, by having a conversation that includes both listening and responding. Why then are people and businesses promoting themselves and trying to get me to buy their stuff as soon as I connect with them? It feels like I&#8217;ve just walked over with my hand extended intending to introduce myself and I get propositioned. Uh&#8230;ewww. All I can say is this doesn&#8217;t work with me &#8211; not in the real world and not online. If this happened at a live networking event, the conversation would go something like this:</div>
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<li>&#8220;Hi. My name is Irene. It is nice to meet you.&#8221;</li>
<li>&#8220;Well (pretend you heard your name here), I&#8217;ll bet it <em>is</em> nice to meet me. You&#8217;re lucky you met me just in time because, boy do I have the answers to all of the problems you have or may have one day in the future. I know you&#8217;ll love my product/service/website so much that you&#8217;ll want to run out and spontaneously tell everyone you know about it, so here are some extra cards to pass out to all of your friends. Hey, you&#8217;re awesome, hope to talk with you again soon. Bye now.&#8221;</li>
<li>&#8220;Uh, what did you say your name was?&#8221;</li>
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<p>Have you had this experience? When this happens online, it takes the form of email, newsletters, Facebook mail or direct messages on Twitter. As soon as you&#8217;ve &#8220;friended&#8221; someone on Facebook or followed someone on Twitter, you immediately receive newsletters or messages telling you to &#8220;click here&#8221; to do something &#8211; which benefits the <em>other</em> person. I&#8217;ve seen this on Twitter, Facebook and LinkedIn.</p>
<p><a href="http://www.almostsavvy.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/07/twitter-dm-spam-1.png"><img class="aligncenter size-medium wp-image-2270" style="border: 5px solid black;" title="twitter dm spam 1" src="http://www.almostsavvy.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/07/twitter-dm-spam-1-300x48.png" alt="" width="300" height="48" /></a></p>
<div><a href="http://www.almostsavvy.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/07/linkedin-spam.png"><img class="aligncenter size-medium wp-image-2271" style="border: 5px solid black;" title="linkedin spam" src="http://www.almostsavvy.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/07/linkedin-spam-300x158.png" alt="" width="300" height="158" /></a></div>
<p style="text-align: center;"><span style="font-weight: normal;"><em>(click to enlarge images)</em></span></p>
<h4>You Lost Me At &#8220;Click Here&#8221;</h4>
<p>I connected with you because I wanted to get to know you. Consider it a first date, or the possibility of a first date. I don&#8217;t want you to kiss me, tell me what I need or invite me over to your place. If you do, you&#8217;re out. On <a href="http://www.almostsavvy.com/2009/07/11/11-sure-fire-ways-to-get-me-to-unfollow-you-on-twitter/" target="_blank">Twitter, this is one of many reasons I will immediately unfollow you</a>. On <a href="http://www.almostsavvy.com/2009/07/26/dear-ex-facebook-friend/" target="_blank">Facebook, I&#8217;ll unfriend you. </a>On <a href="http://www.almostsavvy.com/2010/01/12/happy-holidays-please-enjoy-this-spam/" target="_blank">LinkedIn, I&#8217;ll disconnect.</a> Through our connection, you have additional access to contact me directly. This access is a privilege, not an opportunity take our relationship where I&#8217;m not ready to go. No, I don&#8217;t want to come over to see your etchings or listen to your stereo (yes, someone really did ask me to do this when I was in college). I most certainly do not want to click on your link to buy something or find out more about you. It&#8217;s rude and presumptuous. It&#8217;s spam and, most importantly, it&#8217;s all about you.</p>
<p>When you want to talk, let me know. I&#8217;ll be here. In the meantime, stop groping my email address and trying to get to 3rd base. It ain&#8217;t gonna happen.</p>
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		<description><![CDATA[While many of us use social networking tools differently, most of us struggle with similar questions and challenges.

Should I connect only with family and good friends on Facebook and only business contacts on LinkedIn?
How secure should I feel when using Facebook's privacy settings to determine which groups of friends can or cannot see particular photos?
Should I be concerned when someone tags me in a photo or I comment on someone else's post?]]></description>
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<p><a href="http://www.almostsavvy.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/07/paul-adams-social-network-online-offline.png"><img class="alignright size-full wp-image-2255" style="border: 7px solid black;" title="paul adams social network online offline" src="http://www.almostsavvy.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/07/paul-adams-social-network-online-offline.png" alt="" width="202" height="198" /></a>While many of us use social networking tools differently, most of us struggle with similar questions and challenges.</p>
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<li>Should I connect only with family and good friends on Facebook and only business contacts on LinkedIn?</li>
<li>How secure should I feel when using Facebook&#8217;s privacy settings to determine which groups of friends can or cannot see particular photos?</li>
<li>Should I be concerned when someone tags me in a photo or I comment on someone else&#8217;s post?</li>
<li>How can I organize the people I&#8217;m connected to so I see updates and news from the people I care about the most?</li>
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<h4>Social Networking Lines Get Blurred</h4>
<p>With the unprecedented growth of Facebook, it has become  the largest social networking platform by far. Even when we start out with one strategy, we can have a hard time sticking to the plan. We may have planned originally to connect only to family and friends, but then our co-workers found us there and we couldn&#8217;t really ignore their Friend Request, now could we? And then, there are the other parents in the carpool. And, a few of their kids wanted to become Facebook Friends, too. All of a sudden, our neatly organized idea of how we wanted to compartmentalize our activities online has gone to hell in a hand-basket.</p>
<p>When did things become so complicated? Is this because social networking is new? No, gathering with our friends, sharing news and planning events is not new. I&#8217;m sure this has been going on since the early days of humans interacting and forming communities. Doing all of this online is the part that is new and this is where things get really interesting &#8211; and a little messy.</p>
<h4>The Real Life Social Network</h4>
<p>I&#8217;m excited to share a thought-provoking presentation about Real Life Social Networks from <a href="https://twitter.com/Padday" target="_blank">Paul Adams</a>, a <a href="http://www.thinkoutsidein.com/blog/" target="_blank">blogger</a> and researcher at Google. The presentation highlights research done to understand how real-life networks work and how current social networking platforms, like Facebook, work with or against these existing relationships.</p>
<p>With the internet abuzz about the rumors, and fairly high likelihood, that <a href="http://www.pcmag.com/article2/0,2817,2366027,00.asp" target="_blank">Google is hard at work at its own social network, possibly called Google Me</a>, this makes Paul&#8217;s take on networking all the more intriguing. Could this be a glimpse into what&#8217;s next from Google?</p>
<p>I encourage you to walk through his presentation below. Don&#8217;t be intimidated by the large number of slides (216). Many of them are just images and he includes explanations where context is needed. Even if you don&#8217;t make it through the entire presentation, you will come to see how moving our offline, or &#8220;real world,&#8221; networks to an online environment (and then, throwing in a bunch of people we don&#8217;t know as well) starts to get complicated. Lots of food for thought here.</p>
<p>Which of his points ring true with you with regard to your own use of social networking? Anything else you&#8217;d add?</p>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 23 Jun 2010 23:51:38 +0000</pubDate>
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<p><a href="http://www.almostsavvy.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/06/2097451886_ab021e669d.jpeg"><img class="alignright size-medium wp-image-2233" title="almostsavvy.com - head hurts" src="http://www.almostsavvy.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/06/2097451886_ab021e669d-241x300.jpg" alt="" width="241" height="300" /></a>You know those words; the ones that make your skin crawl and set your teeth to grind mode when you see them? What&#8217;s up with those people anyway? Don&#8217;t they know how to spell? Did they nap all through elementary school?</p>
<p>I&#8217;m sure that people have always misspelled words since the dawn of written language. I imagine there were times when someone was meticulously documenting important information inside a cave and suddenly slapped themselves on the forehead once they realized they had drawn a bird instead of a horse. Where was spell-check when they needed it?</p>
<p>Now, we do have spell-check and it is embedded is most of the applications we use everyday &#8211; email, smartphones and social networking sites. Still, it seems that many of us take all those spelling and grammar rules as a gentle suggestion (kind of like when your mom says you should wear a jacket, but you know full well that only the nerdy kids listen to their moms and choose to ignore her).</p>
<p>We remember <em>how</em> to spell correctly, we just don&#8217;t always do it. My scientific/off-the-top-of-my-head analysis points to a number of possibilities: We don&#8217;t know we&#8217;re making a mistake and can&#8217;t be held responsible; we know we&#8217;re making a mistake and don&#8217;t care; we know we&#8217;re making a mistake, but think it&#8217;s cute/cool; we just copied someone else, so it&#8217;s their fault.</p>
<p><strong>Possible contributing factors and  personal observations:</strong></p>
<p style="padding-left: 30px;"><strong>We&#8217;re busy:</strong> Who has the time to re-read that email or tweet before sending it? Sure, there&#8217;s that red line underneath the word screaming out to alert us to the fact that the computer&#8217;s dictionary doesn&#8217;t recognize the word, but we&#8217;re not going to let the dictionary tell us what to write now, are we?</p>
<p style="padding-left: 30px;"><strong>Fat thumbs:</strong> Give us the most user-friendly way to type on a phone and, still, we make mistakes. Doesn&#8217;t that footer <em>Sent from my iphone</em> excuse all virtual grammatical sins?</p>
<p style="padding-left: 30px;"><strong>Contractions are really hard:</strong> When you want to shorten &#8220;you are,&#8221; the result is not &#8220;your.&#8221; Even when you spell it that way often, it&#8217;s still wrong. Stop it.</p>
<p style="padding-left: 30px;"><strong>Words that sound alike are really hard:</strong> &#8220;Where are they?&#8221; &#8220;Their <em>(or there)</em> at the store.&#8221; &lt;cue: nails on a chalkboard&gt;</p>
<p style="padding-left: 30px;"><strong>Character counts:</strong> When we&#8217;re using Twitter or SMS text messages, we are limited to a certain number of characters and this tends to lead to a lot of creativity. I get this, but I don&#8217;t get why I see these same abbreviations in emails or other communications.</p>
<p style="padding-left: 30px;"><strong>Say what:</strong> I&#8217;ve heard people of all ages use text-speak in conversation. Trust me, it&#8217;s a special experience to hear LOL or WTF during a conversation. If we&#8217;re talking, I won&#8217;t charge you for the extra words, I promise. If you want to laugh, go ahead and laugh; restraining yourself to LOL really isn&#8217;t necessary.</p>
<p style="padding-left: 30px;"><strong>I&#8217;m old:</strong> Is this just another one of my many &#8220;Get off my lawn&#8221; moments and I&#8217;m making much ado about nothing? Is this something that only those of us of a <em>certain</em> age allow to get under our skin?</p>
<p>Which words, abbreviations and acronyms do you see used online which really get your skin crawling? C ya l8r, thxbye.</p>
<p><em>Image courtesy of </em><a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/trpnblies7/" target="_blank"><em>trpnblies7</em></a></p>
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<p><a href="http://www.almostsavvy.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/06/child-leash.png"><img class="alignright size-full wp-image-2207" title="child leash" src="http://www.almostsavvy.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/06/child-leash.png" alt="" width="178" height="176" /></a>As a parent, there have been many moments in my life when I considered locking my child in a closet. It would have been for her own safety, mind you. And, I would have let her out when she was, say, 30 or so. I realized that I might have had some legal entanglements to deal with along the way, but there were still those moments when I wondered &#8220;what if&#8230;&#8221;</p>
<h4>It&#8217;s Scary Out There</h4>
<p>Before you call the authorities to report me, there are two important things you should know:</p>
<ol>
<li>No, I never really did this &#8211; not even for a second. But, it is a scary world out there. I also never used one of those leash-things with my daughter, but I did come to understand why some parents choose to do so.</li>
<li>My <em>child</em> is no longer a minor and perfectly able to manage her own life now. She somehow managed to make it through her formative years relatively unscathed, despite my occasional urges to save her from the outside world.</li>
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<p>We all want to protect our children for as long as possible, yet we also want them to learn how to navigate the world on their own, making smart decisions along the way. How do we find that balance of holding on and letting go? It is already an enormous challenge in the real world. For many parents, the prospect of helping their children stay safe in the virtual world is even more overwhelming.</p>
<h4>Enter SocialShield</h4>
<p>If you are looking for a way to monitor your kid&#8217;s online browsing activity or chat/IM conversations, there are many easy tools which will allow you to do so. There are numerous keystroke-logging programs which record each word your child types on the keyboard, meaning you get to see everything &#8211; emails, passwords, the whole enchilada. These tools may let you know what your child is doing online, but tell you nothing about the identity of their friends or their friends&#8217; activity. It is often this more meaty information that parents seek in order to prevent their children from falling prey to a bully or sexual predator.</p>
<p>Stating that their tools &#8220;<a href="http://www.socialshield.com/company/about/" target="_blank">give parents a 360° view of their kids&#8217; social networking activities</a>,&#8221; <a href="http://www.socialshield.com/" target="_blank">SocialShield</a> has recently received quite a bit of media attention. After reading <a href="http://www.readwriteweb.com/archives/pta-endorsed_socialshield_keeps_kids_safe_on_facebook.php" target="_blank">yesterday&#8217;s post on ReadWriteWeb about the new service</a>, I decided to sign-up for the trial period and take it for a test drive.</p>
<h4>Setting Up My SocialShield Account</h4>
<p>SocialShield provides a free 14-day trial period. Like most services, this requires credit card information up front. Once the information was entered, I moved on to &#8220;Add a Child.&#8221; I wondered how they would be able to access my child&#8217;s information without knowing her password and how they would verify that it was indeed my own child I was adding. I was curious to see what would prevent me from monitoring a friend (or a stranger) by adding them to my account.</p>
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<p style="text-align: left;">To add my daughter, I added all of her email addresses and selected &#8220;I attest that this is my daughter&#8221; from the drop-down list of choices. On the list are son/daughter, nephew/niece, grandson/granddaughter, other male/female. To test whether SocialShield magically knew if the person I was adding was <em>really</em> my child (of course, it can&#8217;t know this), I decided to add another person. Not wanting to spy on a friend or a stranger, I chose the one person in that comfortable middle-ground. I selected &#8220;other &#8211; female&#8221; and added my mother, feeling fairly sure I wouldn&#8217;t uncover anything scandalous.</p>
<p style="text-align: left;">Once you&#8217;ve added a child, there it is front and center: you need your kid&#8217;s passwords. If you were looking for the secret door into your kid&#8217;s accounts without having access to their login credentials, this isn&#8217;t it (hint: it doesn&#8217;t exist). And, simply being Facebook friends with them isn&#8217;t enough to get you the information needed for SocialShield to do its thing and alert you to potentially problematic friends and activity. At this point in the process, you can either connect SocialShield to their accounts yourself if you know their usernames and passwords or you can generate an email which is sent to the child asking them to allow access.</p>
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<p style="text-align: left;">This will then lead the child to add their accounts to SocialShield by using Facebook Connect, for example. I discussed this with my daughter ahead of time and she authorized access to her account herself.</p>
<p style="text-align: center;"><a href="http://www.almostsavvy.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/06/socialshield-child-fb-connect.png"><img class="aligncenter size-medium wp-image-2191" style="border: 10px solid black;" title="almostsavvy.com - socialshield child fb connect" src="http://www.almostsavvy.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/06/socialshield-child-fb-connect-300x86.png" alt="" width="300" height="86" /></a><em>(click on image to enlarge)</em></p>
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<h4>My SocialShield Report</h4>
<ul>
<li>I received a number of alerts for my daughter&#8217;s Facebook account. SocialShield highlighted her Facebook friends who were &#8220;significantly older&#8221; and those who have &#8220;adultlike accounts.&#8221;</li>
<li>To take another look at how alerts were triggered, I also added myself to my SocialShield account. As I did with my mother, I selected &#8220;Other &#8211; female.&#8221; I received 12 pages of alerts for my own friends, most of which were triggered by &#8220;adultlike accounts.&#8221;</li>
<li>SocialShield was able to find and display 150+ photos of me from Facebook, yet was not able to find any of my daughter&#8217;s 700+ Facebook photos.</li>
<li>SocialShield alerted me to an update posted by one of my daughter&#8217;s friends on her Facebook wall because it included the word <em>head</em>. Of course, each parent needs to evaluate the context on their own. In this instance, her friend was referencing a song which &#8220;got stuck in&#8221; his head.</li>
<li>While I did not request that my mother authorize access to her accounts, SocialShield did tell me that she has (wait for it&#8230;) a MySpace account. Really? My mother, whose 75th birthday is this weekend, is on MySpace? After the laughter subsided, I went to MySpace to search for her. Searching for her name delivered no results. Searching for her email address delivered one result &#8211; a 24 year old male with Tom as his only MySpace friend. Something seems wonky here. It seems someone may have used her email address to set up an account and that SocialShield did a simple search for her email address without any way to verify her identity.</li>
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<h4>The Important Stuff: My Overall Impressions</h4>
<p><strong>Straight to the point, my high-level thoughts:</strong></p>
<ul>
<li>SocialShield and other monitoring tools are gaining traction because there is real risk out there in the online world. The concept is a solid one. Many parents want a quick and, for the less savvy parents, easy way to keep on eye on their kids&#8217; activity.</li>
<li>There is no way to automate parenting. We cannot assign responsibility to software or an online service to do the hard work for us. Nothing replaces having an ongoing dialogue with our children about the world and how to make the right choices. (More on this to come in an upcoming post.)</li>
<li>While the concept may be solid, SocialShield&#8217;s execution needs quite a bit of work  (examples below).</li>
</ul>
<p><strong>Specific concerns (in no particular order):</strong></p>
<ul>
<li>One of the key points in the ReadWriteWeb article was the endorsement of the <a href="http://www.pta.org" target="_blank">PTA</a>. While I was able to find this information repeated on many other websites, I could not find anything about it on either the PTA or the SocialShield websites. If the endorsement is real, I would expect to be able to verify it easily.</li>
<li>The FAQ section should be much more robust. For example, when my results indicated &#8220;adultlike accounts&#8221; for a huge number of my own and my daughter&#8217;s friends, I naturally wanted to understand the meaning of this term. Nowhere on the site is this explained. Does this mean that these people have LinkedIn profiles (which usually means the person is an adult) or that they post porn to their Facebook accounts? I tweeted the question to SocialShield and received this reply: <em>&#8220;An account like costco really should be only for adults, not kids. we may find someone who says he&#8217;s a kid has this=red flag. A red flag like that says there&#8217;s something wrong and you need to look deeper at that person or account. we look at more than fifty sites like this to see if we can find suspicious items.&#8221;</em> I&#8217;m pretty sure it wasn&#8217;t Costco that triggered hundreds of my friends to be labeled as an &#8220;adultlike account,&#8221; but I get the idea. Either way, the triggers and definitions need to be explained in order to be useful to parents.</li>
<li>I think most adults don&#8217;t understand what goes on behind the scenes when granting access through Facebook Connect. It is entirely unreasonable to generate the email shown earlier, send it to a (presumably) young child, expect them to read/understand it and then walk through the Facebook Connect process. There is no way for the parent to know ahead of time what will be sent to the child.</li>
<li>Take the results with a big grain of salt. Given that SocialShield told me it could find no photos of my daughter on Facebook (despite the fact that there are over 700) and that it returned a false positive MySpace result for my mother leads me to question the accuracy of the report.</li>
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<p>These are my initial impressions after using SocialShield for two days. In this time span, the report has shown no new activity even though both my daughter and I (and our friends) have been active online. Obviously, the tool is not intended for short-term use, so you may choose to try it on your own. I look forward to hearing your feedback and experience with this and other similar tools.</p>
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<p>Just a quick post for today as I&#8217;m out of the country with limited internet access, but I wanted to share this email I received from Facebook today.</p>
<p>As you probably know, Facebook has been facing a barrage of complaints regarding their &#8220;public is the new norm&#8221; approach to privacy which resulted in much of your/our content being made public by default. This criticism has come from journalists, users, senators &#8211; pretty much everyone. I&#8217;m hopeful these changes will make it simpler for all users to understand how to control you can see and have access to their information.</p>
<p>Still, please always remember the often-repeated advice:  If you aren&#8217;t prepared for everyone to see your content (information, photo, etc.), you probably shouldn&#8217;t post it online anywhere &#8211; period.</p>
<p>Please share your thoughts, questions and observations in the comments below.</p>
<h4>My email from Facebook:</h4>
<blockquote><p>Hi Irene,</p>
<p>Facebook will roll out changes today that will make it easier for our users to understand and control their privacy settings. As this change will have an impact on our users, we wanted to let you, a valued advertising partner, know about it.</p>
<p> Please note that this change will not affect your advertising campaigns and there is no action required on your part.Facebook is a company that moves quickly, constantly innovating and launching new products to improve the user experience.</p>
<p>The feedback we heard from users was that in our efforts to innovate, some of our privacy settings h ad become confusing. We believe in listening to our users and taking their feedback into account whenever possible. We think the following changes address these concerns by providing users with more control over their privacy settings and making them more simple to use.</p>
<p>Starting today, Facebook will: *Provide an easy-to-use &#8220;master&#8221; control that enables users to set who can see the content they share through Facebook. This enables users to choose, with just one click, the overall privacy level they&#8217;re comfortable with for the content they share on Facebook. Of course, users can still use all of the granular controls we&#8217;ve always offered, if they wish.</p>
<p>*Significantly reduce the amount of information that must be visible to everyone on Facebook. Facebook will no longer require that users&#8217; friends and connections are visible to everyone. Only Name, Profile Picture, Networks and Gender must be publicly available. Users can opt to make all other connections private.</p>
<p>*Make it simple to control whether other applications and websites access any user information. While a majority of our users love Facebook apps and Facebook-enhanced websites, some may prefer not to share their information outside of Facebook. Users can now opt out with just one click.I encourage you to take a moment to read our <a href="http://blog.facebook.com/blog.php?post=391922327130" target="_blank">CEO Mark Zuckerberg&#8217;s blog post</a> and check out the<a href="http://www.facebook.com/privacy/explanation.php" target="_blank"> new Facebook Privacy Page.</a></p>
<p>Thanks,The Facebook Ads Team</p></blockquote>
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<p>David asks,<strong> &#8220;How do I stop receiving an email each time someone connects with me on LinkedIn?&#8221;</strong></p>
<p>Great question, David!</p>
<p>LinkedIn can be a real workhorse when it comes to our networking efforts. The potential benefits are huge, but filtering content can become a challenge. The good news is, like most networking sites, we have the ability to customize how we&#8217;d like to receive information from our connections.</p>
<p>I&#8217;ve recorded a short video demonstrating how to change how you receive these notifications from LinkedIn. Let me know in the comments if this was helpful to you and if you&#8217;ve got other questions.</p>
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<p>To bridge this gap and make sure to catch everyone up so you are ready to get the most out of the O&#8217;Reilly webinar, I am offering another webinar before then to cover all the customization tips and details which are often overlooked.</p>
<p>Be sure to register and mark your calendars for:</p>
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<li>April 20, 10:00 am (Pacific) <a href="http://post.oreilly.com/form/oreilly/viewhtml/9z1zva82o9gbr26m132pomq3t3ngaf359o7cccio2po?utm_content=Webcast+PR+-+LinkedIn&amp;utm_campaign=Webcasts+PR&amp;utm_source=iPost&amp;utm_medium=email&amp;imm_mid=058980&amp;cmp=Webcast+PR+-+LinkedIn" target="_blank">LinkedIn Beyond the Basics &#8211; In partnership with O&#8217;Reilly. This is FREE</a></li>
<li>April 23, 10:00 am (Pacific) LinkedIn Basics Webinar &#8211; <a href="http://www.almostsavvy.com/webinar-training/linkedin/linkedin-1-getting-started/" target="_blank">Regular price $39 (a great deal!) </a> <em>50% Discount code to be shared during O&#8217;Reilly session</em></li>
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<p>What questions or tips would you like to have covered in the sessions? While I probably won&#8217;t be able to cover everything, your input is most helpful as I prepare the best presentation to meet your needs.</p>
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		<description><![CDATA[One of the best ways to learn is to watch others; see what works, what falls flat, what suits your style and what doesn't.

Learning how best to communicate and influence others is no different. Don't we all hope to influence others? Whether it is to market our business, persuade a client, motivate an audience or capture the attention of potential employers, influence is important.]]></description>
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<p><em><a rel="attachment wp-att-1979" href="http://www.almostsavvy.com/2010/04/06/who-influences-you-plus-get-a-free-book/influencer/"><img class="alignright size-medium wp-image-1979" title="influencer" src="http://www.almostsavvy.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/04/influencer-300x247.jpg" alt="" width="210" height="173" /></a></em>One of the best ways to learn is to watch others; see what works, what falls flat, what suits your style and what doesn&#8217;t.</p>
<p>Learning how best to communicate and influence others is no different. Don&#8217;t we all hope to influence others in some way? Whether it is to market our business, persuade a client or vendor, motivate an audience or capture the attention of potential employers, influence is important.</p>
<p>Seizing the opportunity to learn from people and brands who successfully build an audience (and those who miss the mark) allows us to develop our own set of best practices. Gaining traction as an influencer is no simple task. Adding &#8220;Become an influencer&#8221; task to our calendar for next Monday morning will not accomplish anything, at least not with genuine, long-term results.</p>
<p>To further muddy the waters, not only do we have different ideas how to become an influencer, we don&#8217;t all agree on what it means to influence others.</p>
<p>Is being an influencer something we <strong><em>do</em></strong>&#8230;</p>
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<p style="text-align: center;"><a href="http://twitter.com/aribadler" target="_blank"><img class="aligncenter size-medium wp-image-1980" style="border: 5px solid black;" title="influencer tweet 1" src="http://www.almostsavvy.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/04/influencer-tweet-1-300x142.png" alt="" width="300" height="142" /></a></p>
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<p style="text-align: left;">or, is it something we <strong><em>are?</em></strong></p>
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<p style="text-align: center;"><a href="http://twitter.com/milehimama" target="_blank"><img class="aligncenter size-medium wp-image-1981" style="border: 5px solid black;" title="influencer tweet 2" src="http://www.almostsavvy.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/04/influencer-tweet-2-300x106.png" alt="" width="300" height="106" /></a></p>
<p>Think about individuals and brands that influence your thinking, decisions or actions. Who are they and, more importantly, what is it about them that connects you so strongly to them?</p>
<h4>Your Turn: Comments and Free Books!</h4>
<p><em>Courtesy of Dale Carnegie Training to celebrate the release of their <a href="http://bit.ly/dctnews" target="_blank">new iPhone app</a></em><em>,</em><em> I have 10 free copies of &#8216;</em><em><a href="http://search.barnesandnoble.com/How-to-Win-Friends-and-Influence-People/Dale-Carnegie/e/9780671723651" target="_blank">How to Win Friends and Influence Peopl</a></em><em><a href="http://search.barnesandnoble.com/How-to-Win-Friends-and-Influence-People/Dale-Carnegie/e/9780671723651" target="_blank">e</a></em><em>&#8216; to give away as follows: Five will go to the first 5 people who add relevant comments. The remaining 5 will go to those with the best comments (to be selected by members of the <a href="http://www.facebook.com/almostsavvy" target="_blank">AlmostSavvy fan page on Facebook</a>). And, no, you can&#8217;t win 2 books! <img src='http://www.almostsavvy.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' />   Comments posted by April 13 will be considered. Winners will be contacted on April 15, making tax day just a little brighter.</em></p>
<p>Please share! I can&#8217;t wait to learn from your experiences.</p>
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		<description><![CDATA[Hey, you! Yeah, you standing in line at Starbucks using your phone to check-in while waiting to get your daily latte. We need to have a word.

We've been connected for awhile on Twitter and Facebook. I like you, really I do. I enjoy getting to know you better through our connection. I appreciate the information you've shared about your interests and news in your area of expertise.]]></description>
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<p><a href="http://www.almostsavvy.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/03/all-about-me.jpg"><img class="alignright size-medium wp-image-1966" title="all about me" src="http://www.almostsavvy.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/03/all-about-me-200x300.jpg" alt="" width="140" height="210" /></a>Hey, you! Yeah, you standing in line at Starbucks using your <a href="http://www.pcworld.com/article/192803/geolocation_101_how_it_works_the_apps_and_your_privacy.html" target="_blank">phone to check-in</a> while waiting to get your daily latte. We need to have a word.</p>
<p>We&#8217;ve been connected for awhile on Twitter and Facebook. I like you, really I do. I enjoy getting to know you better through our connection. I appreciate the information you&#8217;ve shared about your interests and news in your area of expertise. The great thing about using technology and social networking platforms is that we can easily connect, no matter where we happen to be. See, that&#8217;s the thing&#8230;I don&#8217;t need to know where you at this very moment. I don&#8217;t need to know that you&#8217;re at the market, at the gas station, at work or on the train. In fact, and don&#8217;t take this personally, unless you are someplace really cool or unusual, <strong><em>I probably don&#8217;t want to know</em></strong>.</p>
<p style="text-align: center;"><a href="http://www.almostsavvy.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/03/foursquare-check-in-tweets.png"><img class="aligncenter size-medium wp-image-1963" style="border: 10px solid black;" title="foursquare check-in tweets" src="http://www.almostsavvy.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/03/foursquare-check-in-tweets-177x300.png" alt="" width="177" height="300" /></a></p>
<p>If I wanted to know these things, we&#8217;d be connected on Foursquare so I could follow along as you cruise through town going to meetings and running errands. If I&#8217;ve made the decision to not connect there, why then am I seeing your check-ins in my Twitter stream &#8211; and my Facebook stream &#8211; and often both? And, to make matters worse, since you&#8217;re not sure which service is going to win the geolocation war (see <a href="http://news.cnet.com/8301-13577_3-10466302-36.html" target="_blank">here</a> and <a href="http://techcrunch.com/2010/03/09/twitter-location-website/" target="_blank">here</a>), you&#8217;re using them all. For each stop in your day, you check-in with <a href="http://foursquare.com" target="_blank">Foursquare</a>, <a href="http://gowalla.com" target="_blank">Gowalla</a>, <a href="http://www.brightkite.com" target="_blank">Brightkite</a>, <a href="http://www.loopt.com" target="_blank">Loopt</a>, <a href="http://whrrl.com" target="_blank">Whrrl</a> and others. And it isn&#8217;t just you, there are more and more people doing this. I&#8217;m drowning in a sea of &#8220;I&#8217;m at Panera Bread (Free wifi FTW).&#8221;  I can hardly wait for the Facebook geolocation feature to roll out soon (cue: sarcasm).</p>
<p style="text-align: center;"><a href="http://www.almostsavvy.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/03/right-left-hand-check-ins-tweet.png"><img class="aligncenter size-medium wp-image-1955" style="border: 10px solid black;" title="right left hand check-ins tweet" src="http://www.almostsavvy.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/03/right-left-hand-check-ins-tweet-300x142.png" alt="" width="300" height="142" /></a></p>
<p>The results of my absolutely unscientific poll on Twitter and Facebook were unanimous. I asked people to raise their right hand if they liked seeing others&#8217; check-ins in their social streams; left hand if they didn&#8217;t. Without exception, all I got were left hands. Just a sampling of the replies I received:</p>
<p style="text-align: center;"><a href="http://www.almostsavvy.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/03/check-ins-left-hands-replies.png"><img class="aligncenter size-medium wp-image-1957" style="border: 10px solid black;" title="check-ins left hands replies" src="http://www.almostsavvy.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/03/check-ins-left-hands-replies-300x131.png" alt="" width="300" height="131" /></a><a href="http://www.almostsavvy.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/03/carlainsf-check-ins-tweet.png"></a></p>
<p style="text-align: center;"><a href="http://www.almostsavvy.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/03/carlainsf-check-ins-tweet.png"><img class="aligncenter size-medium wp-image-1958" style="border: 10px solid black;" title="carlainsf check-ins tweet" src="http://www.almostsavvy.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/03/carlainsf-check-ins-tweet-300x135.png" alt="" width="300" height="135" /></a></p>
<p>If you want to keep pushing out all of your check-ins to my social stream, that is certainly your prerogative. Just please understand that I, along with a growing number of like-minded folks, may end up unfollowing and unfriending you, or hiding your updates in our stream. It is disruptive because it makes it more difficult to see the content I really want to see and comes across as being all about you, without regard for those on the other end of your check-ins. Still, it is your choice. If  it is worth it to you to tick off a bunch of your online friends to publicly proclaim that you just earned a <a href="http://foursquare.com/help/badges" target="_blank">GymRat badge on Foursquare</a> and you&#8217;re comfortable with the <a href="http://blogs.zdnet.com/feeds/?p=2607" target="_blank">privacy issues </a>of announcing where you are at every given moment, then more power to you. If it works for you, your friends and audience to publish your check-ins to multiple sites, I hope you won&#8217;t take it personally if I&#8217;m not around to keep tabs on where you&#8217;re having lunch today.</p>
<p>And, finally, to those of who you insist on checking-in while you&#8217;re driving (and I mean driving, not being a passenger) &#8211; stop it, stop it, stop it. No badge, no mayorship, no virtual prize, no free sandwich is worth it. I don&#8217;t care that you&#8217;re at a red light or a toll booth. Stop it. Seriously, stop it! Please, stop it!</p>
<p>With all of these cool online tools, it is time we think about our friends first, ourselves second, lest we find ourselves with fewer friends caring what we have to say. Let&#8217;s remember to ask ourselves how each new application adds value to our network, in addition to simplifying our lives. Just because it&#8217;s hip and fun doesn&#8217;t make it the right thing to do.</p>
<p>Now, put down your phone and enjoy your latte. Carry on and enjoy your day&#8230;<em>wherever it is that you&#8217;re headed</em>.</p>
<p>Your turn. Right hand or your left hand?</p>
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